European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - August 23, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Friday August 23, 1991 the stars and stripes a Page 19 Ann Landers dear readers i am on vacation but i have left behind some of my favorite columns that you May have missed the first time around. I Hope you enjoy them. A Ann Landers dear Ann Landers in a another one who a never thought id end up writing to Ann _ Landers a but i finally got there like All the rest. My problem Isnit serious just awfully annoying. Quot while Riding the bus to work and Back i always carry a Magazine or a newspaper to read. The bus is usually crowded but since i get on Early i always get a seat. Within five minutes someone is sitting next to me. Two minutes later i have this strange feeling like his eyes Are wandering Over my Reading material. I then feel that i should ask permission to turn the Page. Maybe my seatmate Hasni to finished Reading the article. I am not a selfish person but i would dearly love to enjoy my bus Reading without worrying about the person sitting next to me. What do you suggest nettled in Pittsburgh dear net carry a Magazine and a newspaper. While you Are Reading the paper offer the Magazine to your seatmate. You might even confess that it bothers you to have someone Reading Over your shoulder. And please done to feel like a Freak. Your problem is shared by thousands a including me. Dear Ann Landers about that Mother in Law who kept the photo album with snapshots of her son and his former sweetheart on today s crossword dear Abby editors note Abby is on a two week vacation. Following is a selection of some of her favorite past letters dear Abby i need help and done to know where to turn anymore. My husband and i have been separated for More than two years. I still love him but there is no Chance of our getting Back together again. Abby How do you Stop Loving somebody in be been going to group therapy meetings but it has not helped to Stop the ache in my heart. Misery May love company but it does no to make me feel any better. Aching heart dear aching you can to a kill love. It has to die by itself. Done to dwell on thoughts of him. Dear Abby i am the Mother of a baby who is learning to feed himself. I am almost positive that Terry is left handed because when i put the spoon in his right hand he transfers it to  and proceeds to eat that Way. My husband says i should train Terry to be right handed because everything is geared for right handed people and the boy will be handicapped if he a left the Coffee table a your reply to a Seething wife did no to quite make it. I you said a your Mother in Law is no mind Reader. Speak up and Tell her How you  one  be a mind Reader to have a Little sensitivity. I went through a similar experience with my Mother in Law. My husband s former sweetheart was the girl next door. For eight years i was treated to the latest news on a Mary Beth Quot a always in the presence of my husband and children. I never even knew the girl and 1 had not Terest in her whatever. One evening at dinner my Mother in Law was going on and on about Mary Beth until i finally interrupted and asked her to please change the subject. She accused me of overreacting and made a big Deal out of it. I of course ended up looking like a damned fool jealous wife. Suddenly 1 realized it was the moment she had been waiting for. So perhaps a a Seething so Mother in Law is laying a trap As my own Mother in Law did. I Hope she ignores the bait and keeps her Mouth shut. Outsmarted dear out you might have a Point in which Case i would alter my advice a your Mother in Law is no mind Reader. Tell her How you feel  dear Ann Landers i read today where a 73-year-old Farmer fathered twins. Is this possible suspicious dear suspicious that Man of 73 May Well have fathered twins. Male Fertility often continues indefinitely. Incidentally multiple births have no relation to virility. C creators Syndicate inc. Handed. Now my husband is forcing Terry to eat with his right hand. What do your experts say Young Mother dear Mother my experts say to let the child eat with whichever hand he wants to. To Force Terry to use his right hand when he is naturally left handed could create Many More problems than it solves. Dear Abby a several friends and i have hit upon an idea for losing weight As far out As it May seem. We pull our shades Down lock the door and then clean House in the nude. We noticed overweight women do not tend to look at themselves in mirrors As much As More slender women. Well in cleaning House which is itself exercise we Force ourselves to look at our bodies. Our Only Rule is try to keep the stomach Muscles pulled in while cleaning. Its hard at first. But actually seeing the Nius cles tightened helps one to keep them taut after the body is clothed. 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