European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - March 4, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Ann Landers dear Ann Landers. A Good Friend of Many years standing came with her husband to spend a couple of nights in our Home. Although she has always been terribly vain about her looks i am very fond of her and value her Friendship. In the Middle of the night after we All returned from a party i heard her get up and go to the bathroom. I soon realized that she was ill and throwing up. I asked her if she heeded any help. She said a no i feel much better now. It must have been the  v the next morning she did not join us at the breakfast table. Her husband brought her a cup of Tea in the bedroom. They left around noon a she did no to want any lunch a and she kept a handkerchief Over her Mouth when she mumbled a a goodbyes and said something about having broke a tooth. A immediately after they left my husband said there was a problem with the toilet in the guest room. It kept overflowing and a few Days later we decided to Call a plumber. He informed us that it was a bigger Job than he thought and he would have to remove the toilet from the floor to and behold he found the problem a a set of false Teeth. My husband and i Are undecided As to what we should do. I think we should Send our guest her Teeth and Tell her where we found them. Do you agree a a incredulous in Stockton dear Abby dear Abby i am writing in response to the letter signed a unfinished business a from someone who had not seen his deceased Friend for several years and was dismayed with the family a decision to have a closed casket funeral. I can relate to this situation wholeheartedly from the family a Point of View. Before my father died of cancer 10 years ago he had requested a closed casket funeral. What an uproar that created relatives and so called friends who had not seen dad in years were appalled. They said a this is not customary we wanted one last look at  my response was a dad wanted you to remember him As robust and healthy like he was before he became  we found a picture of dad taken when he was Hale and Hearty and placed it on his closed casket surrounded by Flowers. His daughter in California dear daughter Many others wrote objecting to the closed casket funeral. Read on dear Abby v i agree with a unfinished business about closed Cas Ket wakes. Recently i drove 60 Miles one Way to pay my respects to a Friend who had died of a heart attack Only to find a closed casket. I was not very Well acquainted monday. March 4, 1991 the stars and ripest Day a crossword Page 19 dear Stockton if you value her Friendship resist the temptation. You did no to say where the woman lives but this column appears almost everywhere and if she reads it Shell know you be pot her number. Dear Ann Landers. When our son was 17 he began dating a girl 14. Her Mother approved and even put her on the Pill. A a Greg was allowed to stay at their Home overnight. After they had gone together for two years a a Joan got pregnant. When their Little girl was born we were All thrilled. She was Beautiful and very Good. Joan mov a out of her mothers House got her own apartment and went on welfare. It. When the baby was 15 months old Joan met another Man and moved him into her apartment. We found out that even though our songs name is on the birth certificate he is not considered the baby s Legal father. Joan has refused to let Greg or us see the baby. Our hands Are tied. All we can do is Pray and cry. A Friend of Joan s sold her baby because she did no to want to be tied Down. We Are afraid Joan will do the same thing. The reason in a writing to you Ann is to let other people know that even if the fathers name is on the birth certificate it does no to mean anything. Heartsick in Champaign ill. Dear Champaign thank you for writing a letter that has a great Many lessons. 1 suggest that you seek Legal counsel. A a. C creators Syndicate /. With the widow so i could have just As Well paid my respects by sending her a sympathy card. My Point in writing is to suggest to families who feel that Way that the words a casket will be closed be added to the obituary in the newspaper. It May not be considered proper etiquette but it will save a lot of hard feelings. Finished business in Bryan Ohio dear Abby you had a letter in your column about a girl whose Friend was nearly hit by a car because she was jogging with a Headset on and  hear the car coming. My twin sister Jackie Poole Roach Wasny to that Lucky. She was killed in january 1988. She was jogging with a Headset on while listening to the super bowl. 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