European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - July 3, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Wednesday july 3, 1991 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers you recently printed a letter from a Mother who wanted to know How she could divorce or Dis own her drug addicted 28-year-old son. I believe there Are Many of us who walk in her shoes. My problem has been going on for 20 years. My son was 13 when he started on marijuana. For the last five years he has been using cocaine i have made Manatte nips to get him out of my Home and out of my life i even told him that he is never to step foot in my House again. But he is still Here. The problem is mine i guess because you can never Stop being a Mother praying thet some Miracle will happen and that he will Stop using drugs and be of again. It but it just goes on and on. Each payday its the same Story. He spends every Dollar on drugs. I kick him out of the House and six hours later he a Back begging. I weaken and let him come Home. He never thinks of Money for food Gas or cigarettes. His whole life is drugs. Time goes on and we All get older but nothing changes. There Are no solutions to this problem until drugs Are no longer available on every Street Corner of this country. My heart goes out to All those people who have someone they love on drugs. If destroyed my family. The Only real solution is to a let go and let god and then try to save what is left of your life. A.a., Warren Ohio dear . In be heard your Story dozens of times but i still can feel the pain of those who write. I realize what a diff dear Abby dear Abby now that vacation season has begun will you please answer a question Many people must have wondered about every room in a hotel or Motel has the management so a rights posted. But what about the rights of the people renting that room recently my husband and i stopped in a Small Motel in Dade City Fla. After we checked in we Learned that 10 of the 20 rooms were occupied by members of a family having a reunion they pulled their cars into a Circle in the parking lot turned up their radios got out their coolers and had a party. The noise and the laughter could have awakened the dead. And it went on until 2 . Several of the other guests complained but the owner sort of shrugged and indicated a too one Man with a new York tag said he will never come to Florida again which seemed a bit extreme a but we were All furious. Abby Are there rights for travellers in a Motel unaffiliated with a Chain a unhappy traveler quibble ?. Are you going a / tdth6 big few i works it Stem j a tomorrow j no. I of onto think i could a the it How could you he it an we some dts Alrh like that on the 41h of 4t Lye i Dunno. After the chewing out x just got from s6t mom it seems some what cult situation this is but done to give up Hope. Organizations such As families Anonymous and Tough love have helped others in your situation. For in formation write to Tough love Box 1069, Doylestown a. 18901 or families Anonymous . Box 528, Van Guys Calif. 91408. Dear Ann Landers i was disgusted with that Man who wrote a women will do anything to get married including become pregnant threaten suicide change religions abandon children take on a second Job and pretend to enjoy sex when they get nothing out of what kind of male fantasy is this bag it will you not Only is that statement unfair its untrue. In a no knockout but when i was in High school. Dad had to kick boys off our porch every night. So to these plagued mothers whose sons get no rest because the girls Are chasing them f say grab a clue. Crushes Are not about clinically insane sex hungry girls. And they sure As hell Arentt about How your son is the second coming. Be patient mom i Promise it will Wear off. This constant yakking about How women arc obsessed with men has driven me to the Edge. Of course females of All Ages have been known to fall madly in love with some Clown who care Jess but an equal number of Young Bucks and old ones too go bananas Over an empty headed Peanut brain with a Blouse full of goodies. Please Ann Stop contributing to a weary stereotype. Its Boring. Quot . Student in Ann Arbor dear fed up neither sex has a monopoly on being goofy in love but my mail tells me that More women make fools of themselves Over men than vice versa. Of go ahead and be mad but this is the Way i Sec it. C creators Syndicate dear unhappy whether a Motel is affiliated with a Chain or not it owes its occupants an atmosphere suitable for sleeping. Occasionally even the a fast motels will have a noisy occupant but the management usually makes an honest Effort to quiet the disturbance. Sorry you picked a Lemon. Next time before you Register ask whether there Are any conventions booked during your stay. I once stayed at a hotel on prom night a and the revelry rivalled that of new years eve dear Abby a wrong Guy in Cleveland a who gets numerous messages on his answering machine from people who have dialled his number by mistake should record a new message. A suggestion a you have reached Pennsylvania 65000. Please leave your name and Telephone number and your Call will be returned As soon As possible. Wait for the a right Guy in Elizabeth . 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