European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - January 23, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday january 23, 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 15 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers a while Back one of your readers wrote about How her husband discovered his Long lost love at a High school reunion. It ended their marriage. I am panic stricken that this May happen to me. Years ago my husband had a dream girl whom he hoped to marry. She chose someone else. A a Nick used to talk a great Deal about this wonderful first love but it never bothered me. We have been married six years and have a child. In be always trusted my husband and never Felt threatened. A few weeks ago Nick won an award that resulted in some publicity. This woman found out where he is and has called him at Home several times leaving messages. She also has written. I read and destroyed the letters and never gave him the messages. She is divorced and says she made a mistake and now needs him to be her Friend. In a sure that eventually she will connect with him. I done to think Nick would leave me for her but i believe he might be tempted to have an affair. That would destroy me and our family. I feel terrible keeping this knowledge from my husband but i keep hoping she will give up. What should i do i can to eat or sleep. I love Nick and can to share him with this romantic attachment from the past. Please help me. Faithful Reader in Connecticu today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby if a Man asks his Secretary out to dinner with the implication that they will spend the night together is he then guilty of sexual harassment if he uses the exact same wording to invite his wife out to dinner is he guilty of sexual harassment if not does it mean that a woman loses a part of her constitutional rights by the very act of getting married if the wife says a not tonight dear i have a headache a and he persists can she have him arrested for rape a worried male in new Mexico dear new Mexico male if a Man asks his Secretary out to dinner with the implication that they will spend the night together he is not guilty of sexual harassment unless the Secretary says a a not to spending the night and he uses his position of Power to persuade her to change her mind. And whether the woman is a wife or Girlfriend if she says a no a the answer should be no. Being married to a person does not entitle the mate to sexual favors. Both parties must be willing or its no go. The same holds True with a not tonight dear i have a a woman does not even have to have a headache. If she says a a not because she does no to feel like it a its still no. Dear Abby my nieces husband a Jim a disciplines their 2-year quibble it theft ill u10ke my out this . Hoi about too 1thought it u As great the am gifts so ads ugr6 singing. The to Stets incr so pretty a yet of log h6e aft Etc a fut that i old have Tsueo a Ito fast and Vidu Are talking about omit the Hurt dear Reader if a a attachment writes or phones again give Nick the message. Let him know that you love and Trust him and that you Are sure he would never do anything that might destroy his family. Then let it be. Pleading crying and threatening will Only diminish you in his eyes and accomplish nothing. . Please write again in three months and let me know How this turns out dear Ann Landers i have bet at dinner with the elderly sister of a protestant minister that Christ is not Jesus last name and that in fact his proper title is a Jesus the Christ Quot because Christ is greek for a the second my Friend says Christ is Jesus last name. Will you please Settle our bet a Christian unitarian in new York dear unitarian i sent your letter to Joseph Cardinal Bernardin of Chicago and asked him to be my authority regarding your bet. This is his response the Christian unitarian is Correct. A Christ Quot is not Jesus last name. However your correspondent is not Correct in stating that a a Christ is greek for a the second the word for that is a a Christ is a title that Means a the anointed one a the greek equivalent of the hebrew word for can someone win half a bet sincerely yours Joseph Cardinal Bernardin archbishop of Chicago c creators Syndicate old son a Timmy a in a manner that troubles me. On a recent restaurant Outing when Timmy began to whine Jim reached Over and twisted the boys earlobe roughly. Later Timmy cried out a daddy Stop pinching me Quot Jim had pinched Timmy a leg under the table. My Niece does no to comment on any of this but i am concerned. I wonder How Jim treats the child when we Are not around. I have heard that Jim a father was very cruel to him at times and in a wondering if that a the reason he treats his son this Way. What if anything should we do worried dear worried you should have a talk with your Niece and her husband about what you have observed. Be open about the fact that its obvious that Jim a patience is sometimes tried and he impulsively resorts to physical Means to discipline Timmy. Mention the earlobe twisting and the pinching of the child under the table. Tell them there Are parenting classes available and their paediatrician can recommend the Best. That Jim a father May have physically abused him May have some bearing on Jim a abusing his own son but it does no to justify it. Timmy needs someone to intervene on his behalf. The fact that you Are a a worried Speaks Well for you. Please follow through and see that Timmy a parents learn How to Parent properly. C Universal press Syndicate watch is sup a curve Ball past me Mac. 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