European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 26, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse Ann Landers dear Ann Landers last week my wife and i discovered that our 16-year-old son has been wearing his Sisters underwear. When we questioned a Brent a he admitted that he has worn her panties and other pieces of lingerie since he was 6. Our 17-Yearold daughter a Annie a has known about this for quite some time and says she does no to mind As Long As the panties Are clean when he puts them Back in her drawer. My wife is inclined to let Brent a express himself a As she puts it. She is a psychologist and says a great Many More males like to Wear lingerie than most people would believe. Furthermore she sees nothing wrong with it and indicated that she might buy him his own panties and bras so he would not have to borrow his Sisters. Brent insists that he is not Gay and reminds us that he has a very Lovely Girlfriend. According to him his Girlfriend is aware of his interest in women a under attire and she does no to mind. Can you suggest anything i can do about this i feel As if i am fighting a losing Battle. My wife son and daughter All think that what a a Joanne As Brent Calls himself is doing is Cool. How does one Cope with the situation when a psychologist approves of behaviour that is clearly abnormal please let them know that they Are encouraging sick behaviour. John in Mission Viejo Calif. Dear Viejo your songs interest in wearing women a lingerie is pretty Kinky but he is not going to Stop because his dad dear Abby dear Abby re the 16-year-old girl in Rock mich., who was afraid to Tell her friends that she did no to smoke or take drugs for fear of not being accepted. I recall vividly Back in the �?T60s As a teen Ager when a Bunch of my friends and i were hanging out in my Best friends garage passing around the Community cigarette. I passed it to a girl named Sandy and she said a no thanks i done to i remember thinking that she was so Brave and Independent for refusing to smoke when peer pressure was so great but to go along w the the crowd i joined in and razed her for being a a miss i often wish that i had been As Independent As she was because i am now battling a 25-year addiction to cigarettes. In be quit three times but it always gets the better of me and i return to smoking. I realize now that Sandy was smarter than All of us. I still hold a great Deal of respect for her even though she never knew How i really Felt and i Haven to seen her in 25 years. Quibble m convinced i be heard it Denquer and mow i m g0im6 to do it the ache 5106am. Quot be All that you can be Quot. I m convinced i m 60jn6 to 60 out there and be All that i can be. Wes Sefc. I m goin6 to do it wednesday february 26, 1992 does no to approve of it. What is involved Here is far More complicated than Mere Cross dressing. When you mentioned that he Calls himself a Joanne a a whole new dimension opened up. It appears that your son it Joys thinking of himself As a woman. Your wife the psychologist knows that counselling will not a straighten him it might however help him Deal More successfully with a world that does not View his behaviour As Normal. Good Luck. Dear Ann Landers Many years ago my husband disappointed me terribly. He substituted his Shriner a ring for his wedding ring. I was upset and explained that his wedding ring was a Symbol of our love our three children and All the Good times and struggles we had shared. He became angry and said a Don t mention the ring Ever again a i told him i was going to write to Ann Landers and i did. You printed my letter and when 1 asked a is he trying to Tell me something a you answered a the already has a How Clever of you. The Day that letter appeared in the paper my husband changed Back to his wedding ring. Had this not happened my heart would have been broken and i would never have Felt the same toward him. He lived for another 10 years and i was Content All that time knowing that he really did love me. You Are one smart cookie Ann. All these years i kept thinking i should let you know How much that column meant to me. In a 20 years late but Here a my letter. . In Dan Diego dear san Diego what a Lovely Day brightener. A letter like yours is a marvelous upper. Thank you for letting me know i helped. C creators Syndicate is. J. Benson san Diego dear is. Benson quit wishing. Simply gather together All the cigarettes you own a Cartons if you have any. Carry them to the trash can or the garbage disposal a whichever is closer a and put them out of your life. One parting shout smokers should quit a not Only for themselves but for All the people who love them. Dear Abby what can i do no one in my family including my husband wants to kiss me because of my bad breath which i seemed to acquire at about 40 years of age. In a 43 now my dentist says i have excellent Teeth and i Brush and floss twice daily. Mouthwash and Spray do no Good. I done to smoke and stopped drinking Coffee for a month and a half in Hopes it would Clear it up. It did no to. I miss my family a affection. Halitosis dear halitosis please make an appointment with your physician. The problem May be caused by some physical condition of which you Are unaware. 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