European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - April 30, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Saturday april 30, 1994 epileptic needs help with her mom a a dear Ann Landers i am 23, and my parents have been divorced for 20 years. When i was 9, i was injured in a car Accident. One month after my recovery my Mother married her Boyfriend. Three months after the Accident Case was settled mom left for her honeymoon. Soon after i began having seizures. My Mother sent me to a Counselor not a physician. When i was 17,1 moved in with my father. Within six months i was diagnosed with epilepsy. I had been suffering from it untreated for eight years. At age 19, i received my settlement Money from the accidents $23,000. My Mother immediately asked me for a very Large loan. My father told me to Tell her a no a which i did. I later found out that my Mother had received $6,000 when we went to court which i assume went toward her honeymoon. Until this Day my Mother holds it against me that i did no to lend her that Money. Ann its not As if she were desperate. Mom is very Well off. She has a new car a new House and every convenience. Its obvious though that she has never forgiven me. She gave me used clothes for my birthday present and Hasni to been to my apartment in two years. I still Call her every Day but she Only Calls me from her car phone on her Way Home from work. The worst of it is that she does no to believe i really have epilepsy. My medical Bills Are overwhelm Ann Landers ing. Employers refuse to keep me for Rhode than three months because they think i May Hurt myself i still need my Mother and wish she would be closer to me. Where can i get information on epilepsy that might help her accept my condition Dallas daughter dear Dallas see Counselor and get some help in coming to terms with your Mother. There Are Many Loose ends in your life that need to be tied up. Dear Ann Landers after Reading the letters about a surviving pets reaction to the loss of its partner i had to write. My dog Pepper and my cat nut Hin had been raised together. When Pepper died eight years ago nut Hin refused to come into the living room. She spent All her time asleep on the Pillow she shared with Pepper. I had Pepper cremated and two weeks later the ashes were delivered in a Small Box which i put on the Bottom shelf of my Bookcase. That night nut Hin came into the living roam and sniffed around until she spotted the Box. She then sat on top of it purring. Later nut Hin curled up at my feet in my bedroom for the first time since Pepper died. It was As if she knew Pepper was Home again. When nut Hin died last May i had her cremated and the ashes put in the same Blue urn with Pepper. Today it still sits on the Bookcase. Julie in Minnesota letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Cal Cago 111.60611-0562. C creators Syndicate Abby fan gets it All off Chest and Palms dear Abby _ in be read your columns for years. You share so much information. Whether i agree or disagree you Are the Best and i thank you. The reason i am writing is that i am a professional woman age 46, and have sweaty Palms Only when in a nervous. It has been a source of tremendous stress and embarrassment to. Me. But someone wrote to you last summer with the same problem and you advised them to try Drysol. I finally got around to calling my doctor for an appointment. Of Happy Day bless the Man for writing in about it and bless you Abby for printing it even though Many readers May never write to you please be assured a. A a that numerous columns Are shared among families and friends. I have mailed More than one Over the years my son is now away at College and is the recipient of most of them these Days. I started not to write this but since this is my first time i might As Well go a fall i never Felt like my shy 15-year-old son Ana i really communicated about the subject of sex the Way we should have so i ordered your Booklet what every teen quibble dear Abby. Should know and asked him to read it. It he left it out in his room and when some of his friends came Over there was a lot of giggling and so Forth coming from his room. But in a so glad it was there for them. I happen to know that after All the a Cha has so were Over each Guy left with a better understanding of some of the problems they face every Day. One of a million fans dear Abby a family member recently died in a tragic Accident and the outpouring of generosity from the Community was overwhelming. People sent Flowers cards Money and food. Unfortunately Many of these gifts had no return addresses. Abby please ask your readers to attach names and addresses to gifts so the givers can be thanked and the dishes platters and cake tins can be returned. Stumped in Seattle dear stumped that bit of advice has been in my column numerous times but it bears repeating. Readers it would be a kindness to Send cookies and cakes on paper plates and hot dishes and salads in disposable foil pans with your name address and Telephone number securely taped to the containers. Letters for this column addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447, mount Morris. Iii. 61054. 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