European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 1, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse Friday. May 1. 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 19 a j 1&Quot 1 met r dear Ann Landers my parents divorced 12 years ago when we three kids were still in High school Mon moved out of the House and went to live with her Boyfriend. We stayed with dad. Dad has had girlfriends off and on but nothing serious. Mom seems very Happy with her arrangement and says she does not want to get married again. My sister and i have both married and started fumes of our own. The problem i m writing about is a Tough one. Dad has refused to attend our weddings baptisms birthday parties etc., if mom s Boyfriend is invited. Mom win not go anywhere without him. Our youngest brother is about to be married and dad refuses to come to the wedding if momus Boyfriend is there. He says its of if mom is there by herself. Mom says she won t come without her Boyfriend who incidentally is a neat Guy. We All like him a lot. How do we handle these family situations not invite either one we hate to have it come Down to that but maybe it the Only solution. We believe dad is being very punitive and that after 12 years he should be Able to Hantle seeing mom with someone else. Dad says if mom and her Boyfriend were married it would be different but we think that s just an excuse. Any help you can give us would be appreciated. Stuck in the Middle Harrisburg a. Dear Stock i have Annu my it unfair of Doc cd parents la Lay pram enss of kids Hind an their Chr Drea. Nat Ash is k tips and in put them an the spat be dear Abby i was deeply involved with a woman who is four years older than i am a i am in my late 20s. At the end of May 1990, our relationship fell apart. Last month i discovered that 1 am his positive. I have not dated since the breakup and i have no other risk factors. This woman has two pre teen daughters and deserves to know but i am not sure if i should Tell her. She wants nothing to do with me and 1 have no desire to shatter her Kef. What should i do i have not told anyone else about it if you need my name and address i am sorry. I Only wish to go in peace. Thank you for your time. . In California dearer it is Vhal that Yeu that she taut can he tests pest vet r i need la Hauder the it aha Shai of Sach a diagnosis As wer As in Himalian a him Nurmi of my Lang Aga i est amhed the Landers Law of invitation. It uses her is an adar should Serif lace to in Fate Arayana Haar Sha Chamars in nay pm of Al scary Afler a serial event la is then a la the in med Pera an la acc Cpl or dec tone the Inch attn. If a and a says Quot i want came if a bar c is Lav red Quot the Hast a Hest is should say a spa so sorry. We we tin for Iii dear Ann Landers today my teen age son my Mother in Law and 1 were seated in a restaurant enjoying our noon meal. We heard a Beautiful resonant voice Reading aloud in the Booth next to ours. We smiled and decided that some Young student was practising for a College play. When the Reader got up to leave he had to pass our table. With much patience and kindness he led an elderly lady who was Blind a and obviously delighted with his oratory. She was using a Walker which he held As he struggled to help her into her coat. We watched As he escorted the smiling woman out like a Knight with his lady. My Mother in Law broke our reverie by saying. Quot we have just seen a son who loves his Quot what a lesson for All of us about How to treat others especially those who require extra patience and care. . From red Bud. Ill. Deal to _ _ thank Yau by thud tender Vignette. To nose Days Tohen we Ace a much Timur i Gnu if Kef and same respect Ter Alder people its a plans arc to print Rke an Haw aids b and is at spread to ethers. Dear Abby i avidly read and applaud your airing of the various problems facing society. 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