European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - January 26, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Monday january 26, 1687 the stars and stripes Page 11 Ann Landers letters dear Ann Landers Twenty years ago i married is wonderful Man. My relative thought i was so Lucky to gel him he was smart and Sweet an Good looking Loo. We have had a Good marriage until it really. I became suspicious a year ago when Calvin told me he was impotent. I found out he is hav ing an affair with another Man. My nerves Are shot 1 want to know if i should Tell the Are old enough to under Jitandr i know they will be As shocked at i was. They love him very much. He has Lold me he plans to leave me when the time � right for him and his Calvin a had tour Vaca Tion this past year. The children and 1 have had nun Goe on Tike everything is Normal. I m not Jure How much More Oft i i can take. I have thought about informing the other Man s family he is also numb in Greensboro Denim no step no. 1 Sec a lawyer at of about a divorce. Present the evidence. Step no 1 Tell your children the trash. Step no. 3 leave the other Man s family alone. They an going to have enough trouble without any input from you. Dear Ann Landers 1 read the letter from upset in Albany about the minister who officiated at a funeral and mispronounced the name of the deceased woman three Lime. I . Our Mother was buried in a graveside ceremony when it was convenient for All the family to gather inner Hometown in Maine. My sister Jane Hawkes who lives in the area engaged the minister. He did no know any of the out of stale family members. During he services the minister referred to the de ceased As mrs. Hawkes instead of mrs. Bell. Than goodness her five children have a sense of humor. We knew that Mother would have laughed louder than an of us and probably added nobody s m.f.m1ch. Dear Balka minister does t have to be perfect to get the name or the deceased right just reasonably Alert you sound like a wry generous family. Dear Ann Landers Ever since i was a Little kid i have been irritated by Little noises such As a person Clearing his Throat the sound of a bouncing Ball or d person chewing ice clipping fingernails Etc. I realize that people do not intentionally make such noises to annoy me so i try to control my anger but it does t work. 1 end up screaming inside. Then i ask the offending party to please Slop. Sometimes i get so upset must leave the room. It my problem medical or mental 1 would love to overcome Thi strange malady but i do not know where to begin. Why am i like this silent screamer in Texas Star Deuyour problem is purely psychological. You got that Way during your childhood. It s probable someone you hulled made those Small noises and Yon decided the were doing it to annoy you. If you can reach Back to the Early years with the help of a Counselor and recall who it was and decide that the person meant no harm it May help Yon to overcome the Protem. My air rec Sadie Ala de Muntal Landara waft Mia your Tara. You Canna Narm can often. Sinn kid so rpm. Apr 0 211, . Formaa army s policy on abortions explained i have 3 question on pregnant teen agers. If a girl is pregnant and wants an abortion docs the army pay for someone told me of a Young girl who got pregnant and her parents look her to the dispensary. They sen her to Frankfurt and admitted her bran abortion wit the parents consent. If this is Rue i Tec inc parents should pay for ii not the army. Evelyn Perkins dessert Gert Niny editor s note co. John Parker surgical consultant 7lh medical comd., replies thank you for your letter. There Are a number at factors that must exist prior to the performance of a procedure that will legally terminate a pregnancy. 1 will list these actors and then conclude with a direct answer to the Core question in this letter. The individual who is pregnant must have made a competent decision to Hare the pregnancy terminated. Federal state Host nation and organizational Laws Tud regulations must All permit the procedure to be per formed. The individual who is pregnant must secure the serv ices of a physician who is ethically willing to perform he procedure and is functioning in a facility where the procedure can be performed with the utmost safety to the patient Federal Law firmly Stales that . Taxpayers monies will not be used for elective terminations at pregnancies. The Laws thai govern whether procedures such As these can be performed in a facility Are those of the state and country in which the facility is located. Therefore is. Facilities in the Federal Republic of Germany who have physicians thai Are willing to perform the procedure can perform it provided no us. Taxpayers monies Are used. Now for a direct answer to your Core a lesion. Be the is. Army in Europe Don perform procedure that terminate pregnancy if a the above Becton Are net no , taxpayer monies an used. An incl to jul who desires Ihu procedure to he performed Mutt pay prior to admission to the a Dlhy. The Imort to determined annually by the surgeon general s office and the comptroller general of the United states. An to does not edit its presentations we would like for an to Tell us Why they beeped out the word Bitch recently in the series return to Eden but Felt it was All right to not beep out the word Nigger in the movie blazing is in because the majority of an s staff arc a Bunch of racist kick members Well maybe not Kkt but racist right i feel that one was no worse than the other. But a lot of Whites would have been offended by the use of the word Bitch and Only the poor would have been offended by the latter term right i have noticed that an has a lot of shows mov ies mostly dealing with racism. Why i know this Tetter May get tossed into the was tubas act because you will probably feel it does t deserve an answer but i am hoping you will address this Issue because 1 am not the Only one concerned about this. Rebecca Brown Ravstein a Germany editor s note Paul Van Dyke program director an Europe replies an did not beep out words from return to Eden nor did an edit the Morle blazing met Brooks irreverent humor often parodies harm Ful Radii sexual political and religious stereotypes thereby exposing lie moral weakness of people who bold those beliefs. It it Likely the editing i done by he commercial to networks according to the criteria employed by their standards and practices divisions. An receive All of it programming from the armed forces radio and television service arts i department of defense activity. Arts buy the tame programming. In the same format offend to american to station. An i prohibited from Cen Loringer editing the Content it any program supplied it i this network responsibility to provide the Range of broadcast material a liable to Tele Villon viewers in the is. It would be unfair to our audience for us to edit or censor Content. The role of censor la on we Are Tell used to serve. An cannot and does not support any form of discrimination or to minority rights and need. Our announcements and programs in support of the us government s anti discrimination polled should make that Clear. To reception problem in leased housing i m writing about the television reception in the Duessel Dorfer housing area in Nuernberg the picture has not been Clear for Over two months now. My husband called the trouble number listed in the to guide and was told a work order had been put in to Correct the problem. Not sure what the problem is if it s an Antenna or the satellite dish. No matter what program is on the picture jumps now and again and wiggly Tine run through the picture constantly. This really makes watching and recording programs a prob Lem. I usually wind up turning the set on because the picture becomes so distorted. Would you please inform me if anything is Bing done about this mrs Debbie Branscome Nuernberg Germany editor s note capt. Brian w. Popken Public affairs officer he sch signal come replies upon receipt of your letter sch signal come representative contacted a Nuernberg military Community Deh representative and was old that inca Keldorfer housing area is leased of leased housing should be aware that 5th signal come is not allowed by eur regulation 105-5 to install or maintain Muter television or Cable television Antenna systems in leased homing. This it necessary because of their geographic proximity to in German non Dod audience. 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