European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - September 15, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse                                The stars and stripes 11 letters dear Ann Landers after 17 years of what i thought was a solid marriage Mya husband announced that he had i found the perfect  i ran across an article in Money mag Azine that has loads of great advice for women in my spot. Unfortunately it came too late i for me but it will surely help others. Please print it. Thousands of women will bless you. Shell shocked i  Shell thanks for your generosity and Good lock to you dear. Preparing for divorce the following checklist devised with the help of Law yers financial planners and family Counselor can East the transition to single  Yna and your partner Are just thinking about divorce sum putting away savings in an account of your own this will give you ready Cash in ease your spouse Sud Denly staff contributing to household Bills. If you do not have credit in your own name get to. Apply for credit cards and if necessary ban someone other than your spouse co sign a Small Bank loan. Male an inventory of All separately and jointly held assets including investments cars and Fml tire. This tally along with a list of outstanding debts May be necessary to determine a division of property. Hate your Bank verify a list of the contents of any joint Safe Deposit Box. Once you have decided to gel a divorce notify tanks and brokerages where you and your spouse ban joint accounts of your intent to divorce. Ask that no brokerage transactions be carried out without fee written approval of both you and your spouse. Close out joint charge accounts or. If Yon wish to keep the accounts open notify the Eulora in writing that Yon will no longer be responsible for your spouse s purchases. Try to negotiate an agreement with your Spoust on the Dit Smo of assets child support and visitation rights. If you want child rapport or Alimony list your monthly and yearly expenses to your lawyer can make a Case. Collect the names of experienced divorce lawyer from friends he state or county bar association or other attorneys. Interview at least two candidates. Question hem about heir fees after the divorce decree becomes final rewrite your will to name an heir other than your spouse. Review health life and disability insurance coverage. Change the beneficiaries on policies you own unless your sell lenient requires Yoo to continue to protect Jour sex. Replace any Protection Yon have lost. Dear Ann Landers i d get a big kick out of it if you d publish my response to a Texas que Sion the Reader whose son asked Why women Are so dumb. As the Story goes there was a Man sitting in his room. He began to talk to god. The Man said god Why did you make women so Beautiful god replied Well so you would like  of the Man re plied Why then did you make women so soft again god replica so you would like  the Man was pensive for a moment and then asked cod Why then did you make women so darned stupid cod replied so they would like you no Dummy in ph1llydear no Dummy i m printing your Small joke to make up for All the male chauvinist comments that have appeared in this apace Over the years. Lot Anoil Tumi Lyn Demud  Undt Maleom Lour intr you in Wilto in my in am or to Curt ind Smon. Apo 99211. . Starc readers have varied opinions on Quayle with regard to this new fuss and fury Over j. Dan Worth Quayle i Don t believe anyone condemns someone forsaking his parents help in obtaining a spot in the National guard. However. Sen. Quayle states he really did this because he wanted to join the National guard and serve his country proudly. It seems that he Nusl think the average citizen of America is a bit thick. Of would t it have been great if we All could have used our parents influence in gelling a coveted National guard position sen. Quayle supported the conflict but did not want to tight id it no disrespect to the National guard. However i imagine that he told his parents gel me into the guard and 1 will have done my National serv ice with no Chance of  1 believe that Many would have loved to have been Able to give their sons that Opportunity. However not everyone had the contacts the Quayle had. Sen. Quayle is just Plain and simply a hypocrite he supported a War but wanted others to die for his ideals. So i guess that realty does Point out How much of a people s candidate he really is. The Only people the Quayle people think about is to tear Type of people we Money people so sen. Quayle did t go to Canada or tear up his draft card. That s because he believed in the War and also because he did t have to run he had enough contacts through his family to avoid combat and still appear honorable. Well All i can say is that if in All wars american boys had been Able to do what Dan Quayle did. We never would have won world War i and world War ii and Vietnam would have never begun. Sen. Quayle you deliberately sought to avoid a War you and your family supported but it did t mat Ter to you about All he others not so Rich and Fortu Nate who had logo. I guess they were not your Typ of people. Why Don t you just admit that. Sen. Quayle name and address withheld i am writing in response to the recent barrage sen. Dan Quayle has taken Over his controversial service in the Indiana National guard. Is there really a controversy or is this just another example of our free press extorting the Public in the name of news who other than some journalist claims family influence was what got sen. Quayle into the guard As a matter of fact what Mother or father would not do the same if Given the Opportunity since when is serving in the National guard some thing to be ashamed of All of a sudden being in the guard during the Vietnam Era is the same As running off to Canada or pen pals 4 would my Phi Pofi in Olhow of untruth. I am 22 in of. My  Txooj i Quini. Zombick Raikog my wiling him. In War my a  3llln Butny cr2i1ea i would Tab do Pila to cooking ind piling inn it Leyua Billil clinic i How mow Coon flu. I i 30 Yim old. My Habum trn Pmj Bui Puiu Linwin your i no column Rimini i Orton i a t 30u Mol Iii Elrex Tzib a by f being a Jane  the most ironic part of this controversy is what used to be a stigma fight ing in an unpopular War is now a political Neces sity. Don t misunderstand me the veterans of Viet Nam paid the highest Price of patriotism and Freedom. It just seems to me that our free press is looking for More sensational trash to make a. Buck. Please stick to the Issue is sen. Quayle Politi Cally competent to be our vice president Gregory c. Richardson hell Nikon a Greece hey or. Bush can i be the vice president on your ticket i also did t run off to Canada in 69. Sorry i could t gel into the guard my old Man did t know anybody. George Zakowski Paris France so sen. Quayle joined the National guard instead of the regular army. Big Deal All he did was exercise the most important Ameri can Freedom the Freedom of Choice. I serve proudly in the armed forces of this coun try for my own reasons but that does not  if the shooting starts i m going to jump right up and say pick me pick me i Wanna go to the front and be shot at and maybe killed Don t gel me wrong. I m not a Coward. I just Don t think everyone has to be in airborne Ranger to serve his country. It seems that As soon As he came into the spotlight All the press and his opponents could do is Sling mud. Why did t they do Ibal when he was just a senator. Surely being a senator is an important Job after All they do make Laws. Maybe i missed the boat but i thought we elected political leaders because they were Good in the area of political affairs. If our society is going to make a prerequisite for president a stiff military background then maybe they should study the term fast Tel dictator my. It sen Quayle was not qualified for this position then i Don l believe Bush would have picked him. This being especially True looking at Bush s cure re Cnoc. I wish that More emphasis would be put on issues than on mudslinging. It would be in this Way i could exercise Nna incr most important american Freedom an educated Rod name and address withheld Price of new uniforms this letter it concerning the recent article on the proposed uniform improvements. 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