European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - April 09, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Ann Landers dear Ann Landers last year i gave birth to a premature but healthy baby boy by caesarean Section. My parents offered to come from out of state and help out but because our son was ahead of schedule they weren table to get Here until he was 2 weeks old. We were Short of Money and my husband take time off without pay so i was alone for several ,v.\ a. 1 can to understand Why people done to consider a caesarean birth major surgery. My first week Home was absolute hell. Friends and in Laws popped in at All hours. Most were surprised to find me in my pyjamas at 2 . And asked a Are you sick a As a result of All the stress i had a ruptured incision and ended up Back in the hos a a Pital. A. A a a a. A a please Tell your readers to have mercy on a Section moms. Ask family and friends to Call before they pop in and instead of bringing a baby gift bring a hot meal. When you have a new baby a casserole makes a much bigger hit than another pair of booties. My son is now 1 year old and he is positively wonderful but the nightmarish memories linger on. A been there in fort Lauderdale dear . Millions of a Section moms will bless you when they see this in print. Thank you on behalf of All of them. Dear Ann Landers my wife just returned Home from a psychiatric Ward. She fears abandonment and has anxiety attacks. I done to know what to do. A til lies Calls me at work crying totally out of control and begging me to come Home which is a two hour dear Abby dear Abby Here a a suggestion for a Anonymous please a the Man who will be celebrating his 50th wedding anniversary soon and wanted to request that the guests bring no gifts. A last year we were confronted with the same situation for our 25th. Knowing that guests would bring gifts anyway we suggested they bring canned goods for the needy. Our invitations read. A your love and Friendship is the Only gift we need. However if you wish to bring something please make it an item of food that will be donated to the Abby we were overwhelmed by the generosity of our friends we hauled 10 boxes of canned goods and almost $200 in Cash Down to the local a soup Kitchen that feeds the homeless and needy. What a great party we had a filled with family and friends who made it All the More Beautiful by sharing with those less fortunate. You May use my name. Eleanor Burley Sterling Heights Mich. Tuesday april 9, 1991 drive from my Job. Do i follow her doctors instructions to simply refuse and then Pray that she does no to harm herself ? or do i make excuses go Home and Hope my Boss continues to be understanding frankly in a beginning to resent being victimized by this sick woman. We be had 26 wonderful years together and raised five super children. In be been a faithful supportive husband and i want to continue to be but it gets harder and harder. In a beginning to understand Why some of my male friends have had affairs. I can see How a cheerful fun Loving woman could Rescue me from this Joyless existence and make me feel human again. God knows i be proud of myself if i stepped out on my wife but if something does no to change soon in a afraid ill go Over that line. I need your advice Ann because i done to want to be another statistic in Falls chruch a. Dear Falls Church to borrow a Well known quote a a these Are the times that try menus by your own testimony your wife has Given you 26 wonderful years and five super children. She needs your support and loyalty now More than Ever. Don t use her illness As an excuse to cheat. Follow the doctors instructions about leaving work. Done to permit your wife sick or Well to manipulate you. Find a Counselor who will give you moral support and a Clear sense of direction. Although the alternative to being faithful May be enormously appealing at this time you would be risking a great Deal. Ask yourself this question is is Worth item of the Day if you think nobody cares whether you arc alive or dead try missing a couple car payments. A creators Syndicate. Dear Eleanor that suggestion appeared in my column two years ago but its Worth repeating periodically. Thank you Eleanor. And May you celebrate Many More Happy anniversaries. Dear Abby a in a writing to offer some advice to younger readers regarding dating i am 27 and Ever since i was in High school i adopted my own personal code for dating. It is any Guy who asks me out i will go with at least once a unless i have reason to believe he could be dangerous. Since then i have helped some very shy Guys develop their self Confidence and in be established some Good friendships and a few meaningful relationships. Also after the first Date 1 generally insist on paying in share of the Tab and in a not Rich. Cynthia in Georgia dear Cynthia its easy to see Why you re not sitting at Home waiting for your Telephone to ring. 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