European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - January 1, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Wednesday thursday january 1/2, 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 21 Ann Landers dear readers if some lines in today a column sound vaguely familiar you have a Good memory. They appeared in this space last year. Not much about new years Day has changed so thank you for allowing me to loaf a Little dear readers. Let this coming year be better than All the  s crossword vow to do some of the things you be always wanted to do but  find the time. Call up a forgotten Friend. Drop an old grudge and replace it with some pleasant memories. Share a funny Story with someone whose spirits Are dragging. Vow not to make a Promise you done to think you can Kdep. Pay a debt. Give a soft answer. Free yourself of envy and malice. Encourage some youth to do his or her Best. Share your experience and offer encouragement. Make a real Effort to stay in closer touch with family and Good friends. Resolve to Stop magnifying Small problems and shooting from the lip. Find the time. All of us have the same allotment 24 hours a Day. Give a compliment. It could make someone a Day. Think things through. Foj a give an injustice. Listen More. Apologize when you realize you were wrong. An apology never diminishes a person. It elevates him. Done to blow your own Horn. If you be done something praiseworthy someone will notice sooner or later. Try to understand a Point of View that is different from your own. Few things Are 100 percent one Way or another. Examine your demands on others. Lighten up. Dear Abby dear Abby i am writing in the Hope that my letter will serve As a warning to pet owners As Well As parents of Young children about a Hazard of which my husband and i were unaware until our personal tragedy. We had a Collie mix a lady a who was in great health and very playful. She was very special to us. About a month ago my husband came Home from work to find lady dead on our Kitchen floor i had left an empty breakfast Cereal Box in a paper sack near the Back door intending to take it outside to the garbage the next  i slept lady found the Cereal Box stuck her nose in it and suffocated from the plastic liner bag which was sucked up around her nose Box. A a w Type material and glued tightly apparently we were mistaken. The bag was made of a plastic material and not attached to the Box at All. Irene and Cliff Smith Laramie Wyo. Dear or. And mrs. Smith my condolences on the loss of your beloved pet. It May Comfort you to know that lady did not die in vain her misfortune gives me the Opportunity to Alert others quibble take a quiet walk alone when you feel like blowing your top. Laugh the loudest when the joke is on you. The sure Way to have a Friend is to be one. We Are All connected by our humanity and our need for one another. Avoid malcontents and pessimists. They drag you Down and contribute nothing. Be kind. Done to discourage a beginner from trying something risky. Nothing ventured Means nothing gained. Be optimistic. The can do spirit is the fuel that makes things go. Go to War against animosity and complacency. Express your gratitude. Read something uplifting. Deep six the trash. You  eat garbage Why put it in your head done to abandon your old fashioned principles. They never go out of style. We encourage is needed ask yourself a if not me who if not now when a take better care of yourself. Remember you re All you be got. Pass up that second helping. You really done to need it. Vow to eat More sensibly. You la feel better and look better too. Done to put up with secondhand smoke. Nobody has the right to pollute your air or give you cancer. If someone says a this is a free country a remind him or her that the country May be free but no person is free if he has a habit he can to control. Return those books you borrowed. Reschedule that missed dental appointment. Clean out your closet. Take those photos out of the drawer and put them in an album. If you see litter on the sidewalk pick it up instead of walking Over it. Make this year the Best Ever. L amp Kann Landers c creators Syndicate to the potential Hazard of discarded Cereal boxes. Dear Abby i am one of those people who thought your frequent advice to get counselling was a cop out but now that i am in recovery for bulimia i hold a new respect for counselling. I thought i was going in Quot for some medical Miracle that would cure me. Instead i received intense group therapy. If someone had told me that my disease had psychological roots i never would have sought help. I was one of those people who thought counselling was admitting to being a failure. God works in mysterious ways. Bulimia a an abnormal constant craving for food a Isnit always what gets people into treatment but it was my Cue. My life is not perfect because i sought counselling but i Nave a new Outlook. I am getting out of my abusive marriage and seeking support groups. Abby i wish everyone could get counselling when they need it without the stigma so Many people attach to it. In recovery in Virginia dear in recovery Hooray for you and thanks for those kind words in defense of my frequent advice to get counselling. And lest anyone think that getting counselling is easy a its not it requires a Good hard look at oneself warts and All. C Universal Pross Syndicate across 1 furniture for the flock 5 act the Stevedore 9 bankroll 12 Rue the run 13 dismounted 14 Pierre s pal 15 shut out. 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