European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 18, 1993, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday february 18, 1993 it s of to talk about a lost loved one Ann Landers Duar Ann Landers Light years ago 1 found my son s body in the Street lie had been killed by a hit and run Driver on the Way Home from school. Since then 1 have met with Many other mothers fathers Sisters ind Brothers who have lost loved ones. They All agree withe on the following Point. Please talk about the personae have lost even if the men Tion of i name causes us to weep a Little. It is a Joy to speak of my son and to know that he has not been totally forgotten. I am Hurt when people who knew him never mention his name. It is As if these people arc trying to pretend that he never existed. To deny that this Beau Laiful child was an important part of our lives is both impossible and unrealistic. We May not be Able to control what happens to us death accidents or life s blows but we do have a Choice As to How we Deal with our Frankel a respected psychiatrist survived a nazi concentration Camp because of his great love Fortis wife who died there Prancl was determined not to let the nazis destroy his spirit or his will to live. He kept himself alive by thinking about and speaking about his beloved was his key to survival. Please Tell your readers How important it is for those of us who have suffered losses to speak of the departed to recall the Good times and to know that others re member them As Well. We remember in Clifton . Most people Are reluctant to talk about someone s loss for fear of opening old wounds. You have let them know that the real sadness come from believing that loved ones have been forgotten. Bringing their names into Normal conversation is Lovely thing to do. Thank you for an enlightening letter. Dear Ann Landers my husband and i have been happily married for 10years, but there arc Days when i wonder if we re going to make it. I have been pursued by two different Bosse since i married. This started before the term sexual harassment came into Vogue. In both cases i finally quit the Job. I might add that i am attractive but not a knockout and had no interest in flirting. Tended up telling my husband about the could t have made it without his Trust and support. Recently my Best Friend s husband left her and their9-month old baby for a woman in his office. My Friend is heartbroken and scared. I m sad for he last week i attended an anniversary party for my husband s Law firm. I could t help but notice that on of the Young female attorneys he works with could t keep her eyes off my husband and was always at his Elbow. Although i Trust my husband i can t help but feel uncomfortable about this woman in his Calls him at Home with office questions which i suppose is legitimate but i really Down like hate the thought that i m feeling threatened but i guess that s the Way it is please give me some guidance Juanita no City no staff dear Juanita Tell your husband exactly How you the fact that his associate s phone Calls at Home make you uncomfortable. If he has respect for your feelings the Calls will Stop and you will have the peace of mind that is rightfully yours. Box 1 1562, cd c creator Syndicate open door policy con spell tragedy dear Abby a recent letter in your column about Locking your doors brought Back some painful a child i was taught always to lock the doors to i our Home and i be carried that habit with me into my adult Lile but there Are Manv people know who left their doors unlocked for just a moment while they went to the Mailbox dumped their trash and carried their laundry to the Wash room. Abby these people Al women were the sexual As Sault victims of my sex husband. After he was arrested he to dhow he would hide and wait for these unsuspecting women to leave their apartments rust for a moment and when they returned he d bewailing for them. He also told of Many assaults that of dear Abby curved because he had gained Access through unlocked doors and windows in the Middle of the night. Can you imagine waking up to find someone like him standing Everyou my children and i have healed but his victims have along Road ahead of them my sex will be out of prison in five More years an free to rape again Abby please warn your readers often How dangerous it is to leave their doors unlocked even for just a few minutes. If it saves one woman from being assaulted the time took to write this was Well spent. A warning from . Abby my sex was not a typical serial rapist. We lived in a Nice family Type Middle class neigh boyhood and he was Active in Little league Pat Church Etc. He was a clean Cut Guy with a big problem. Letters for this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Don 447mount Morris 111. 61064. C Universal press syn Teate the stars and stripes today s crossword Page 17 across1 Broadway hit with4 Down 5 prohibit Ltan to 12 co to 13 Sapporo Ash 14 Robus Tiszai Follower 10 longing17 Chase Olhol Lywood 1� volume Factor 20 fuzz Zoeller a.g.22 the tac. 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