European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - January 06, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday january 6, 1994 the stars and stripes Page 21 husband s sex joins family Gathen nos today s crossword dear Ann Landers several weeks ago Clyde and i celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary. We gave a Small but elegant family party. It was spoiled for me because Clyde s sons insisted on adding their Mother to the guest list. Several Days later his sex wife sent us an invitation to have dinner at. Her Home where she lives alone. Without consulting me Clyde accepted for both of us. The next thing i knew he invited her to our Home for lunch. This woman has confided to another family member that she still loves Clyde which does t Surprise me. Our marriage is solid but i am troubled of his desire to include his former wifely our family get together. I know his sex wife can be devious but i Don t want to provoke her children. It is apparent to me that they Are trying to get their parents Back together again. What should i do Ann feeling insecure in Mexico City dear Mexico City you need to have a Frank talk with Clyde. Let him know you feel uncomfortable about the a too frequent Ann Landers get together with his sex wife. The boys Are grown now and there is no Good reason for the sex to be included in your family celebrations. It is up to your husband to ask his sons not to re quest that their Mother be placed on future guest lists. If they want to see her they should do so on their own time. Dear Ann Landers i will soon be marrying a very Sweet woman. I under stand it is customary for the bridegroom to carry the Bride through the doorway after the nuptial ceremonies and the reception. I am of medium stature and my Bride is a wine bar Rel of a woman. Lola weighs close to 300 pounds. I m afraid of making a total fool of myself if i try to carry her through the doorway. I know Damn Well i can t do it. -. Would it be of if i rented a wheelbarrow and made a lighthearted joke of it Skinny in Schenectady dear Skinny skip the lighthearted joke and walk hand in hand with Lola across the threshold. Shell understand and appreciate it. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chi Cago. Iii. 60611-0562. -. C creators Syndicate Good planning bypasses abortion Issue dear Abby dear Abby i have just completed editing and organizing five years of videos correspondence with elected officials and organizations and mag Azine and newspaper clippings concerning the abortion Issue. I thought the results might inter est you. One Side of the Issue spoke of prevention of unwanted preg Nancy through information education birth control and affordable available contraceptives. This Side supports a woman having the right to make her own decision concerning her self but thinks that a woman who is not pregnant does t need to decide if she should have an abortion. Re Spect the right reduce the the other Side spoke Only of abortion being wrong or a sin and thinks that there Are no rights where a woman is concerned. Her Only Choice comes before the pregnancy and male responsibility is never mentioned. This Side feels that information promotes experimentation sex education encourages sexual activity and its reference to birth control is abstinence. Planned parenthood was organized in 1921 for the purpose of giving information on birth control to Low income women who otherwise could not afford Preven Tion of unwanted pregnancies. That was 52 years before the courts made abortion Legal. It was later expanded quibble to include contraceptives testing and treatment of in Fertility plus any disease connected with the sex or Gans. In our geographic area planned parenthood s present Campaign is focused on men and their greater involvement in unwanted pregnancies. The Demoss foundation has spent in excess of $100 million on its life what a Beautiful Choice Campaign. Neither the commercials nor literature i have received contain any mention of prevention or of reducing unwanted pregnancy. The commercials Are filled with Happy loved Well cared for children giving the impression that this is the Way of life for All children. Which Side of the Issue is really life and spends its Money time and Energy toward a future filled with children who Are wanted loved and cared for i know from personal experience that abortion can have benefits. Its a much different time now and it is within our reach to achieve the prevention of unwanted pregnancy and that is the answer. I am Choice but i did not distort the above facts. I am also a member of the religious coalition for abortion rights and am very proud to be a planned parenthood Volunteer so if you choose to publish my letter you Are very Welcome to use my name. Patricia Murchek Tucson Ariz. Dear Patricia Murchek thank you for an important contribution to this column. Letters for this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447. Mount Morris Iii. 61 054. 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