European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 21, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse A titty 3 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers my sex husband was a compulsive Gambler and he made my life hell because of it. I went for counselling which was a godsend. In a writing this letter for everyone living with a person who is addicted to gambling. First recognize the signs. If your son daughter brother sister or spouse is always broke ask Why. Done to take his or her word for it. Demand proof. Compulsive behaviour usually requires that the person also be a liar. Done to cover up for a Gambler and done to make phony excuses. This Means Stop the flow of Cash and Force that person to be totally responsible for his or her own life. I was subjected to a lot of pain that could have been avoided if my husbands family had not rescued him every time he got into trouble. Over the years they arranged Loans for him and when he pay up they looked the other Way while he stole Money from them. When you try to cover up for a person who is addicted to gambling you Are doing him no favor. You Are simply delaying the Day of reckoning and putting him on a collision course with disaster. You must let him suffer the consequences of his addiction even if it Means jail. Chicago Reader dear Reader thank you for a letter that gives me the perfect Opportunity to once again mention gamblers Anonymous. This Fellowship is for men and women of All Ages and costs nothing to join. Just look in the phone Book find out when and where the next meeting is a and go. If your Gambler Friday february 21, 1992 the stars and stripes today a crossword Page 19 dear Abby dear Abby i am a Young woman who graduated from College last year. I now sell Media advertising which requires quite a bit of travelling. I am not married and have no children so in a far from an authority on the subject but i find appalling the number of mothers who allow their Little ones sometimes As Young As 5 or 6 to use Public restrooms unsupervised. Until i was in about the sixth Grade my Mother would take me into the bathroom put paper liner Down for me or at least wipe the seat off and make sure i washed my hands thoroughly afterwards. This kind of mothering seems to be missing today. What is your opinion Nicole from Omaha dear Nicole there Are All kinds of people travelling these Days. Be assured that most mothers and fathers dream of letting their Little ones out of their sight at an Airport ref times to go and you have decided to stay with him you need help and you la find it at gamblers Anonymous . Box 17173, los Angeles Calif. 90017. This self help organization has chapters All Over the world. It has succeeded when everything else has failed. I urge everyone who needs this kind of help to get it. Dear Ann Landers i can to believe what happened this evening. I was sitting in a fast food restaurant with my husbands Cousin Ellen and her baby. All of a sudden Ellen opened her Blouse whipped out a breast and proceeded to nurse the Little one. She did not cover herself with anything but just kept at it As if she were in the privacy of her own Home. I kept hoping the manager would see her and ask her to go to the ladies room but no such Luck. Several women in the place raised their eyebrows and the men leered. I have never been so embarrassed in my life. Ellen is no ignoramus. She is a College graduate working on her pm. D. In a not a prude Ann. I breastfed my two children but never in a Public place. When i took my babies to the Homes of family or friends i always went into another room to nurse them. Ellen has a Strong personality and has been outspoken when it comes to women a rights. I try to avoid confronting her about anything but i do believe she was out of line on this. What Are your views Ann red faced in Tulsa dear red in be been Down this Road before but am Happy to travel it again. Breast feeding is Best done in private. However it can be done discreetly in a Public place by putting a Light Blanket or Scarf Over the nursing child and the breast. If this is done no one should be offended. C creators Syndicate a a or any other Public place. But unfortunately some parents Are too Lazy too trusting or too harebrained to make their children a safety their first priority. Dear Abby Many women do not go to the doctor when they should because they dread hearing the old a devils of obesity lecture one More time. When i turned 40, i decided that i was not going to be weighed by anybody again because it was impossible for me to maintain the unrealistic Low weight the doctors expect. / the first time i went to the doctor and his nurse said a shop up on the scale for the doctor a i flatly refused and told her that i was there for an ear infection which had nothing to do with How much i weighed. She was quite angry and made some snippy remarks to the doctor. But when i told him that either i come in when i need to be there without being weighed or i done to come in at All he opted for me to be there. 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