European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - June 04, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Tuesday june 4, 1091 the stars and stripes a Page .19 Arm Landers dear Ann Landers after 45 years of marriage Jim husband developed re Termi Syi an Ness. For 10 years before his death he had a series of health problems and i was his round the clock nurse. It has taken me several months to get up the courage to write to you Ann but i need advice. my husband Lay in a coma near death a letter arrived addressed to him from a woman i had never heard of. She wrote lovingly of a the Good times we had 20 years ago and said she has been searching for him for a Long time. The purpose of the his up am because she had some Irnpdt-t�?Tdaj1it?-genealogical news that of a alone after \ ri1 i made a copy of the letter rescaled it naked u do ceased band returned it to the sender at that time 1 did t want to know if the woman was implying that a child had resulted from their Clandestine meetings. The thought of such a thing was too much for me to Deal with. But now that i am Able to think More rationally i d like your opinion. If the woman did have my husband child do my Clil a Dren have the right to know that they have a half sister or brother somewhere this of course would dramatic. Cally change the Fine image they have of their father and that would break my heart. Can you help me arrive at a sensible conclusion i m a sure you understand Why i can to talk to anyone else. Weary widow in Brentwood Calif. Dear Friend you did the right thing when you returned the letter to the sender with the notation let that be the end of it. Dear Abby dear Abby about 12 years ago i gave a Beautiful handmade quilt to my Nephew and his wife their wedding gift. I myself and everyone who saw it said it was a work of Art. I did not deliver it myself another relative carried it to my Nephew Home i got a thank you Lor the gift but it was not said that the Gilt was a handmade quilt. ,. To make a Long Story shorten Lew months ago at this nephews Home mid i saw the quilt hanging on a quilt stand in their bedroom i asked who made the stand and my nephews wife said a my brother made the stand and my grandmother made the asked a where the one i gave you a she said a this the Only one we have a still Hurt in Ohio dear still Hurt it have Hurt to have enclosed a gift card with the quilt with a Brief message a made with love from aunt to a since this irritating you Why done to you set the record straight and Tell your Nephew and his wife that you made the quilt that was delivered to them by Aneth i would be highly suspicious of a woman it 20 years to Tell a Man that he fathered her have nothing to gain by letting this person Fitio your life and in my opinion it could Lead to endless trouble. Burn the copy of the letter and put it out of your mind. Dear Ann Landers. Your recent column about a dentists wife who wrecked her husband practice certainly hit Home. Quot a management consultant who has specialized in problems of the medical Community for More than 20 years i can Tell you that letter spoke volumes. In to amp syst majority of i have handled the. ?tftts\tiysi9ag,.s wife amp to worked in the office was a $ and Cap. Pc ice p t Ion her presence., Ere ,a1ed re so n t Nieh t Triin n g o t he r employees or the patients. On the occasions when i have recommended that the wife of a dentist by a physician not be allowed to work with her husband there was a great Deal of anger. Thai advice Cost me several management contracts in situations where the wife had the last sword. 1 please advise physicians and dentists to hire competent people and maintain a professional environment around the office. Their patients Are entitled to no less. In masking that you not print my name and address Ann if it were known that 1 wrote this letter it could damage me professionally. A steady Reader dear steady you can be sure that somewhere in this world there Are notable exceptions to your Rule and i Cun gun ran tee you that 1 will. Hear from them telling me i am crazy. Generally speaking however t agree that your position a sound one and i support it. A c creators Syndicate inc. \ a a a or relative who took the credit for having made it dear Abby Quot Quot _. The copy of Quot please Goti m Only 17�?� appeared in today a Chicago Tribune and its appearance was very timely. Just yesterday 1 confiscated my 17-year-old songs Drivers License after overhearing a conversation Wilh a Friend in which he boasted of doing 60 in a 45-mile zone on a Small residential country Road. I did t know yet How Long 1 would keep it or what else i might have him do in order to make an impression i decided upon the following course of action after Reading your column. 1 clipped it. And gave it to him with the following. A dear John v a a a v a a quo when you copy this Little piece a please god in a Only 17�?T 25 times in your neatest writing and on Good paper and prominently display All 25 copies in your bedroom nope make an extra two copies one for each car you May have your License Back. John this called Tough love. Remember it. You May have to use it some Day with one of your own children. I love you. Momy. Thanks Abby. / Toni Weaver Melhenry. Ill. A. C Universal press Syndicate today a crossword across 1 River in a Asia 5 downfall 9 Tennis stroke 12 barbed or a a a live ,. Follower 13 vocal Range 14 Ripen 15 Caine a Domain 17 new Deal a 18 facts and figures 19 a Don 1 sit a the Apple tree./. 21 he was Charlie Chan a 24 math sign 25 Israel. Abba 26 revolver. Muffler 30 eternity 31 choir plums �?T32 map abbr. 33 acted a Concilia. Tor a a 35 a planet of the a Quot a 36 repairs the Lawn Down 20 Convent 37 import Ian 1 pointed Dweller occur tool 21 abound Ronce. 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