European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - September 16, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 20 a the stars and stripes monday september 16,1991 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i realize that you have printed several letters in an Effort to Shore up a Florida wreck a the woman whose husband after 17 years of marriage left her for an old flame he ran into at a 20-year High school reunion. I Hope you will find room for one More from a male. A a wreck needs to know that once she gets Over the Shock she will be Able to think rationally. She needs to give herself time. High school reunions Are not the Only catalysts for such behaviour. My wife ran off with a member of her Folk dancing group. Until she was gone i never realized How unhappy i was and what a poor marriage we had. Having survived the experience i feel qualified to give a a wreck some advice View this As a Golden Opportunity to Start Over. Listen to your inner voice that says you re better off without him. Throw out the garbage. There Are some terrific men out there who would appreciate a woman who will play fair. I know because i am one of them. . In Madison wis. Dear Madison thank you for reopening this subject. A great Many readers had a lot More to say and asked to be heard. Read on dear Ann Landers please Tell a a wreck in Florida that she will get Over it but its going to take time. After 23 years of marriage my husband dumped me for a 20-year-old Moron whose brains Are in her Bra. After this happened my friends wised me up. It seems that he had been running around with baby Sitters car hops and other jail bait types for is years. At last count today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby in be been waiting for years to see a letter like the one from a bin she said she faked orgasms in a glad to know in a not the Only woman who does this. Now ill feel less like a Freak. Please print All the letters you get on the subject. Sacramento Faker dear Faker i could not believe the volume of mail. Read on dear Abby of course i fake it. All women do. 1 adore my husband but he find my erogenous zone with a Road map so i go through the motions to keep from hurting his masculine ego. A deserves an Academy award dear Abby most men have the Rabbit habit hop on hop off. Athletes know that in order to perform Well they must warm up first perform then Cool Down. The act of making love is no different. If men followed these instructions women have to fake it. Midwest coach the rat had cheated on me with at least 11 teen age girls. I feel of now thanks to some wonderful counselling. Every Day it gets a Little easier. My children have been Beautiful and life is getting Good again. The worst part was that i was such a fool not to have recognized the signs. 1 want to Tell All the women who read your column that if something does no to feel right in your marriage do some investigating. It May be painful to learn the truth but it will set you free. Charleston survivor dear Charleston thanks for some excellent advice. Here a More dear Ann Landers a Florida wreck could have been me right Down to the number of years she had been married and the number of children. This is for her expect to go through hell for a while but everything will be of. Hold yourself together for the children a Sake. Be Strong enough for them to lean on. Remember they too Are bewildered let Down and feel betrayed. The Best thing i did was pack them in the car and head for a Long vacation. I wanted them to know that we were still a family and could have fun together. I cried behind my sunglasses most of the Way and i was scared to death. But i knew if i could survive the traffic in Boston i could live through anything done to get involved in a rebound marriage. The general Rule is to give it one or two years. I say that a not Long enough. Four or five is More like it. Its wonderful to Date but steer Clear of another lifetime commitment. 1 did no to and regretted it. Keep the kids in touch with their father. In fact push it. They need him in their lives. Down the Road you la know it was the right thing to do. love and respect you for it. Mine did. Louisville c creators Syndicate dear Abby my Darling is 65 and he a still making it. In a 63 and still faking it. When i read about these men who Are still Active at 85,1 shudder. I done to think i could survive another 20 years of this. Dear god done to they Ever Wear out Long Island Faker dear Abby married for 22 years. Been faking it for 20. Chattanooga a a actress dear Abby i fake it just to get it Over with. Sex never was As important to me As it is to my husband a but its so Good for his ego id never let on that All my wild carrying on was an act. We be been married for 44 years. He a faithful and so am i and ours is a Loving solid marriage Canadian Faker dear Abby i am 33 and my husband is 28. He a a wonderful Man but a Lousy Lover. I done to dare get him too excited or its All Over before its begun. We be been married for six years and we really love each other so i can live with it. 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