European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - March 16, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Saturday March 16, 1991 the stabs and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i love my husband but we have a problem that is destroying our marriage. We be been married six years and have two Young children. In a 28, and he a 34. He never was Overly interested in sex but its dwindling Down to almost nothing. I used to think once a month was infrequent now its twice a year and in a becoming deeply depressed. My self esteem is Zero minus 10. In a pretty sure he Isnit fooling around. He works very hard and i know where he is at All times. And there is no Chance that he is Gay. We Are great friends and i know he loves me but i feel rejected and inadequate and have no Confidence in myself. When i get frustrated i say terrible things to him and then i regret it. He says in a obsessed with sex a like the rest of  i hear about men who complain that their wives Are cold potatoes but very Seldom do i hear a woman say this about her husband. Therapy is Over $100 a session in this area and we can to afford it. Please Ann help us. A needing More than a hug in Conn. Dear Conn. Obviously your sex drive is a great Deal stronger than your husbands but l can Tell you that twice a year for a Man who is 34 is Way below the National average. You Are not going to resolve this problem without outside help. If either of you has health insurance you May be Able to use it to pay for several therapy sessions. Also a psychiatrist Isnit necessary. A Well trained Counselor can do the Job. I urge you to make this investment. Save on something else. This problem must be resolved or you Are today a crossword dear Abby dear Abby the enclosed article was published in our local paper and i thought it deserved a wider audience. If every Parent and grandparent made this Little Jingle a part of a child a daily life,.who knows How much Energy might be saved a a fan in Vermont dear fan i agree. And Here it is singing for Edison Annette Anderson who died several years ago in Rutland vt., at the age of 99, was a Singer. From 1914 to 1917, she worked with Thomas Alva Edison singing song after song As he developed his phonograph recording system. He had stacks of Sheet music everywhere and would pick one out saying a there Annette a sing this  i remember Annette telling me about Edison Sec Centre cities and his Small soundproof recording room completely lined with Horsehair but the strongest quibble Voo Knuit it it Fiffik use get Hito Pra Crick u a pc cot to concentrate on the basics baseball is i t my thing air Zhoor me basics. A it a ave got to Ger them Down first before a ca�1 woo Hern like batting Fielding and base running going to become increasingly depressed and the marriage will disintegrate. For More information and referrals Contact the american association of sex educators Counselor and therapists 435 n. Michigan ave., suite 1717, Chicago Iii. 60611. Dear Ann Landers last october while travelling alone from Chicago to Virginia i stopped overnight at a Motel on the Western Edge of Pennsylvania. In the morning i continued my trip eastward. After picking up a toll ticket i drove without stopping through the mountains in the rain and fog until i came to my exit. I then discovered that i did no to have my handbag and  pay the toll. The gentlemen at the toll Gate were courteous and helpful. They called and verified that indeed my purse had been found in the dining area of the Motel. Ann my life was in that purse a my other keys Drivers License credit cards Money and valuable personal papers As Well As dozens of a Little  i  decide whether or not i should turn around and drive five hours two and a half each Way to get my purse or Trust the Motel manager to return it. I bet on Trust. Since i did no to even have 25 cents for a phone Call it was late in the Day before i arrived Home and could Call and give instructions for returning the. Purse. A a a a a a a a. A a a a a a a a a a a a a a Quot a i was wondering if i would Ever see my purse again when sure enough three Days later it arrived with everything in it. I want to publicly thank the staff at Conley inn in Mars a. A a grateful traveler Oakton a. Dear traveler those folks will be More than amply repaid when they see your letter. / creators Syndicate memory is of a Jingle i heard daily in my childhood. It was written by Edison and it Hung from the electric Light Chain in his recording room. It went like this a save the juice save the juice turn out the Light when not in use a perhaps if we All posted this prudent reminder near the Light switches in our Homes we would be less dependent on foreign Oil and could avoid situations like the one we Are in right now. A Doris Erb Cuttingsville it. Dear Doris with All due respect to or. Edison a a juice is saved Only if the lights Are switched off for if minutes or longer. According to a spokesperson for the department of water and Power in los Angeles there is a Power surge when lights Are turned on so lights should be left on if one plans to be in and out of the room. Perhaps the Jingle should be amended to read a save the juice save the juice turn out the Light if it wont be needed for 10 minutes or  of course the meter is All wrong but the message is accurate. C Universal press Syndicate across 1 Shriner s hat. 4 fall heavily a 8 period 12 is. Macgraw 13 Verdi opus 14 Quot to a and to  15 padre s brother 16 couple17 lumber a Mill. Equipment 18 California City 21 Kues followers 22 rotation duration 23 Grouchy folks 26 is. 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