European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 30, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Wednesday december 30, 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 19 bargain Purchase raises moral Issue today s crossword dear Ann Landers i am retired and living on a limited income. I enjoy going to auctions and garage sales where i pick up items my wife and i can use around our Home. Over the years in be discovered that one persons trash May be another persons treasure and i have bought some rather extraordinary pieces at fantastically Low prices. Not Long ago i purchased several items from a dealer who told me he had bought a whole Houseful of furniture clothing and household goods from a Man whose wife had died recently. The Man had sold his Home and wanted to sell everything in it and move to a retirement Center. When i came Home with my purchases i went through everything to sort out the items that needed mending cleaning and so on. I was stunned when i found a rather Large sum of Money in the pocket of a Bathrobe. My wife thinks i am morally obligated to return the Money a because it Wasny to intended to be part of your  i believe it is rightfully mine. Had i bought the items from the original seller i would certainly return the Money to him but if i take the Money Back to the dealer i doubt very much that he will return it to the Man. Finders keepers Oklahoma City okla. Ann Landers dear o. City you paid for the garment and it belongs to you a All of it including what a in the pocket. There is however a moral question. If i were you id try to Contact the original owner and return the Money. If he has any decency he should give you a generous Reward. In a sure Many readers will disagree with this advice. Will you please let me know if you took it and what happened dear Ann Landers i am an attractive professional woman in my late 20s, unmarried financially secure and proud of what in be done with my life. In a in love with a Rick a who is quite wonderful and treats me great. We be been seeing each other for More than a year and have a terrific time together. The Only thing that worries me is that he throws Money around like crazy and Hasni to saved a dime in All the years he a been working. He makes a very Good salary but spends it faster than he can earn it. Liquid assets in Michigan dear liquid if you Are in love with Rick he treats you a a great and the Only negative is his crazy spending there is a simple solution. Insist that he hand Over his paycheck and live on an allowance once you arc married. The Man must not have any credit cards or charge accounts. If he will agree to All of the above and not feel that you Are emasculating him i Sec no reason Why you two can to have a Good marriage. Letters to Ann Landers should to addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago Iii. 60611-0562. C creators Syndicate urges of Sweet 16 bring worries dear Abby my problem is my 16-year-old son. A a Ryan is a wonderful Young Man a everything a Mother could ask for in a son handsome smart Honor student and an All around great Guy. But he seems to be obsessed with a 16-year-old girl ill Call Beth. When he is not at her House he son the phone with her. I finally told him that he had to be off the phone by 11 . A of course by that time he a already been on the phone for at least two hours i can to understand what they can talk about for that Long. I know they talk about marriage but Ryan has such a Bright future i can to see him tying himself Down to this one girl a at age 16. There seems to be such an intense physical attraction a Beth hangs All Over him sits on his Lap and he can to understand that kind of behaviour is not acceptable in Public. I am so afraid that he will mess up his life with an unplanned pregnancy. We be talked about it and he keeps assuring me that he Isnit doing dear Abby anything  Abby i realize that he is human and he could get carried away and ruin his life. Its happened to other terrific kids and in a worried that it might happen to him. His father and i have been divorced since Ryan was 3, and his father has since remarried. His support checks help but Ryan rarely sees him so he a no help. Have you any suggestions Ryan a mom dear mom if you and Beth smother Arentt Friendly i suggest you become friendlier because you have a common problem. Limiting the time Ryan and Beth spend together will help but its not the total solution. Keep the lines of communication open so your son will be open and honest with you. Discussing birth control with Young people who arc on the verge of becoming sexually Active docs not necessarily give them the Green Light and when hormones Are raging an ounce of prevention is Worth a Pound of cure. 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