European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - October 4, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i am a newlywed working full time and my husband and i have been figuring out How to Divide the chores. He a in construction and does no to have the Energy to expend doing housework. We tried Many different ways to Divide the House hold chores fairly but nothing seemed to work. He just does no to like housework. I done to like it either and furthermore done to want to be burdened with All of it myself. It did no to seem fair that i had to do it All while working at my regular Job so we agreed to hire a maid to come in every two weeks. Although it was affordable i got to thinking about Why i resented doing the housework a it Wasny to so much that i hated the chores but that it Wasny to my Job. I already have a 9-to-5 Job. I thought if i were being paid for the work i would feel it was my Job and mind it so much. The a House account now gives me $30 a week for my three hours of chores. In be been doing this for six months now without complaint and love the extra spending Money. Ill bet if you printed this a lot of working wives would pick up on the a a a mine get idea and it could help their marriages As it did . In san Francisco dear san fran w what an excellent solution to a Pesky problem. It certainly is unique. Thanks a Heap for sharing. Dear Ann Landers i know you have received Many letters from parents who have runaway children. But in be never seen a letter in your column about runaway Abby dear Abby my husband and i have been happily married for nearly five years and have two adorable children. We Are Best friends get along great and have a terrific sex life. My problem when a sexy looking woman comes on television i change the Channel. This infuriates my husband. He is normally not a violent Man but he gets so angry he looks As if he could strangle me. This is the Only thing we Ever fight about. I can to stand to see the Way he looks at women with Low Cut dresses or miniskirts. Yesterday he was watching a Beauty pageant and when All the Young women came out in their Bikini bathing suits i thought his eyes were going to fall out of his head. A Abby. Can you blame me for changing the Channel a jealous dear jealous yes. If your marriage has survived five years of Channel changing because of your jealousy your husband must love you very much. Grow up. The problem Isnit your husbands a its yours. Since you can to stand to see him appreciating the Friday october 4, 1991 my mom left town six years ago without a phone Call letter or anything. She just disappeared. It took me a Long time to accept the fact she Wasny to returning. This has been terribly hard on me. I worry about her constantly. My children miss their grandmother. I done to know if mom is sick or Well or if she a in trouble in jail or what. Every time i see someone on the Street who looks like mom i stare hoping its her. To make matters worse my father walked out on us too. When he and mom got divorced he broke All ties with us. He married again and has a new family. I located dad a few years ago. He said he still loves us but he can to have anything to do with his old family because he has a new life now and we should forget him. Please Tell All the parents who read your column that the family does no tend when the kids Are grown. We need them in our lives forever. S.f., Riverside Calif. Dear Riverside what a sad letter. You be presented your Case eloquently and in a sure the message got through. Please let me know if you hear anything. Dear Ann Landers my Boss constantly rattles his pocket change. When its just the two of us i can kindly ask him to Stop. But when he a with other people i just cringe. Once while he was making a speech i was embarrassed to death because the microphone was picking up the rattle. How can i get him to break this annoying habit rattled in Santa Barbara dear rattled your Boss needs to be weaned off the habit. He should carry his change in his suit coat pocket and keep some gum balls in his pants pocket for gum balls make very Little noise. C creators Syndicate sight of a provocative female on television you should leave the room. Dear Abby i have had this problem for years and it keeps getting worse my teen. I have no dental plan and i am unemployed right now. Abby i hide my Teeth 24 hours a Day. If someone talks to me i turn my head and pretend to be interested in something to one Side so he wont see my Teeth. I done to even Brush my Teeth in front of a Mirror because i get too depressed. I often have dreams about my Teeth falling out with All my friends watching and laughing. Its a living Nightmare. Abby i feel like my life is going nowhere. If i could just get my Teeth fixed a whole new world would open up to me. Meanwhile in a. Keeping my Mouth shut dear keeping schools of dentistry As Well As state and local dental societies operate dental clinics where Low Cost a or free a dental care is available for those who qualify. Your county dental society should be listed in your Telephone directory. And any dentist can refer you to the nearest dental College. Do not delay. Your general health can be undermined by infected Gums and decaying Teeth. C Universal press Syndicate the stars and stripes today a crossword quibble 1 Are lot s0�e\ / that ims thing \ a it Ltd the 611460 1 Veadies 13 Over Ink too v sore j Evv Tes. In a sure y i a s t a a a Motley in considering this contract with Drudge industries i Imine Ted or. Dru pee. Across Johnson no poly Quot 1 Lawn 43 Bagel Money care need Topper maker 6 burst 44 exam Down 9 Box office variety 1 seeing sign 45 Quot jeep red 12 Spanish Ardy 2 breakfast province 13 Keats an emcee for 47 Sutler a Brutus creation woe 3 sans 14haavy 40 future 4gsn. Weight Oak Robt. 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