European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 4, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Wednesday december 4, 1991 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landers dear Abby after 10 years of a great marriage and three Lovely children my wife turned cold. When i asked her what was wrong she said a i have no feelings for you. People change. I can to help what 1  she said she thought of me As a brother and suggested that we try to be friends. She also said it was t my fault a that she never should have married anyone. I could t understand what went wrong and she would t discuss it. I was miserable and sought counselling. She refused to come with me. I was advised that this sounded like a midlife crisis and to a hang in  in spite of my efforts Over the past five years she continues to be cold and critical often in front of the children. You guessed it. My wife finally admitted that she is involved in a lesbian relationship. She claims to be bisexual and wants out of our a dead  Ann there a a Home with children involved. My wife wont move out and i refuse to leave the children with her. Although she says the physical aspect of her relationship is Oyer the woman visits our Home daily. Our children Don t know of the affair and think this frequent visitor is a family Friend. My wife is a super Mother and she and this woman get along really Well with the kids. The Law Here is now a no fault when it comes to divorce and custody. I refuse to give up my children. I can to kick my wife out even though i am subjected to constant emotional abuse. She refuses to leave the children and says she is Content to share the House As  believe it or not i would still like to re establish today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby you recently published several letters on the Kent state killings that reflected your readers prejudices not the facts As determined by the official investigative bodies particularly the presidents commission on Campus unrest. Some of the myths your readers cling to cannot be adequately addressed in a Short column but i would at least like to set the record straight on a few Points 1. The anti Vietnam War rally that the National guard broke up at Kent state was peaceful until the guard made what the commission called a a highly questionable decision to disperse the crowd. The commission concluded a there was no apparent impending violence. Only when the guard attempted to disperse the rally did some students react  2. Although the guardsmen were subsequently subjected to some abuse including some Rock throwing the notion that the guardsmen had to fire because their lives were endangered by an uncontrollable mob was also disputed by every official investigation. The Justice department concluded the shootings were a neither necessary nor  similarly the presidents com marriage with my wife. In a sure she is having severe emotional problems. I need advice. A Minn dear Minn you say you have sought counselling and the therapist has suggested that you a be  i d say five years is a lot of patience. If your wife has a lesbian relationship going chances Are slim that you can revive your marriage. If you want a less stressful life you la have to dissolve your marriage and fight for your children. Good Luck to 3ii of you. Dear Ann Landers my son is a senior in High school and on the varsity football team. After a recent game we All went to a Well known fast food place and the whole team lined up at the counter. When the server took my order she asked if i wanted the senior citizens discount. I am 54 years of age i was humiliated to death and so was my son. You know How sensitive teen agers can be about their parents. Needless to say i will never step foot inside that place again. In my opinion this was an invasion of my privacy and in the worst possible taste. If people want the senior citizens discount they should have the option of asking for it. Please print this letter. Maybe if businesses see they Are losing customers when their stupid employees Embarrass the clientele they will Stop this practice. Keep age out of it in Vermont dear Vermont no customer should be asked if he or she wants the. Seniors discount unless alone since that question could be an embarrassment. I see no problem however if the customer is unaccompanied. In fact it could be viewed As a favor. C Creatore Syndicate inc. Mission concluded the killings were a unnecessary unwarranted and  3. The students who were killed were not the same students who were responsible for the burning of the University s army Roth building or any other act of violence that occurred in the City of Kent the weekend before May 4, 1970. 4. On May 4, two of the four students who were killed had participated in the demonstration and May have at some Point thrown rocks at the soldiers. The other two an Roth student and a woman student carrying books to class were strictly bystanders. The Justice department concluded that because All four fatalities were located More than 300 feet from the firing soldiers none was a in a position to pose even a Remote danger to the National guard at the time of the  William a. Gordon author the fourth of a y killings and cover ups at Kent state prometheus books 1990 dear or. Gordon thank you for setting the record straight. 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