European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - June 18, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Tuesday june 18, 1991 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i am trying to recover from the worst thing that can happen to a woman. Rape. Because i was totally ignorant about the subject my new Mission in life is to help educate others. A traditional source of strength for a rape victim the Church May not be viewed by some As a viable option. This is unfortunate. I did no to want to go near a Church after i was raped because according to my Early religious training there were Only three types of women a Virgin married or whore. No provision was made for victim nos of rape. A a a. I thought that was where i stood with god and spent too Many years punishing myself for having a fallen from  then one Day it dawned on me that those teachings were the work of people and that god did not blame me for being a victim. Please keep talking about this Ann. Your column is a National Clearinghouse for information and a real source of strength. L.c.r., Davis Calif. Dear Davis thank you for writing a letter that is certain to help a great Many women. And May i add one important footnote if it happens the victim should get proves today a crossword dear Abby dear Abby i recently Felt a Lump in my breast. It does no to really Hurt but i know its there. I stand a very Good Chance of haying cancer because my Mother passed away five years ago with breast cancer. Right now in a trying to handle it on my own i watched my Mother die a very slow and painful death but just the thought of going to a doctor scares me. On the other band if i do go to a doctor and he says its cancer he might have to remove my breast and if he does in a scared my husband might not love me anymore or he might leave me. What should i do scared to death dear scared 4 do not wait another minute Call your doctor. Early detection has saved the lives of Many with cancer. I am sorry you did no to sign your name because i want very much to talk to you. Please write again after you be seen the doctor. Dear Abby after nearly 10 years of marriage i told my husband i was leaving. Before i even found a place to move to he kicked me out. After i relocated we started seeing each other again and within a week we were Back where we started a fighting. They say there a a very Fine line Between love and hate. I still done to know which Side in Mon. I have filed for divorce but i feel lonely and Hurt. Signal help immediately. This is too big of a Battle for a woman to fight by herself. Dear Ann Landers in a sure you will receive letters saying a my baby was supposed to Start his measles mumps rubella shots at 15 months but i put it off. Now he has the measles and we have been told he might become  please Ann Tell parents to get their children immunized when they Are 15 months old. It can be a matter of life and death. Last year 97 children died of measles an illness that could have been prevented with a single shot. Please Ann remind parents that babies need the Protection of the measles mumps rubella vaccine at 15 months and that they should begin a series of diphtheria shots and polio vaccine by age 2 months. If measles is going around doctors May advise getting the vaccine As Early As 6 to 9 months. Another important vaccine is the so called hib vaccine that protects against the leading cause of bacterial meningitis which often sweeps Day care centers and could cause brain damage or  James o. Mason . Head of . Public health service dear or. Mason no one could have said it better. C creators Syndicate. He Quot was fantastic in bed and just the thought of being intimate with another Man nauseated me. Also Why risk aids for sex that May not be any  after 10 years i  even know How to act on a Date. I can to live with him but i can to live without him. Is this Normal for someone who has just split up or do i need help in limbo in Tacoma dear in limbo not being Able to live with or without someone is an old refrain i hear often. Your feelings arc Normal a and you do need help. Get professional counselling. If Money is a problem for you Check with your local Owca and ask if they offer free counselling. Dear Abby As parents of children who Are 35 and 44, it seems awkward a even ridiculous a to refer to them As a your child or a your  in current usage a a a child is a very Young person. In searching for a More grown up word for them we finally agreed on a sch ult a a contraction of child and adult a or a pc Hultse for adult children. What do you and your readers think Ohio parents dear parents i doubt if a sch ult would catch on. When referring to your adult offspring Why not say a a our Sony or a your daughter a. C Universal press Syndicate across 1 teachers aide for Short 5 let the a out of the bag 8 1958 Sci i movie. 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