European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - September 21, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 24 the stars and stripes m dear Ann Landers please help me. I am a 58-year-old disabled person not yet helpless but slowly getting there. I have been with the same Man for almost 30 years. We were married at one time but we divorced. For the last 20 years however we have been living together As Man and wife. A a Joe says a piece of paper does no to change anything Between us but i done to feel that Way. His work requires him to be in another town nearby and quite often he winds up sleeping there. When i found out that he recently advertised for a companion 1 was shocked. With All the diseases out there he could bring something Home. When i asked Joe what he could possibly have been think. Ing of he said a you Haven to been much of a wife to me for the past few years and i need More attention than you have been giving  Well if its True it May be because he jumped in the sack with my first Cousin when she was baby sitting for me. He also bagged the slut next door. When i threatened to walk out on him he actually got Down on his hands and Knees and begged me to stay. It Here is the problem. 1 can to forgive him this time. I still yearn for sexual attention but he makes me want to puke. Any answers Ann entrusting wife in Victoria . Ann Landers dear Abby i must comment on your reply to the woman whose gentleman friends Only drawback is his terrible Teeth. You recommended candidly saying a you really need to see a dentist a let me refer you to  i Hope it works for her. When my husband and i dear Abby were courting the Only thing i Rebii found seriously disturbing was the miserable condition of his Teeth. The one time i mentioned it he blew up and i never mentioned it again. However. Our compatibilities far outweighed the Teeth Issue so i de Cidad to Bear with it and Hope he would change. He did no to. After we were married i got him to Brush his Teeth More regularly but he still refused to see a dentist a even when his Gums were in such bad condition he bled on the Pillowcase. When i pointed this out to him he said a a in la be  need i Tell you what his breath smells like Abby what would make a grown Man behave this Way is there anything i can do ? baffled in Virginia Pear baffled 11c behaves this Way because he is absolutely terrified quibble 7t yes it s True that de Kcf going. To a of to it Mother it Thott Ulsem ule g�,7 out to the amp of cud. But Ubu done to have to brin6 All of that name next Uitz via. It the Wiki a Imit of Tefte Way not 6e a 5hovel our there 50 me can bring it along / dear entrusting Joe does no to deserve another Chance but give him one anyway. With your health problems you need Security. Get a bit of counselling to help you handle your anger and in time you la simmer Down. Meanwhile insist that Joe go with you to a lawyer and have papers drawn up that entitle you to financial Security if Joe goes first. Dear Ann Landers in a sure this is the craziest question you will Ever receive but i need help. Quot in a a healthy 32-year-old male Virgin. In be become very Quick tempered and just Plain Rotten to be around. In be come to the conclusion i will forever be a Virgin because no woman would be interested in me. Even if the Opportunity presented itself i am doubtful that 1 could perform because in a so self conscious about my shortcomings. What i want to know is because of my Lousy disposition unpleasant attitude and Low self esteem am i destined to go to my grave never haying experienced a physical relationship agonizing in Arizona dear Arizona the key words in your letter arc a flow  please get some professional help. Your Confidence Index is at Zero and that a your real problem. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . To 11562, Chicago to. 606f 1-0562. A. C creators Syndicate of seeing a dentist. As a boy he probably had a very painful experience in the dentists chair. Perhaps if you told his physician about this hang up he could explain that a persons general health is seriously threatened if his Teeth Are rotting. He could also explain that dentistry has come a Long Way Jit recent years and while the discomfort is temporary the rewards arc permanent. Dear Abby _ a a Delaware asked a what does it mean when a person puts a postage stamp upside Down on an envelope a you replied a it could mean a i love you a a in a in a hurry or a i need  a Abby that May be Correct but it also Means that the writer is right handed and buys 29-cent Stamps by the Roll. A a a. A when those Stamps Are used by a right handed per to a a a son they come off the Roll upside Down. When i have a lot of envelopes to stamp i can to be bothered turning each stamp right Side up. This has been my pet Peeve for  a a a a a. A Toni Rhode in new Holstein wis. Letters Lor this column should be addressed to dear Abby Al Rio. Box 447, mount Morris. Iii. 61054. A ,.c Universal press Syndicate it think that whom Al couple is i having a problem they need to Pur to Weir he few Vou mean to a a  find a a s0lu non a and maybe there Aren t a ? 3and6ags out to there �.171102,50 Cue la bring the it along a a but in a. 5ur6 that the face 15 do Ftp out there 5o, the Dlott 3tay5. He. Wednesday september 21, 1994 today a crossword a across 1 silent 4 links Hazard 8 quid  quo 12 Between Zeta and Theta 13 audition Eros desire 14 letter Many a Competition 15 lid for a lad 16 Art medium 18 Star of sea world 20 Sample. Of the Sau Temes 21 rudiments 24 Dieter s. 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