European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 20, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse Ann Landers dear Ann Landers recently you printed a letter from a Alan Wright Apalachicola who believes that human male aggression has been traced Back to Day two of recorded history and to the life of or. And mrs. Log. Well id like to Tell or. Wright he is wrong. I am a caseworker for victims of Domestic violence. My theory is that it started on Day one of recorded history with the parents of or. Log. Domestic violence is father log kept Mother log in line by using physical violence. A Boogie a grew up thinking this was the Way to treat a wife. So when he married mrs. Log he treated her the Way he saw his Mother treated. Ann its heartbreaking to meet these victims of Domestic violence. Not Only Are they physically battered but their self esteem is so Low they think they deserve the beatings. I Tell them a no matter what you did you did no to deserve to be and they say a Well if i Hadnot driven his car to work i have hit the Telephone pole and he have beat me Over the head with the frying or a if i Hadnot talked to mikes brother when i called to talk to his Girlfriend he have choked me with the phone in be talked with abusers who have told me that a she asked for it or that a she likes those Are dumb excuses. In All my years of working with victims both men and women in be never had anyone say a i enjoy getting knocked around. Its a fun Way to spend an let me add one last piece of information to All the dear Abby dear Abby we had a family discussion the other Day about the presidents of the United states and their living quarters in the White House. One party in the discussion said that the presidents family members and guests of the president must pay to stay in the White House. I would like to know if this is True or not. Harry Morris Holly Hill Fla. Dear Harry Morris the president is responsible for the Cost of food for his family As Well As for guests who stay in the White House family quarters. According to Anna Perez press Secretary to first lady Barbara Bush a guests have never been charged for their stay at the White House. The White House is not a hotel a dear Abby i began seeing a physician for a health problem. After the third visit he gave me a hug and kissed me on the Cheek As he said goodbye. On my next visit the same thing happened. I did no to quibble Hod Bof tag Day apts Day i sit 00t Here and Latch r it a mom exist amt enemy. I never see anything. I. U h0a what s that its the enemy and its coming ai6mt itts i Fame hot nov me my c0mm6 Nee a a of mans 3cnd a aaa a Don t even Immke about it thursday february 20, 1992 or. Wrights. Done to think you can to be a victim because you can. And if you Are Odds Are that you will sustain serious injuries. Why because if she is the abuser she will probably use a weapon. Any caseworker any City u s a dear . I can to dispute a word you be said. Read on dear Ann Landers i was surprised that you printed several letter on male aggression without making a comment. In a a senior at California state University Fresno. The letter about the nagging mrs. Log seemed not Only to advocate violence against women but to blame spousal abuse on the victim. Its perfectly of to publish that letter in the interest of free speech but i expected you to respond and say that although the Story was humorous Domestic violence is not caused or justified by a nagging wife. Lynn Verduzco Fresno dear Lynn Verduzco the log routine was funny. I did no to print it for its social significance. Your letter arrived with hundreds More accusing me of being insensitive to women a issues and siding with the men. What a switch for the last several years in be received endless complaints from males who accuse me of being a Man Basher a wild eyed feminist and worse. I Learned Long ago that its impossible to please everybody and in be just seen the evidence. C creators Syndicate know what to make of it but i really enjoyed it because i was very much attracted to him. This went on for several months so i finally asked him if he would be interested in seeing me outside the office. He said he a cares for me a but because we were in a doctor patient relationship it would not be ethical. Then i told him that i a scared for him too but if seeing him outside the office Wasny to ethical because of the doctor patient relationship i would gladly change doctors. He said a please done to consider changing doctors i would rather keep you As a now i done to know what to do. Abby Why would a Man especially a doctor make advances to a woman then turn Down an Opportunity to get together with her no City or state please dear no City the doctor is obviously the affectionate Friendly Type whose hugs and kisses were not meant to be a prelude to a romantic involvement. In any Case it was unfortunate that you mistook his intentions. Its not unusual for women to fantasize about their physicians who Are Well aware of this a and guard against it. In this Case your doctors behaviour was misleading and therefore unprofessional. 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