European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 18, 1993, Darmstadt, Hesse Siaw1 am Stfan s of s of of Folk about a lost loved one s crossword Ann Landers a Ann Landi is i High car ago i found my non � in qty to inc Mutt lie Hud been killed her a kit and run Driver on he Way Tomc from shool Sec then i have me i eth Many other Mother father and brother who have lout loved one they All agree with me on inc following Point. Picas talk about the person we have Lent even if the men Tion of his name causes us to weep a Little. It is a Joy to speak o my son and to know thai he has not been totally forgotten. I am Hurt when people who knew him never mention his name. It is As if these people arc trying to pretend that he never existed. To deny that this Beautiful child was an important part of our lives is both impossible and unrealistic. We May not be Able to control what happens to us death accidents or life s blows but we do have a Choice As to How we Deal with our losses. Victor Frankel a respected psychiatrist survived a nazi concentration Camp because of his great love for his wife who died there. Frankel was determined not to let the nazis destroy his spirit or his will to live. He kept himself alive by thinking about and speaking about his beloved wife. She was his key to survival. Please Tell your readers How important it is for those of us who have suffered losses to speak of the departed to recall the Good times and to know that others re member them As Well. We remember in Clifton . . Most people Are reluctant to talk about someone s loss for fear of opening old wounds. Yoo Hac m Plum know Fitial it real Tan Rutt from belief ing tint Ord one tic been Forfota dr1nrtni Irir Namo into Normal or Tami it a total Inlet to do. Thank twi for an enlightening letter. Ann i animus my husband and i have been happily married for 10 years but there arc Day Whert i wonder if we re oing to make it i have been pursued by two different Bot is since i married. This started before the term sexual harassment came into Vogue. In both cases i finally quit the Job. I might add that i am attractive but not a knockout arid had no interest in flirting i ended up telling my husband about the harassment. I could t have made it without his Trust and support recently my Best Friend s husband left her and their 9-month old baby for a woman in his office. My Friend is heartbroken and scared. I m sad for her. Last week i attended an anniversary party for my husband s Law firm. I could t help but notice that one of the Young female attorneys he works with could t keep her eyes off my husband and was always at his Elbow. Although i Trust my husband i can t help but feel uncomfortable about this woman in his office. She Calls him at Home with office questions which i suppose is legitimate but 1 really Don t like it. I hate the thought that i m feeling threatened but 1 guess that s the Way it is please give me some guidance. Juanita no City no state dear Juanita Tell your husband exactly How you feel. Emphasize the fact that his associate s phone Calls at Home make you uncomfortable. If he has respect for your feelings the Calls will Stop and you will have the peace of mind that is rightfully yours. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chi Cago Iii. 60611-0562. C creator Syndicate open door policy can spell tragedy dear Abby a recent letter in your column about Locking your doors brought Back some painful a child i was taught always to lock the doors to our Home and i be carried that habit with me into my adult life. But there Are Many people know who left their doors unlocked for just a moment while they went to the Mailbox dumped their trash and carried their laundry to the Wash room. Abby these people Al women were the sexual As Sault victims of my sex husband. After he was arrested he to dhow he would hide and wait for these unsuspecting women to leave their apartments just for a moment and when they returned he d bewailing for them he also told of Many assaults that of dear Abby curved because he had gained Access through unlocked doors and windows in the Middle of the night. Can you imagine waking up to find someone like Nim standing Over you my children and i have healed but his victims have along Road ahead of them. My sex will be out of prison in five More years an free to rape again. Abby please warn your readers often How dangerous it is to leave their doors unlocked even for just a few minutes. If it saves one woman from being assaulted the time i took to write this was Well spent. A warning from Phoenix . Abby my sex was not a typical serial lived in a Nice family Type Middle class neigh boyhood and he was Active in Little league Pat Church Etc. He was a clean Cut Guy with a big problem. 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