European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - November 4, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 20 a the stars and stripes monday november 4, 1991 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers when i was 13, i wrote to you about a crush that i had on a kid at school and now 1 am writing again. In a 34. This time its in response to Quot baffled parents who feel unappreciated by their children. That letter hit me hard. Too Many children fail to appreciate their parents while they Are still living. I m thankful its not too late for me. I know now How hard mom and dad worked to give us kids the things they never had. They weren to perfect but then neither were we. In a thankful i still have my parents so i can try to repay them for the sacrifices they made when i was growing up. Boston dear Boston thanks for your response. That letter certainly hit a hot Button. Surprisingly the mail ran 20-to-l against your Point of View. Read on from Albuquerque . To those adults who Are now blaming their parents for the Way they turned out 1 say a if you done to like what you Are change  spending life being miserable and blaming your parents is a cop out from Phoenix the letter from a baffled parents Quot questioning the Quot current trends of adult children to blame their parents Lor everything that went wrong in their lives really got to me. I say its about time parents were made accountable for the Way they raise their children. I lived in a Home where parents screamed obscenities and there was alcohol Fulcd violence and broken  s crossword dear Abby dear Abby it is again time for the operation dear Abby America remembers Campaign and the great work it does for our service members stationed overseas a and for the first time Here at Home. From my years of experience As a Navy fighter Pilot i know the importance of the operation dear Abby America remembers Campaign. A supportive card or letter to a Young Man or woman serving our nation can make Alt the difference in the world. Operation dear Abby America remembers played a major role during operation desert storm and we need a it keep the momentum going with the America remembers Quot adopt a unit Quot program. For years schools groups and communities have been Able to Quot adopt . Military units stationed overseas. Now for the first time Ever thanks to the armed services Myca local units in the United states can be  not All the troops stationed Here in the United states get to go Home for the holidays school groups and communities can Quot adopt a Shi or unit for the holidays by sending a stumped self a dressed business size envelope no. 10 envelope to operation dear Abby America remembers co Taco quibble Keveri i01ll Vou shop fidgeting ugh fat do Foo Hern 1mat #00 cent heft it Uell if wevn6 fallen asleep none Inch. If i move rom Dien Ihu 3hrue1mi1 the stan0m6 on will site of both. Once i said to my Mother Quot this family Isnit  she replied Quot How do you know have you Ever lived with any other family a it took years of therapy to straighten out my life. From Chicago just because parents put their kids through College does no to mean they Are wonderful. I was always told by my parents How Lucky i was because dad made Good Money and we had everything we wanted. In my Early 20s, i sought help for chronic depression and Learned that As far Back As my preschool Days my father was an alcoholic and sadistic in the bargain. He would pull my hair twist my arms All in fun he claimed and once when he was Quot trying to teach me to swim he held my head under water until i nearly drowned let your readers know that child abuse among the wealthy is just As painful As it is among the poor. From Beverly Hills Calif my College Sophomore son came Home for the weekend and out of the Blue he listed All the things i had done to make him an emotional cripple. He said his therapist opened his eyes. Ann in a such a wreck from that kids attack on me that in a thinking of going into therapy myself. The Bible said it Best a sharper than a serpents tooth. From Dallas i was a co dependent from a dysfunctional Home and this is not  six years of therapy helped me overcome Low self esteem depression suicidal thoughts and the inability to form close relationships. The first thing my therapist said was a a it a nobody s fault. It s up to you to fix  i know now i must take charge of my life and i am doing just that. C creators Syndicate inc. Bell corp., 17901 von Karman Irvine Calif. 92714. Each group will receive a newsletter and other materials on the unit it  once again dozens of volunteers from Taco Bell will process the incoming material. As the first honorary National chairman of the America remembers Campaign i want to say Quot Well done to America remembers Taco Bell and to you and your readers. Randy Quot Duke Cunningham honorary National chairman 1991 America remember Campaign. Dear Abby i am a 79-year-old woman living at the California state veterans Home in the Beautiful Napa Valley. One of the first questions in masked when i Tell people that i live at the veterans Home is a ooh was your husband a Veteran a Abby i proudly served As a master sergeant in the . Army during world War ii and in the korean conflict. When will people learn that women Are veterans too Abby perhaps if you publish this it will serve to remind Lions of people that there Are women veterans too. Martha l. Walker yountv1lle, Calif. Dear Martha consider in done. C Universal press Syndicate across 1 cobblers tool 4�? 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