European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - January 1, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 16 Ann Lander the stars and stripes wednesday thursday january 1/2, 1992today s crossword dear readers if some lines in today a column sound vaguely familiar you have a Good memory. They appeared in this space last year. Not much about new years Day has changed so thank you for allowing me to loaf a Little dear readers. Let this coming year be better than All the others. Vow to do some of the things you be always wanted to do but find the time. Call up a forgotten Friend. Drop an old grudge and replace it with some pleasant memories. Share a funny Story with someone whose spirits Are dragging. Vow not to make a Promise you done think you can keep. Pay a debt. Give a soft answer. Free yourself of envy and malice. Encourage some youth to do his or her Best. Share your experience and offer encouragement. Make a real Effort to stay in closer touch with family and Good friends. Resolve to Stop magnifying Small problems and shooting from the lip. Find the time. All of us have the same allotment 24 hours a Day. Give a compliment. It could make someone a Day. Think things through. Forgive an injustice. Listen More. Apologize when you realize you were wrong. An apology never diminishes a person. It elevates him. Done to blow your own Horn. If you be done something praiseworthy someone will notice sooner or later. Try to understand a Point of View that is different from your own. Few things Are 100 percent one Way or dear Abby dear Abby my daughter was recently married in a formal ceremony and reception to which my sister her husband and two teen age children were invited. Relations arc strained Between my daughter and my sister however i have a Good rapport with my Sisters children. My sister and her family arrived an hour after the ceremony. Their gift to the Bride and Groom a written in my Sisters handwriting a was a card stating that a donation had been made in the newlyweds name to the american heart association my daughter suffers from chronic heart problems. My sister knows that this is a very sensitive Issue and that my daughter prefers not to discuss it. I feel that my Sisters gift was inappropriate spiteful and inconsiderate. 1 would like to know what you think. Sign me. Stunned dear stunned i agree a a donation to the american heart association in the name of the newlyweds was an unusual wedding gift. But giving your sister the Benefit of the doubt perhaps she thought that contributing the Money to heart research would daughter More in the Long run than a toaster or a Waffle Iron. I would be More upset about their arriving an hour another. Examine your demands on others. Lighten up. Take a quiet walk alone when you feel like blowing your top. Laugh the loudest when the joke is on you. The sure Way to have a Friend is to be one. We Are All connected by our humanity and our need for one another. Avoid malcontents and pessimists. They drag you Down and contribute nothing. Be kind. Done to discourage a beginner from trying something risky. Nothing ventured Means nothing gained. Be optimistic. The can do spirit is the fuel that makes things go. Go to War against animosity and complacency. Express your gratitude. Read something uplifting. Deep six the trash. You eat garbage Why put it in your head Don t abandon your old fashioned principles. They never go out of style. When courage is needed ask yourself a if not me who if not now when a take better care of yourself. Remember you re All you be got. Pass up that second helping. You really done to need it. Vow to eat More sensibly. You la feel better and look better too. Done to gift up with secondhand smoke. Nobody has the right t6 pollute your air or give you cancer. If someone says a this is a free country a remind him or her that the country May be free but no person is free if he has a habit he can to control. Return those books you borrowed. Reschedule that missed dental appointment. Clean out your closet. Take those photos out of the drawer and put them in an album. If you see litter on the sidewalk pick it up instead of walking Over it. Make this year the Best Ever. L amp Kann Landers late for the ceremony. Now that is Tacky dear Abby i have been with my Boyfriend for three years a sometimes i think its been three years too Long. He never lets me go anywhere without him. He Bosses me around and acts More like a father than a Boyfriend. When we get into a fight he Calls me terrible names and throws my past in my face. He recently cheated on me with his a sex a whom he keeps going Back to just to spite me. He is very Moody. Sometimes he gets violent and hits me. He wont let me out of his sight. I never have an Opportunity to get away from him for a while a never mind forever. What should i do please done to print my name. Head kill me. Sick of his abuse dear sick find a women s services in your Telephone Book or Call information for the number of a women a shelter. You Are being held hostage to a selfish abusive tyrant. If you think your life might be in danger if your name is published it is essential that you get away. If you have to Call the police in order to get out of the House Call them a but Don t stay there another Day. There is nothing anyone can do a a for you a Only you can save yourself. Please take my advice. And let me hear from you again. I care. 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