European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - August 19, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Ann Landers monday August 19, 1991 the stars and stripes a Page 19today s crossword dear readers i am on vacation but i have left behind some of my favorite columns that you May have missed the first time around. 1 Hope you enjoy them. Ann Landers dear Ann Landers from time to time you have expressed the personal opinion that it is impolite and inconsiderate for people to drop in uninvited. Please let me take this Opportunity to Tell All my friends that they have a standing invitation to my Home anytime a Day or night. If it happens to be mealtime i can always throw on another hamburger or two and add some water to the soup. I consider an unexpected visit a compliment. And believe it or not in a not a lonesome old lady. In a a 23-year-old male. My friends also know they can borrow anything i have. Its theirs for the asking. I have yet to run into anyone who took advantage of me. If a Friend gets into a Jam and needs Money he or she knows that i will be More than Happy to help out. They can pay me Back whenever it is convenient. Maybe it will take a year or More a Small amounts at a time. But i never turn Down a Friend and in be never been stuck. What is life All about if a person can to extend a helping hand and keep his door and his heart open to dear Abby editors note Abby is on a two week vacation. Following is a selection of some of her favorite past letters dear Abby a few months ago i had some plumbing done. Because of some financial troubles i Wasny table to pay the Bill within 30 Days. Yesterday i received another Bill with a note from the plumbers wife who does his bookkeeping. It read a Jim does not expect to take this Bill out in Trade so please remit a and she signed her name. I sent a Check for the full amount and enclosed the following note a i was not aware that your husband was in the habit of taking his Bills out in Trade but if he does i feel very sorry for  and i signed my name. My son saw the note from the plumbers wife to me and recommended that i take it to a lawyer and sue the woman for slander. What would you do insulted dear insulted i would Send her a get Well card. She is sick. I would also let the plumber know what kind of statements his wife is sending out with his statements those in need walk on in and sit right Down dear or. Great heart that was some letter. How come you did no to sign your name How will people know where to walk on in and sit right Down and at any hour of the Day or night yet. You re a moneylender too and you be never been stuck Well May it be Ever thus pal. 1 am not criticizing your philosophy. Its Beautiful. But in a not even going to till anyone what state you live in. Dear Ann Landers i done to think in be Ever read about my problem in your column. Its actually a confession prompted by the letter from the child who Felt a left out Quot because her parents favored her older sister. I am the guilty party a and my mothers parents were the victims. I liked my other set of grandparents better and was very outspoken about my preference a Evein through my teen years when i should have known better. I can remember now How i went out of my Way to show favouritism to my younger set of grandparents. 1 can still see the Hurt look on the faces of the two i ignored. Ill regret it to my dying Day. Regrets regrets dear . Here a your letter. Perhaps someone will learn from it. C creators Syndicate inc dear Abby i am writing about the number of women who have written to you saying a How can i get a Guy interested in me without having it look like in a chasing him a first off i am a 21-year-old College Man who would like some reasonable answers to the following questions 1. Why can to a woman ask a Guy out for a Date As a male i would Welcome women who find me attractive enough to ask me out. Believe me Abby in a fairly attractive myself and get my share of dates but i see nothing wrong with women being on an equal basis with men when it comes to the dating game. 2. Why can to a woman be the aggressive one if she so chooses 3. Why is it a a wrong for a woman to pursue men ., Bronx n y. Dear  Where have you been plenty of women ask men out. More women ask men a Over a however because there is no Tab to pick up which takes the pressure Oft both of them. And Many women Are aggressors. They done to apologize for it. Nor should they. 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