European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - September 17, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Saturday september 17, 1994 the stars and stripes Page 21 now today a crossword Ann Landers dear Ann Landers my Boyfriend has been a heroin addict for 10 years. In be been seeing him for the last 18 months. A a half tells me that he a tried everything from rehabilitation Cen a ters to a methadone program but he keeps going Back to his whenever he slips he lies to me and this is the hardest part of his addiction. I thought id be Able to handle it but now in a not sure. I do love him very much but in a afraid my love is not enough. I am aware of several groups that could help me but something prevents me from going. Maybe i can to accept the fact that in be fallen in love with a drug addict. In a writing to you because i have too much on my plate and the pain confusion and heartache Are More than i can handle. What should i do i need some advice to help me Deal with Halls lies. Heartsick in Quebec dear Quebec your acceptance of Halls addiction and his lies has made you something of an enabler. In a not going to Tell you How to Deal with his lies. Instead i urge you to get out of this self destructive relationship and Start to attend the meetings of one of those groups that can give you the emotional support that you need. Dear Ann Landers in 1980, i married a John a whose wife Quot Jean had died three years before. John had two pre teen sons. It has been a wonderful 14 years. I love his sons As my own and they have called me mom for Many years. \ the oldest boy will be married in december. He and the Bride to be came Home last week to discuss wedding plans and to show us their invitations. I was shocked and Hurt to find the wording a son of or. And mrs. John Doc and the late Jean i want this to be a Happy occasion and i will not mention my feelings. However i do wish to know How Long it is proper to include a the late Jean i want to be prepared for the next songs wedding and when the grandchildren arrive. A Shirley in Peoria dear Peoria if your Stepson and his finn la want to include a reference to the boys deceased Mother on their wedding invitation accept their decision with Grace. This is their Way of honouring his Mother who did not live Long enough to see her son marry. It will not cast a pall Over the occasion. No one will think anything of it. Dear Ann Landers i agree with the poem you recently printed emphasizing that Reading to children is important. But a the Reading Mother makes an Assumption that is a big mistake. Why not a Reading father my three sons re Cejp bedtime readings from the time they were a they were almost through with High school. I their father was the Reader. I love books and i enjoyed the Mal rial at least As much As they did. We got through Alice in wonderland Gulliver s travels Huckleberry finn and scores of others. I was in medical school during Many of those years and the hours spent Reading to my sons were a Welcome Relief to \ a a / a a a it was also their introduction to the world of literature. A a x ,. A / i recommend Reading aloud to children of All Ages by either Parent. If there Are More Reading mothers than fathers out there then the dads should catch up Dayton letters to Ann Landor should boy addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago. Iii. 60611-0562. creators Syndicate harness for children can help parents dear Abby i am the Mother of three children Ages 7, 5 and 3vi 1 try to get out of the House As much As possible on weekends. This past weekend we went to a Flea Market i really enjoy shopping at Flea markets a i pick up lots of wonderful bargains there. A Well my 3vi year old is very Active so i tied a Nylon rope around his Waist and left a 2-foot Gap for his investigations at each table. I got Many ugly stares and comments. However one elderly gentleman said to me a i dear Abby want to congratulate you. If All parents watched their children As closely As they watch their Money our world would be a much happier and safer l. Savner Mountain top a. Dear l. Savner i agree with the elderly gentleman. In England the practice of using harnesses on Small children is much More common. Although it is less accepted in this country in a still in favor of it. It could Avert a tragedy. Letters Tor this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . 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