European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 30, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse I Ann Landers Idear Ann Landers i my Mother in Law and i have in Over gotten along. She now re quires constant care because she has crippling arthritis yet my husband a Joe refuses to place her in a nursing Home. He a been taking care of her for the past 10 years. I feel that Joe should try to build life with me but he says his first commitment is to his Mother. This has created constant tension Between us. I believe his Mother should be placed in a nursing Home and in be said so Many times. Joe says his Mother lived in this House before i did and if 1 done to like it i can leave. As soon As Joe comes Home he Heads straight for his mothers bedroom. He changes her diapers bathes her and gets her ready for bed. Since our wedding we be spent Only one night alone a that was our entire honeymoon a and then he moved me into this House with his Mother. I figured since this is Joe a third marriage he might put Forth a Little extra Effort to make it work but i was wrong. I love my husband but i have a lot of resentment toward him because of the Strain this arrangement is putting on our marriage. I should Tell you that Joe refuses to put my name on the deed to the House because he a afraid that if anything happened to him i might throw his Mother out. I done to know if he a just hanging on to the umbilical Cord because he a a devoted son or if he needs the extra Money her Check brings in. Please help me figure this out. Hanging on in Jackson miss. Dear Jackson what a the mystery Joe has told you that you Are playing second fiddle to his Mother and if you done to like dear Abby dear Abby my sister and i Are twins. We Are both engaged to wonderful Loving men. Several months ago we decided to have a a double wedding in june. Our great grandmother kept the wedding dress that she wore in her wedding. Since then every woman in the family has worn it in her wedding. My twin and i would love to keep this family tradition alive but we can to decide who should Wear it. We Are All wondering what to do and have decided that whatever you say goes. Please give this matter a lot of thought and print it soon. Pondering in a. Dear pondering one twin could Wear your great grandmothers gown for the wedding ceremony and the other twin could Wear it for the reception. Flip a Coin to decide who goes first a and Good Luck. Dear Abby i married a Man ill Call him Bill whose first marriage ended in divorce after 10 years of marriage. Bill quibble j that do Vou Mem out it in is right in j ismell vhf nth this soft Tolu it au10st Lut ff-3o saturday May 30, 1992 it you can get out of the orchestra. He has made this Clear so you must at least give the Man credit for being upfront about where you stand. Your life sounds hellish. Sooner or later you re going to pack your bags. For your Sake i Hope its sooner rather than later. Dear Ann Landers this letter is in response to a stuck at the that dude made me mad enough to write my first letter to Ann Landers. I can to believe he had the Gall to complain in print about having to Wear a suit jacket and tie to work. If i choose to Wear a a Power suite and a tie which is actually a Scarf i must also Wear a Bra slip pantyhose and heels. Id Trade them in any old Day if i could get away with Only a suit and skip the rest. Since when is a a Flimsy Cotton something or other considered appropriate office attire if a Blouse is somewhat transparent we must also Wear a camisole in addition to the already constricting Bra. I think this Guy is unhappy with More than just the clothes he must Wear to work. He sounds like a chronic Kvetch. Tell him to quit his Job and go work in a zoo. In a sure the monkeys care what he wore. Head fit in real Well with them too. Valley of the Sun in Arizona and tired of pantyhose dear Arizona pantyhose a stuck at the cleaners created some hefty overtime in my mail room. The responses from women who wanted to clobber him were staggering. So who a got the Edge in comfortable attire id say its a stand off except perhaps in California and Florida where the males definitely get a break. C creators Syndicate and his wife had no children. Bill and i have been married for four years and recently i had a baby girl. Shortly after her birth Bill a first wife started calling our Home. On one occasion she asked Bill if he would go with her to have a dog they had bought together put to sleep. When Bill said a no a she became angry and Hung up. Our problem we both have asked her to Stop calling this House but she continues to Call. How can we get these irritating Calls to cease bewildered in Ohio dear bewildered have you thought of getting an unlisted Telephone number if you Haven to you should. Dear Abby my husband is a Good person. He does no to beat on me or run around As fat As i know. But we just done to get along anymore. We have two children and it is affecting them too. End of my rope dear end you and your husband need to find out what went wrong in your marriage. Please get into counselling. 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