European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 08, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday decembers 1994 boys too must fake virginity pledge dear Ann Landers i d like to comment on your column about the Virgin Ity movement. In general i agree . A letter and your reply endorsing the movement. I along with you Hope it can be extended to teen agers of All Reli Gions. _ i found it Odd however that the parents give their daughters Gold wedding bands to Wear and ultimately present to their husbands on the wed Ding night As a Token of their virginity. Why Only the girls in t virginity just As important for a boy what Token of his virginity will he bring to his Bride this part of the move ment smacks of the old double Standard and weakens the entire concept. J.s., Dayton Ohio dear Dayton you be made a Good s another Reader who picked up on it also and offered an excellent suggestion dear Ann Landers i was interested in the concept of True love Waits Ann Landers and wish to comment. Families need not take part in a Public ceremony in order for their children to take the no sex until marriage pledge.,. I made my son a pledge ring out of coloured thread from a pattern that came in the mail. He listened while his dad and i explained Why we had waited until marriage to have sex and then he made a pledge that he too would wait As he put my homemade ring on his Finger. That ring will be Given to the woman he chooses to be his Bride. A a v " this was done in the privacy of our Home with no religious overtones. We made Pur own rules based on the fact that we Are intelligent civilized human beings. . Citrus Heights . Beautiful. Thank you and thanks too to All who wrote. The mail was truly uplifting. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chi Cago Iii. 60611 -0562. Csc restore Syndicate. Part s loss does t mean love s lost dear Abby i am enclosing one of your columns that helped me enormously in 1986. It might help other women if you reran it. I enjoy your column. Gloria l., Jamesburg Gloria at the risk of ranking those who dislike reruns Here his. -.-.,. =. Dear Abby in recent years we hear of More and More women who through cancer surgery have lost one or both breasts. Some women Are devastated. Some married women fear that their husbands will think they Are ugly and May leave them. Some unmarried women fear that no Man will want to marry dear Abby i d like to share something my mom received from my dad after she had a some husband can use it to reassure his wife or some wife will realize that real love snot diminished with the loss of a body part. Kay Hunt would you love me less if i lost a toe would you love me less if i lost a foot would you love me less if i lost a leg would you love me less if i lost a Finger would you love me less if i lost an Arm would you love me less if i lost an ear an Eye an appendix a gallbladder quibble , you would i still be me of course and you Are still you to How i thank god for just you pieces and parts might have to will always be we. T dear Abby i am a 34-year-old married Man who would never dream of cheating on my wife. However lately i have become hooked on computer Chat lines where one can communicate with people from All Over the have been in Contact with a Young woman in Miami computer Only no Telephone no mail. In recent weeks our conversations have explicit. This is known As computer Abby in your opinion am i being unfaithful to my wife or just indulging in some harmless fun please Bear in mind that there is no Way to verify that the per son you Are chatting with on one of these lines is who she says she is name age gender Etc you May be chatting with a 95-year-old Grandfather. Curious in Seattle arcurious computer sex As you describe it is not harmless particularly if your curiosity causes you to decide to meet your computer sex partner. Then it could become hazardous to your health you marriage and possibly to your computer if your wife catches you. " r. Letters for this column should be addressed to dear a toy at . Box 447, mount Orris. 111. 61054
