European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - June 11, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Saturday june 11, 1994 the stars and stripes Page 21 you can t judge a Book by its cover dear Ann Landers your recent column about the tragic end of some of the super Rich reminded me of a poem by Edwin Arlington Robinson written almost 100 years ago. I know you be printed it in your column before but would you please do it again Newport Ore. Dear Newport with pleasure. Thank you for asking. That poem also reminds us that appearances can be deceiving. Just because something looks wonderful does no to mean it is. Ann Landers Richard Cory whenever Richard Cory went a Quot Down town we people on the pavement looked at him he was a gentleman from sole to Crown clean favored and Imperi ally slim. And he was always quietly arrayed. And he was always human when he talked but still he fluttered pulses when he said a Good morning a and he glittered when he walked. And he was Rich a yes Richer than a King a and admirably schooled in every Grace in Fine we thought that he was everything to make us wish that we were in his place. So on we worked and waited for the Light and went without the meat and cursed the bread and Richard Cory one Calm summer night went Home and put a Bullet through his head. Dear Ann Landers 1 enjoyed Reading in your column about the of year old woman whose family gave her a great birthday party using All of her Lovely things. A we too have a Mother in her 90s who has simplified her lifestyle and moved into a retirement Home. Last year she had to give up her apartment and move into the personal care area. We her children had been the recipients of Many of her Lovely things and thought our children would appreciate some of her Beautiful  offered them. Much to our disappointment the Young people did not want the Cut Glass or Crystal because it could not be put in the dishwasher. They did no to want the Silver he cause it had to be polished. No one was interested in the Fine Linen tablecloths because they had to be ironed. What a pity Arm. Their families will never know what elegant dining is. I wonder if one Day they will regret their decision. Sad in Philadelphia dear sad Many newlyweds Are still receiving Silver Crystal and Fine Linen As wedding gifts a and enjoy them. But the lifestyle of today a generation lends itself to much less formality. With both spouses working they Cut Corners and have neither the Lime nor the Energy to polish Silver and press Linen. Alas time marches on. Letters to Ann Landers should to addressed to her Al . To 11562, Chicago til. 60611-0562. A a. A a. C creators Syndicate a. Don t worry about maternal son dear Abby this May be silly but i need an answer. I have three sons Ages 5 years 2 years and 10 months old. A Ricky a my 2-Ycar-old, loves to play with dolls. He has three some people make wisecracks when they Sec Ricky with his dolls but he would rather play with dolls than cars or trucks. I have never thought there was a problem but some people say it would make him a a funny when he gets older. My Mother replies that if More parents would let their sons play with dolls there would be More men willing to play the father role instead of expecting the Mother to do it All. Ricky so a babies Are girl babies a he even tries to feed them. He watches me with his baby brother and Mim icks everything i do. Is this a bad thing or is it Good for a boy to act so maternal a concerned Mommy dear concerned Mommy if you Are really concerned that this will cause your son to have homosexual tendencies you need not give it dear Abby another thought. Homosexuals Are born not made. Dear Abby 1 respect your opinion and need your advice. Recently i discovered something very disturbing about my lather. I came across a St. Valentines Day card from a woman who signed her name in code to conceal her identity. My parents have been married nearly 35 years and All my friends cite their marriage As an example of the perfect marriage. An their children arc grown and this should be the Lime for them to enjoy each other a not to be going through a divorce which is what i feel my Mother May opt to do if she should learn about dads Girlfriend. What should i do if anything i was so angry when i found that Valentine i cried. I Felt like vomiting should i say something to dad 1 feel that if i done to say something to him in a betraying my Mother. Do i want to be responsible for causing a divorce everything in their relationship seems so Normal. I done to think my Mother knows. Please help me. To Tell or not to Tell dear to Tell i advise you to say nothing forget it a and mind your own business. Letters for this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . 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