European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - October 10, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Thursday october 10, 1991 the stars and stripes a Page 15 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers recently i read in your column about a Man whose wife had just returned from a stay in a psychiatric Ward. She suffered from anxiety attacks and he was beside himself. I have a dear Friend who suffered terribly from panic disorders. She  sign a Check without having a Glass of wine and was terrified of going to the grocery store or any place where she might have to stand in line. This Friend heard of a program at Duke University in Durham ., and decided to try it. The change in her has been nothing Short of remarkable. She is a different person. Once a month she goes to Durham and she feels simply terrific. In be never written to you before Ann but when i read that letter i Felt i had to pass along this information. A.m., Burlington  Dear . My office spoke with or. Jonathan Davidson director of the anxiety and traumatic stress program at Duke. This is what he said a your program deals with All the major anxiety disorders panic Post traumatic stress obsessive compulsive disorder and phobias including social phobia excessive shyness fear of embarrassment blushing sweating or fear of speaking to others. A these disorders Are common hut unfortunately go untreated Iri Many cases. Most people respond Well to Brief courses of treatment lasting two to three months but longer term follow up is often necessary. It is never too late to seek treatment. Effective therapies include individual counselling medication cognitive behaviour therapy and joining a support group. A your program offers evaluation and treatment for today a crossword dear Abby dear Abby you were right in your advice to a no guts a who had Given his Fiancee a three Carat cubic Zircon. You told him to find the guts because it would be better if she got the news from him i Only wish he had written his letter a year ago. Here is the female Point of View my Fiance gave me a two Carat a Diamond a saying he had inherited it from his Grandfather. He said the jeweler who mounted it had told him its value was a a Between $8,000 and $10,000.�?� when i asked if head Ever had it appraised or insured he said he Hadnot a because he did no to want to pay an inheritance tax. His Mother did no to even know he had it he said and 1 could never Tell her because it would cause a family feud of course being in love and blinded by this gorgeous a Rock a i fell for the whole Story and proudly showed it off at work and to friends and family. Imagine my embarrassment yes after the wedding when i took it to a jeweler to have it appraised and he told me it was  a Diamond All the types of anxiety described above As Well As research into finding newer improved treatments. Often these research studies Are Cost free to participants. At this time we Are conducting medication treatment studies in adults and children with obsessive compulsive disorder and in adults with social phobia. We Are also studying the risk of developing Post traumatic stress disorder following rape. A we generally accept no More than 100 people into a study. Treatment is also available for those who do  Quality for one of the current studies but there is a charge. A anyone interested should Send a Long self addressed stamped envelope to Duke University anxiety program Duke University medical Center Box 3812, Durham  27710.�?� this is Ann talking. The Duke University medical Center is one of the finest in the country. 1 recommend it. Dear Ann Landers i have cancer and am receiving chemotherapy. I m proud of the Way in a handling the situation. A woman i work with can to stand for me to do Well. Every time i speak positively about my recovery she tells some horror Story about a Friend or relative who seemed to be getting better a and then she adds a suddenly she died a or a within a few months she was  she really depresses me. What can i say to put her in her place no name no town dear n.n., . Her place that woman has no place. I  give her standing room at a Skunk Rassle. From now on hold the Progress reports and spare yourself her dumb responses. C creators Syndicate when i confronted my husband he gave me another string of lies saying that either one of his previous roommates had found the ring in the apartment and replaced the Stone with a fake or that when he took it to the jeweler for engraving the jeweler must have switched the stones. Then he said that he knew when he said it do that it Wasny to a Diamond but planned to replace it without my knowledge on our first anniversary. Needless to say eight months before our first anniversary i divorced this con artist. I Learned my lesson the hard Way a and my sympathies go out to his next victim. A no guts should heed your sound advice Abby but i would also advise women to be wary of and question any Diamond that is Over one half Carat if it has no papers. . Deceived dear deceived its discouraging to contemplate a world where a Bride to be must see in Black and White that her Fiance is on the up and up. Not All that glitters is Gold nor is All that sparkles a genuine Diamond. 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