European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 11, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Wednesday december 11, 1991 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers you recently printed a letter from a woman whose life sounded truly tragic. Two of her children had died in a car Accident her husband had deserted her and she had attempted suicide twice. Through counselling and determination she managed to turn her life around. Her letter provided Hope for other women in similar situations. In a sure you Felt that printing her letter would be helpful to others who Are struggling to recover from tragedies but unfortunately by identifying the writer so specifically you also identified me. I am that woman sex husband. The a a facts As presented in my former wife a letter Are not totally accurate. I did not desert her. We divorced because of her inability to control her hostile physically abusive treatment of me. The More i tried to help her the More she turned against me. After our children died our relationship became hopeless. In addition to our other problems she Felt an enormous amount of guilt since she was driving at the time of the Accident and was found to be partially at fault. I shall not elaborate on the details of our divorce because i done to want to cause my sex wife additional today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby i am writing this As a follow up to the letter i wrote you in june about my 13-year-old daughter. I told you she was getting dangerously close to the Boyfriend she had been seeing morning noon and night i took your advice and spoke to her about sex. I purchased at the local drugstore several forms of birth control condoms contraceptive sponge and vaginal suppositories. 1 also bought something called a a teen pack a which contained several trial size items introducing Young females to such things As tampons min pads Max pads shaving lotion and razors for shaving legs. When 1 got Home 1 invited my daughter to join me at the Kitchen table. My husband was working late that night so it was a perfect Opportunity for girl talk. I lined up the contraceptive devices on the table. My daughter was a bit curious. I gave her the teen pack telling her that All the items in that package were things that we had discussed. Then i pointed to the other items on the table and said they were items that we needed to talk about. 1 carefully explained to her that now that she had become a Young woman having a monthly period she could become pregnant if she had sex. I then told her that i was in no Way condoning sex in someone As Young As she but that i wanted her to be informed. I then took each product and explained How it was used and showed her the directions and How to Check the expiration Date on the product. After that i opened each package and let her touch the device examine it and ask questions. Pain. But your column had a devastating effect on the already difficult struggle to rebuild my life and i Felt 1 needed to write to you and set the record straight. D.l., Festus to. Dear . Here a your letter. I appreciate the Opportunity to let you Tell your Side of the Story. Thanks for writing. Dear Ann Landers based on experience i have some Friendly advice for would be parents. Please Don t have children for the following reasons 1. To please your parents. 2. To get a second Chance to live your life through your child. 3. To find unconditional love. 4. To have financial support in your old age. 5. To strengthen a shaky marriage. Parenthood has been an enriching experience for my husband and me but i m glad we waited several years before starting our family. L.m., Littleton Colo. Dear Colorado you be written a letter that deserves to be taken seriously c creators Syndicate i made sure she was aware that even if you Are on the birth control Pill that still did not Stop sexually transmitted diseases such As aids. 1 told her that Safe sex with condoms could not completely guarantee the prevention of pregnancy or disease but that the Only Way to ensure not getting pregnant or a sexually transmitted disease was not to have sex. I then took the remaining products and placed them in a Box in her bathroom closet. I told her i would not Check the Box but if she Ever Felt a need to Experiment that they would be there. 1 stressed to her to always feel that she could come to me before making any decisions that could change her life forever. And i made some important Points to her that truly hit Home i pointed out that she was too Young to obtain a Drivers License too Young to drink too Young to get a Job and too Young to be responsible for the life of another human being. I reminded her that if she were to have a child her education and social life would cease until such time that she could afford a baby Sitter to resume her studies and social activities. I realize this letter is lengthy but i wanted you to know How i dealt with this Issue. My daughter after our talk has been a different person i Trust my daughter and your advice was a big help in dealing with a very difficult situation. I realize that 1 have a Long Way to go in completing the journey through her teen years but i feel that we As a family will survive. I am truly grateful Abby. Thank you. North Dakota mom dear mom every daughter should have a Mother like you. C a Universal press Syndicate across 1 quitters group 4 Tabby or Tiger 7 Span. 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