European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - September 22, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Five year old Micah right listens a a Day can buddy whispers a secret. A need to talk Over the problems some times Impi badly need someone to irk toslaffsn.1 palsy Warner or example Reg res there is no parents without partners group in the Frank full area whore she i stationed she would Hoo la share experiences with adults in similar circumstances she had looked Lor such a group hut Learned that because of who changing military population ally apis to organize a local chapter Hava never Boon sultos soul she says she Lin atly Wen 1o a social work or " ust to have someone unbiased listen to Hei Sofo Parent my problems though the social worker says Warner was t even married and could i relate Volany to my Silva lion. In worked out Well. Ii gave a Sor Nanc to talk id warned is he Ohice manager or Iho v corp chaplains office her son Micah is 5 years old. She has been separated Tor Arhl months from his father and has Izreo grown children by a previous marriage. Today her life centers around this youngest offspring. She says she has no desire to Dale and would rather do things Wilh the  he won t be its Young Orver " during the week hey watch american movies and to at horns on fio weekends they celebrate by going out to Burger King for breakfast and then shop at the Post Exchange and go by i he Library. If the we Alfier is Nice tie then plays outside while she does the laundry and cleaning i Don l have much free  she says. When Here Are a few moments she uses hem of sew or Crochet sundays we really relax we go to the path Ungarten in Frankfurt to look at Iho Lowers we go on Volks marches the iwo also take vacations together recently they took a four tray German train trip Warner brought up her Oiher three children no aged is. 19 and 20, in a Small Lown in Georgia firmly established to their local communities. They have no desire to join Sheti Mother to her new roving army life she believes probably because of the moves she and Mic aft Nave made he is More outgoing than her Oltimer children we real the same age Micah s lather was a member of the military an Aby silting s provided  to tie local army Community. Warrior pays s2w 1 month for tin a r cafe plus an extra Al an Lour my tin to pull co charge Lotfi Aitch i a Hir a she says generally it up in a every Lim to eight weeks h a in i Vicli if rl5 Aio called or r h Fri in Furj Ilo round add a Nolller to i Mont Warner is very pleased ill in Jurii Corn provided i Hough the arise i in Community ii was ii ourth tic  thai Stre Learned it a it hyper Calivo she behoves Hur other son probably had inc same problem hut i Wash i in i he military where anybody look nonce he is of now. Bill Siml a hyper  she says of the older Joy when she was Lold of Micah s problem she says she did t believe Ifrey were lying to me bul it was a Shock i Don Sec him interacting with of Lect children he 15 so open Toevs Mything that he wants to goal rather than follow rules he does his own Lilloo thing wandering around while everyone else 15 Silhan. Arid Redding Micah in being prescribed mediation to Cairn rum bul Warner says it docs l a Vays work. Sometimes when to vols up in the moving it has l oven fazed rum he chill runs All Over the place then. The Neil Day it catches up with him and he is very quiet he sets atone in n Corner and colors or watches to " her biggest current worry is Ihal Iho army might change its rules about single Panni she keeps an Eye out Lor the Lac to regulations if in 13 ruled irial singly parents won t be Able to take children along on certain assignments like overseas hours. Vicau will Corm Host i won t tie separated torn him i could t do that " Jug in Corr. She 15 Laking a City colleges of Chicago Home video course in biology and working Lor an As Ioc uie of arts degree i need to have a tool in he civilian world according to or col jury Jackson personnel Stafl of cer Tor the mice of the Deputy Chiel of Scalf for per i  hoi worries arc groundless Jackson says there Are no Resl i chins on single Parynis with author died dependents they i i k other families Are allowed to include their Lepond cols on accompanied three year  toil is nothing says Jackson = her to believe to Nee is any a no  present policy she has prepared a handbook single and Dua pm leks Mut will he out before the end of december the handbook will wrap up in a Siglo Doc Nam Niall the rules and a jail Anions Inai App 1 to parents. And a Jujj be distributed Don to company level in tuesday september 2s, 1987 the stars and stripes Page 17