European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 19, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                C Page 10 y you can have less and still have it All v. A a Erma Bombeck. Universal press Syndicate in inc years 10 come the answer to a do you Rome chef where you were and what you. Were doing the Day you discovered you could t have it till a will be As memorable As your recollection of the wars end or the first time your child turned off a Light. To some women the moment hits in the Middle of the night when the family is asleep and they re  lunches and emptying the dryer. To others it s an offhand remark from their mothers Quot Why done to you get yourself a schedule a there is Only one certainty. The moment will come it came a few years ago to Carol Orsborn. The new York times did a Story on the Mill Valley calif., woman who a had it  she enjoyed a successful career that was exhausting her two children on a Treadmill of activities a husband who worked Long hours with her an upscale House and a week that was two Days longer Ilian her stamina. Cam Orsborn was unique in that she vowed to drop out of the rat race and rearrange her priorities. I went to California to interview her for a Good morning  she had traded her structured aerobic classes to Row a boat in nearby Sausalito to a get my head on straight and think about my  when she and her husband Cut their hours at the office the Orsborn Public relations group in san Francisco the House in san Rafael with the maids quarters and the hot tub had to go. Instead of car pooling the kids to soccer karate music lessons French gymnastics and scouting she spent More time with them. Her husband opted to assume a share of the housekeeping and child raising. It made a Good Story but As 1 sat in a Rowboat with this Bright idea driven Young woman i had a nagging suspicion about How Long this would last. Alter All she was Young ambitious and caught  a generation that bought old age with Oil of olay made instalment payments on their lives and planned their families As if they were scheduling a dental appointment. A couple of weeks ago when she returned my. Call i said a it Arol. It s been live years. Are you still rowing a boat in Sausalito a she laughed  i knew it Quot hut everything else is the same. Actually pm calling 1 rom our vacation. We still live in the same House and have the same priorities. Given a Cloice Between values and Success i still choose values. Quot what happened to our Agency a its crazy but in spite of our spending less time there business has boomed. We be started to publish a a life driven business newsletter Lor c Fos and in be had time to write a Blok to be published this Winter called Quot inner t cell Nee. Rewards of the new work f.thic.�?�. The Orsborne May not constitute a trend a but they could Start a run on rowboats. Genealogy census records can help you Trace ancestors Myra Vanderpool Gormley inc Federal census records Are excellent genealogical sources. The census Tak cars were Given specific instructions knowing what these rules were helps researchers evaluate the information found in these records. For example in the 1820 census the numerators were to include a fall persons belonging to the family on the first monday in August even those who May be deceased at the time when they take the account but not infants born after that  so its possible to find your ancestor counted in the 1820 census even though he was deceased or away from Home. Another pitfall genealogists fall into with the 1820 census is under a free White males there is a breakdown by Ages under 10, 10-16, 16-18, 16-26, 45-up, those listed in the 16-18 column were also included in the 16-26 column. So you May have assumed there were additional Young men in the family if you were not aware Ofthus. The 1850 census listed the give names and  everyone in the family for the first time. The Date of the enumeration was june i and was supposed to include the names of All whose usual place of abode on that Dale was in a particular family. Ages were calculated by last birthday before june 1, 1850. Be sure to Check column no. 10 in this census numerators were told to make a Mark or dash opposite the name of each person married during the year previous to june 1. Many genealogists a assume those Marks or dashes mean nothing i column no. 12, the question asked was1 whether a person Over age 20 could read and write. If a. Person could read and write English or a foreign language this column was to be left Blank. A a place of abode meant the House or usual Long my place of a person. Anyone who was temporary ily absent on a  for other purposes was to be considered a member of. The family that was being enumerated. A the assistant marshals were directed to Quot make inquiries at All stores shops eating houses and other similar places and take the name and do script Ion of every person who usually slept there provided such person otherwise  a students when absent from their families were to be counted As members of the family with which they usually boarded and lodged on  were made at every vessel and boat employed in the International navigation of the United states and enumeration was taken of those who did not Belo Gloa family onshore census takers in All seaports were to apply at the proper office for lists of All people Ona voyage at sea and Register All citizens of the United states who have not been registered As belonging to a family. A a the 1870 census records Are extremely value hic but so few have been indexed that Many researchers skip them. Here Lor the first time you Quot May discover whether your male ancestor was a . Citizen. For people who were born out of the limits and jurisdiction of the United states it was necessary that he had  by judgment of court to. Have been duly naturalized. This Cen mis also asks if the father and Mother were of foreign birth. If you have overlooked extracting All the data found in the census records re examine them. The answers to some of your genealogical questions May be found there. Myra Vanderpool Gormley a former stars and stripes of Plover writes for he los Angeles times  for the week of May 20 Aries March 21-april a 19 release longstanding anger resentment. Prophetic visions ring True. Stick with usual modes Operand. Be attentive to loved ones. Taurus april 20-May 20emotional Teflon a suits you. Relationships Are harmonious. Take in Knect approach in business the past is a can a Clad Check. A. Gemini May 2-june 20. Play the conf. Dence game reach out to partners. Remain Loyal at work. Put a touch of fantasy in your life. Laugh a Little harder cancer june 21-july 22 Compromise with a disgruntled co workers. Keep track of paper Chase. Repressing feelings wastes Energy be unpredictable /. A Leo july 23-aug 22 prepare for travel opportunities. Patch up damaging love entanglements giving is receiving career recognition at hand. A Virgo aug. 2i>sept. 22 release hostilities through exercise spend time with friends. Write Down a Ian lasy vacation love is just a thought a away. A Libra sep 23-oct. 22 shop for Home furn hings watch Tor restrictive partners. Enhance your social status Check Fine print on investments. Scorpio oct. 23-nov 21. Let someone know you mean business maintain an upbeat aiti.-. Tude put  front Burn Erlet to emotionally. A v a a. V. Sagittarius nov. 22-dec-, 20 expect delays. And miscommunications. Release yourself from obligations. Keep up physically take others1 feelings to heart. A a. A a a a. A a a a v Quot a. Capricorn dec. 21-Jan. 19 feeling is believing. Partner appreciates extra. Attention. Choose friends carefully. Reconciliation with a. Former love looms. A a. A a. V a aquarius Jan. 20-feb. 18 emphasis on personal Appeal pay off old debts. Embark on new Hobby private Persona becomes Public Quot. Pisces feb. 19-March 20. Cleanup Segal indemnities seek passion in All you do. Romantic fire starts with a spark. Make a commitment to yourself. A Copley news service a sunday May 19. 1991