European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - January 11, 1995, Darmstadt, Hesse Pago 24 the stars and stripes wednesday january it 1995 mom favored daughter in life will dear Ann Landers i would appreciate your opinion of my late mothers will my Mother always favored my sister Urmia a when i was a medical student Drc Rida received a new ear for Christmas. I received a Necktie. When Brenda who teaches High school divorced six years ago she was awarded a Large divorce settlement which my Mother insisted she a save a my Mother then bought Brenda a lavish Condo to a cheer her although Brendan sex Hus band pays regular child support and snares custody of their son a James a my Mother paid for the boys private schooling and tutors she also gave James ski equipment and private lessons for his birthday. My sons received leather belts. My mothers will left Brenda a House and a car total Worth $400,000. I received silverware which i did no to need and a desk. I always interpreted my mothers favouritism As an attempt to a a equalizer her children a lives. Her will demonstrated her belief that my future and that of my children who arc Bright arc assured and we need no help. Yet 1 can to help but Feci resentment against my Mother and my sister for this crass discrimination. Am being unfair. Strictly Anonymous please dear . \ a. I have always maintained that nobody owes anyone a Gilt or an inheritance. Money should go to whomever that person chooses to give it to. It is however the better part of Wisdom to show no favouritism among Sib Lings when writing a will. Perhaps Brenda paid a lot More attention to your Ann Landers Mother during her lifetime than you did. In retrospect How close to your Mother were you did you put your self out for her in her inter years the fact that your Mother gave her favorite child special treatment is not Brendan a fault. Your resentment against your sister is totally unjustified. Let Over it. Dear Ann a a a v v 1 recently became pregnant with my first child. Why is it that when people find out you re pregnant they feel compelled to give you advice in a sure they think they arc being helpful nut they arc scaring me causing me to worry and spoiling what should be a wonderful time in my life. I am sick of being told what to cat what to Wear and. What not to do a in your on behalf of All pregnant women id like to provide a checklist for Well meaning friends and relatives. 1. Please done to offer advice unless you Are asked 2. In i Csc done to Tell me about your terrible labor and How you almost died on the delivery table. 3. Done to Tell me what to expect because every Situa Tion is different. 4. Done to Tell me How huge i am and what a hard time in a going to have taking the extra weight off. 5. Do Tell me that everything will be Fine and to enjoy my pregnancy because it is a wonderful time in a woman s life. 6. Give me congratulations not advice. Advice i can get from my doctor. A thank you for. Printing this Ann Clearwater Fla dear Clearwater you re Welcome. And i thank you on behalf of All the pregnant women who arc Reading this. A lbs toys to and Anndora should to add based to Hor at . Box 11502, Chicago Iii 60611-0562 a elderly can speak for themselves dear Abby. I am writing on behalf of Many senior citizens who do their shopping accompanied by a younger companion. Invariably the salesperson Wilt direct his or her inquiries to the younger person making such comments As Quot what is she looking for today a or a what size does he Wear a elderly people find these comments irritating and humiliating. Even if infirm in body most senior citizens can answer any questions themselves this applies to physically challenged people too a especially the wheelchair bound. Please enlighten salespeople that our senior citizens deserve to be addressed directly and with dignity. The Sale May depend upon it. _ California Reader dear Reader thank you for giving me the Opportunity to remind dear Abby my readers once More that this is an important part of being a first class salesperson. Food servers also should follow this Rule. Dear Abby my husband and i recently moved into town from the country. Our problem is our neighbors. They Sec no reason to pull their window shades Down when they arc in their bedroom or bathroom. Reluctant peepers dear peepers be Good neighbors and inform the people across the Way that they should keep their shades drawn. A new York Reader who lives on the 35th floor of a High Rise apartment confessed that on one occasion he had used a pair of binoculars to look into the bedroom window of the apartment directly across from him. Imagine his Surprise when he saw a Man looking at him through a pair of binoculars a a a letters Tor ibis column should to addressed to Doar Abby at . Box 447, mount Morris lil. 61054. A y. A a a Quot. A a. 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