European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - April 18, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse the stars and strikes Page 1t letters dear Ann Landers i have written some comment for the woman who is seeing a married Man. I wish someone had done this for me. I might have emerged from my stupor and opened my eyes a lot sooner i Hope you will find room Forth ii in your column. Ana. These poor deluded dumbbells need All the help they can get. If you an seeing a married Man 1. Never make plans to be with him on Holiday. Those special Days Are reserved for his wife and family. 2. Forget about going out in Public. Even a movie is a no no. You can t be seen together. 3. If you need him in Case of an emergency you Are out of Luck. Remember you Are never to phone him either at Home or at work. He Calls you. 4. No matter what he tells you he sleeps with his wife and they have sex. 5. Your Calendar does t count. He Seel you when in is convenient for him and you must adjust to his timetable. 6. Does he buy you gifts you can be proud off 7. Ait you aware that you have taken yourself out of circulation and May be passing up some wonderful opportunities because of this relationship s. Has he told you that he will move out of the House when his daughter gels married or his sort graduates from High school or his Mother Dies 9. Are you aware that most wives whose husbands Are having an affair know about it or Are intensely suspicious and often they know who the woman is 10. Has it Ever occurred to you thai a Man who cheats on his wife will also cheat on the woman he i cheating with because a Cheater is a Cheater been there in Westchester weit Cheiten Only a woman who has lived through the experience Codd have produced the above. Thanks far sharing four hard ton Wisdom. Dear Ann Landers if i read one More idler in your column from woman who says she was Date raped 1 a tiny cancel my subscription to the paper. Dale rape is 20-20-Liindiifihi fiction invented by easy sluts posing As hard to get and any girl whose vocal chords Are intact can scream her head off while kicking scratching squirming and seeking a Way to escape. Before you believe her claim of Date rape ask if All four of her limbs were immobilized her Mouth gagged and her hips held in a Vise like grip also ask her Why she did t kick him in the most vulnerable spol which would have been easy to do if she had wanted to. If you get a believable answer please share it wit your readers instead of insulting their intelligence by printing such Claptrap proud to be a pig Dor pig trying to talk sense to person Thow mind is Nat Only closed but nailed shut is an exercise in futility. 1feel, Hove re that req Wing Twil Dot Frei to be heard. The notion that a woman cannot be raped by someone she knows is nonsense. An acquaintance May ton a gun or a knife or simply a Strong pair of hand tin i pm strangle. Screaming is useless in an isolated spot or a empty building. And lame Tronzo ire too terrified to my stand la unequivocal and i rest my Cue. Lot mgt time sync a unionist lira Lytfi no new Whitn you can him to he be there when i potential employer looks up from Liis resume and nya it say Hen you were an american Soldier and then a soviet Snake Fanner. Why Don t you list any references Panama s Manuel Noriega can he honestly negotiate Wilh the United Stales Bis removal from Power can t you hear him at a teen of mom and dad. You caught me. So let s discuss punishment. Grounding is out of the question forget phone restriction not using the car and prying into my social , let s some never team. Others never taught. Former Arizona gov. Evan Mecham Don he remember How to set used can better Brush up gov. Exchange rates Why does it seem they re always lowest against the . Dollar at the end of the month when rent is due Are the Wail streets of the world Ranby landlords Trcic. Sgt Jan Garton 8uniteu As want Ger Cuury civilians have a Mission too says go 1 am writing this letter in regards to All the past and present letters that Deal with the complaints of .Kmcemembers stationed Here in Germany. I have been stationed Here for Over a year. 1, too have had to Deal with the plunge of the Dollar criticism from superiors and the hectic schedules but we a service Meinberg must also remember that civilian workers have to go through the same ordeals that affect us i would like to Point out that they have a very important Mission As Well. Their jobs can be just As frustrating As ours. Take for instance the Teller at american express who has been sitting in her Booth since 9 so. An there s still about 307or More customers waiting to be served. What about the cashier at he commissary who has been on his her feet since this morning and still can t we the last person at the end Aflfe line i m sure you be noticed the Gas station attendant who has been standing in the cow for hours just so Pecan make it la work without tunning out of go on the autobahn and we All know what will happen next. What about the worker at the army depot who was just handed 10 work orders 15 minutes prior to close of business we must realize thai these workers have feelings and work just As hard As we Servheen Teichen to Don t gel angry when they re not counting the Money last enough or pushing the groceries � last As we would like them to. Remember they have a Mission Loo. Kalont Buttini violent films also upset mature viewer i have Seldom been moved to write my local news paper but i read with interest the Ream letters regard ing the a rated movies. The letter writers mentioned that very often Chil Dren younger than 17 have been observed in cafes Heaters viewing these films Wilh or without their parents in attendance. One writer described the extremely violent and graphic scenes to which these Young people were subjected and went on to discuss the possible effects such provocative material might produce in immature viewers. Aside from the fact that it seems very Clear to me that such material is highly unsuitable far Young Chil Dren or Young teens i have wondered for Many years just Why such gruesome violent subject matter is sup Posedly suitable for mature adults such violence usually serves to nauseated me and i am sure that 1 am not alone in this regard. So much cruelty and violence already occur in our everyday world i fail to me Why movie producers spend millions to create More barbarities on the screen. A but we All know the answer a this question Money and continued consumer demand to View such garbage. 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