European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 11, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 26 the stars and stripes Friday february 11,1994 Reader riled by Ann s ago dear Ann Landers. You asked your readers to let you know How your advice turned out. Well ill Tell you. Lousy. And in be been mad at you and myself Ever since. Over 30 years ago i wrote to you. As a newlywed i was upset because whenever i tried to appear a a alluring to my husband he would become verbally abusive. I told you about the sexy Black Nightgown i bought to Surprise him. When he saw me in it he laughed and said a what Are you supposed to be a Hooker a i wrote to you and asked How i could interest him in a romantic evening and what to do next. You advised me to Cool it sit Back and wait for him to initiate lovemaking because it was obvious that he did no to like aggressive women. I took your word As gospel in spite of the fact that be never showed any consideration for my feelings or my physical needs. I once brought Home a Well written explicit sex manual and quietly suggested that we might both learn something from it. He threw the Book across the room and told me he did no to need to learn anything about sex. Although you counselled me to work at my marriage i finally divorced the animal after 29 years. What you should have said was a a done to waste your life trying to educate a boor. It can to be i Hope your views on this subject have become More realistic Over the years. I also Hope that any woman who finds herself married to this kind of Man will walk out Early on and not waste years trying to change him. Wiser but too old to enjoy it Santa Monica Calif Ann Landers dear Abby. On the subject of child abuse several generations ago it was considered acceptable to Box a child Sears As an appropriate punishment. R was not generally known that such a practice could have devastating results a although Many must have heard that a very Young Thomas Edison became deaf after having his ears boxed. At the age of 4, i recited some indecent poetry in front of polite company. My father an otherwise Model Parent slapped the left Side of my head vigorously with his right hand. That was the Only time he Ever struck me soon after and from then on i Felt a certain numbness in my left ear. Later there were spells of buzzing and roaring along with dizziness entered in my left car. Finally seizures and repeated blackouts sent me to the Hospi dear Abby quibble Bov it s a Good Imlig that i had id cancel that by Ltd won Art soured de de it be ate i Crim t &eli0/e that Trudy u at it 60lrtg to 5eht he out to your guard a a a a a a Twer u As a close All. I be never. Exert o Happy to have Oard Dot. Hoo d be req. Go few it see if Vou cart get it nou because 50he Clef store 15 Alwg Lertg Over some cookies aped mittens. Vaa a dear Wiser sorry if you Felt my advice was Lousy but 29 years id say you were a slow learner. Now that you Are rid of the Albatross enjoy your Freedom. Dear Ann Landers can you stand one More letter from a daughter who blames her parents for everything i blame my parents for a Happy childhood. They were always there when i needed them. They never missed one of my basketball games and always knew what to say when we lost. 1 also blame them for my College education. They worked hard to support me and pay my Way. I blame my parents for my sense of honesty and fairness. Dad never brought Home from work so much As a Pencil that belonged to the company. Its my parents fault that in a open minded and compassionate. They always accepted my weird friends and my off beat opinions. If i behave unselfishly i blame my parents. They were always willing to help us take care of our pets Ana they Lent us their car when we needed wheels. I also blame them for my ability to do a Good Job a they encourage us to work hard and do our Best. Finally i blame my parents for molding my siblings and me into people who know How to love. Every Day of our lives my parents set a Fine example. _ i Hope that As a Parent ill be As caring patient and Wise As my mom and dad were to us. A daughter in Michigan dear daughter what a tribute your parents will be awfully proud when you phone them this morning and say a look at Ann Landers column today. The second letter is a mine a a a. A a letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Cal Cago Iii. 60611-0562., c creators Syndicate son Tal where surgery was performed by a neurosurgeon. My hearing was never restored in that ear. And All this was brought on by a a a Loving Parent. So dear Abby if a Parent feels that a Little physical punishment is necessary to teach a child a lesson Tell your readers to keep it below the neck. Please withhold my in a quite Well known in Lake Placid Fla. Dear Lake Placid i disapprove of hitting a child to a a teach him or her a lesson. Hitting has escalated to beatings a some brutal enough to Send a child to a Hospital or worse. Denying a child his or her favorite entertainment or sport is far More effective. Letters or this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447, mount Morris ii 61054. A a a a c Universal press Syndicate today a crossword 37 madams mate 38 clone 39 unrefined 41 recognize 45 farm statistic 47 a Dahabi 48 Pullover top 52 Sun. Speech 53 scrub to Nasa i 54 is. Gardner 55 foolish sort 56 late 15th-Century caravel 57 yen fraction across 1 rep. 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