European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - November 8, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Pago 20 the stars and stripes tuesday november 8, 1994 dear Ann Landers three months ago when dad died 1 asked mom to come live with us. Things went Well for a while but bit by bit mom started to take Over. She gets into arguments with my kids Over what clothes they Wear the Type of friends they have the Way they eat the Way they talk and what with their hair. If my son wants to Wear a Ponytail and an earring its of with me. But mom says he looks like he belongs to a gang and i let him get away with it. I am worn out trying to make peace Between my Mother and my family. My husband works Odd hours so he does no to get in on the worst of it but he can see that there is trouble. I try to be respectful and not. The Quot a a Ann Landers criticize my Mother but when i say some thing she becomes very angry storms out and a a a a a slams the door to her room. The tension is beginning to get to me and it has ruined too Many Days and Given me attacks of colitis. When i was growing up mom was a screamer and a Apple free May dear Abby i teach business Law at Western Nevada Community College in Fallon and just read your response to a dapple Annie m Tacoma wash., to Post a sign . Apple tree saying a kids you re Welcome to my apples but please ask first. I would enjoy helping you select the Juiciest Annie is courting financial disaster by allowing the children to trespass. In my class on real property real estate urge my students to prohibit any Type of unnecessary Access to their property especially by children in order to avoid possible lawsuits should someone be injured. By posting a sign inviting students to help themselves she increases her duty to warn them of known dangers even if the dangers could be easily deter mined. If a condition is dangerous she will now have the obligation to repair the condition or physically protect the children prevent them from climbing the tree or provide protective equipment. Abby please Tell a dapple Annie Stop allowing children onto her property. Keep apples picked. Give them to the food Bank or to her adult friends. Replace her tree. Put up a Fence and Lomow Ncry a policy. She a going to need it. Mrs. Denise Koster j d., Fallon Nev. Dear mrs. Koster thank you for the Legal advice. It did no to occur to me dear Abby inv Tum Mim via a Mvi my Apple tree with a no fruiting i increase the liability he info War zone door Slammer. I had almost forgotten How stressful it was. Now i feel As if in a living the worst part of my childhood All Over again. My oldest daughter is talking about moving out because she can to take it anymore. My son avoids his grandmother like the plague because she is always picking on him. Our entire household is becoming a War zone and i need to know what to about it. I keep thinking of the commandment a Honor thy father and thy Mother a and the guilt is terrible. Can you help me torn in Toronto dear Toronto Tell your Mother you want to provide a place for her but she must realize that this is your Home and she is a guest. Let her know she is not to criticize the children nor should she try to treat you As a child. If she does t get the message and alter her behaviour accordingly find another place for her to stay. The Bible says a Honor thy father and thy it does t say let your Mother move into your Home and tear your family to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago 111. 60011-0562. / c creators Syndicate. Her Rotten Luck that the Apple tree could be a liability to the owner. Annie in a revising my answer barricade your property Harvest your apples and done to share them with the kids. Also Call your insurance broker How you like them apples dear Abby in a recent column you quoted Letitia Baldrige your authority on etiquette for the 1990s, who covered expressions of sympathy. However there was no mention of persons who signed the Register on the occasion of a funeral. A i am More appreciative of a persons presence at the funeral service than i am of a sympathy card that has been sent by mail. Of course a word with the bereaved person at the end of the funeral service is Nice but if the crowd is Large this May not be possible. In the Case of my wife a funeral recently a woman signed the Register and after her name she wrote a she was my Friend and i loved i am not acquainted with that dear woman but her kind and touching tribute pleased me immeasurably. My feeling about a printed card is that if the sender does not add a few personal Handwritten words there is not much Point in sending it. W. Boyce White silo am Springs Ark. Dear or. White i disagree. Adding a few personal words on a store bought card gives it added warmth but a card bearing Only the senders signature is Worth sending. Letters Lor this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447, mount Morris. Iii. 61054. 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