European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - November 14, 1985, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday november 14, 1985 the stars and stripes Page 11 Ann Landers v " dear Ann Landers i was very form Nate to Eccl a Lovely and delightful lady in my Rytir Cuenl years. It was a Joy to discover we have so Many things in com Mon. We love to Lake Short trips Allend sporting events do gardening and go swimming. We Cook. Together and we both like onions and garlic. That s the real test All is not perfect however. My sweetie a i a problem. Her son who is highly successful in his profession smokes cigarettes incessantly. He also has put on weight to a Point where his Mother fears he is a prime candidate for a stroke or a heart attack. To compound the problem my sweetie has a daughter who is grossly overweight. She has two Beautiful toddlers. My Darling is deeply concerned for her health and Tjie future of her grandchildren should some thing happen to their Mother. I find it hard to understand Why parents can raise children Ray for their College Edu cation help with Down payments for their Homes be willing and conscientious baby Sitters but cannot talk to them about a weight problem. I be suggested that my Darling take the Bull by the horns and have a serious talk with both her son and daughter and let the chips fall where they May. She refuses to do so. Ann what is your advice concerned Friend dear Friend my advice to you is to stay out of it. My advice to sweetie is to keep quiet. You can be sure both the ton and daughter Are Well aware of their weight problems. Harping nagging pleading begging and threatening will accomplish nothing except perhaps Strain relations. The woman s son and daughter Are adults. Until they decide on their own to seek outside help and alter their lifestyles nothing will change. Dear Ann Landers my husband s former wife is travelling through the United states and is due to visit in this City in a few months. While i am less than thrilled with the idea i Don t mind seeing her once. The problem is that my Mother in Law. Has invited Grace to slay with her for several Days. There will be Many family gel Togo hers and my husband and i will be a ked to attend. If my Mother in Law wants to extend such warm hospitality to her sex daughter in Law it s All right with me but i Don l Sec Why 1 have to socialize with her for a week. How can i get across my feelings with out looking like a Witch Grace has stayed in touch with All the family and they arc fond of her. Please help me be objective. I be had Many sleepless nights lid my inability to get through to my husband has made me Short tempered and shrewish. Any advice ? sign me miserable in Oregon an Opportunity to be Don l blow it co Here. I general explains detention incident to German May i draw your attcntio1 to an event that shows us in which Way the Amoric in Community in Wiesbaden cares for \ Good relationship with the German popu on. 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