European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - May 16, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Up " a i make them pm healthier thinking Tan National Survey of 1.013 idul Sarid 126 teenagers 12 o 17  old conducted in a closer 19sg for the american Academy of dermatology. Margin of sampling error is plus or minus 3 percentage Points for adults and plus or minus 10 percentage Points Tor in exposure can cause in cancer when tanning healthy glow is. Sun baked skin by Brenda a Coleman associated press deep. Dark sunt ans Are lading Fromlath inability in the Umland slates because of cancer and wrinkle tears. But tanning Industry officials insist the Bronze look is alive and Woll. Fifty fashion leaders surveyed by the american Academy of dermatology and the Avon foundation were virtually unanimous in their opinion that the dark Tan once fashionable is no longer in Vogue. The main reasons for caution under he Sun Are Leaf of premature aging and knowledge about skin cancer the doctors group said. Those polled fanged from cosmopolitan Magazine editor Helen Gurley Brown id new York Model Agency head Eileen Ford the Academy said in a statement promoting May As Melanoma skin cancer detection and prevention  doctors say is popularity of suntanning is partly to blame Lor the soaring . Rales of Melanoma a skin cancer thai cited an Esli maled 5.800 americans last year there Are tilt add cled Lolan people who will never conquer he addiction Brown 1old the Survey. The reason the rest of us Are More careful is because of All the information being disseminated. You just could not avoid knowing at this Point if you can read Hal heavy suntanning does cause Shin  Ford told the Survey today s style is a healthy glow not Sun baked  but those in the tanning Trade Point to booming explore your child s fearfulness with teacher before taking action by Marianne d. Garber Stephen Garber and Robyn Freedman Spizman Cox news service header s question what do you do about a child who won t speak to the teacher he talks to and plays with the other children but clams up with the teacher. . Dear it 5. A child s in Lectance to speak to Art unfamiliar adult is quite Normal but a teacher is no stranger the first step is to discuss the problem with your child Why won t he speak to the teacher avoid Labelling him As shy instead focus on specifics docs to tear making mistakes a classroom observation May provide further insight. What is Trio teacher s Demeanour do other children readily interact with Hei How does your child respond when called on now enlist the teacher s advice and help since your child is comfortable with his Peers it s possible that the problem can Fae remedied by arranging time for your child and the teacher to break the ice before or after school. They can make Small talk then broach the subject of his tears. In the safety of this environment your child can Rote play silting in his scat raising his hand and one Hng a Brief reply. Design a reinforcement system that allows your child to earn Points Lor initiating appropriate Contact with the teacher. Sel a minimum Standard. Initially to May earn a Point Lor responding to the Iacchei s prompting with one word gradually he May be required to initials an answer pose a question or take part in a discussion. Eji Pecl to move slowly so the child can feel successful at each step. Once your child has begun to speak make daily iced Back simple Tor the teacher by providing duplicates Page 14 the stars and stripes of letters rotated to your plan. Dear mom and dad i shared information number limes Wiki my Feacher today i answered number quest was and i asked num Herl questions. Love. Child s warns Praise your chid Lor increased participation. Depending on his preferences Daisy involvement might be rewarded with an extra Book at bedtime additional playtime or a game of checkers. The Points can also add up to a Long Lerm award such As a movie and a hamburger Orother reasonable incentives. Gradually increase the requirements for earning a Reward. With patience and perseverance your child May not become a Chatterbox but he May to willing to discuss his opinions Wilh the Leach or Reader my 3-year-old child Biles. I Reattie he does this when he s angry or frustrated but it s a problem. I m afraid other children will not want to play Wilh him. I be irked spanking but he still bites. Label me a biter s Mam dear Star s mom Many children try biting once or twice ii they Don t gel bitten Back they still eventually learn biting is not for people " for most children biting is the last Rosol a Way out when the child sees no other Rullel for his anger or frustration. 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