European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - August 04, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday August 4, 1994 lifetime of lessons Learned from Ann the stats and stripes today s crossword dear Ann Landers i be read your column since i was 7. Now i have daughter that age. Reading about other people s prob lems has made me realize How Small mine guided me through a difficult childhood and adolescence. I could pick up the paper every Day an learn How others solved prob lems similar to mine. And i knew i was t alone. I also Learned from you that most problems Aren t so serious that you can t hav a sense of humor about them. Many of. Your columns Are so Good they should be read Over and Over. 1 have even gone to the Library to find the columns you wrote before i was born. I did t want to miss any thing. You be been a Strong positive influence in my life and i d like to say thanks by sending you this essay. Hope you la print it. Lessons Learned from a lifetime of Reading Ann Landers you Are responsible for your own happiness. No one can diminish your self esteem unless you give them per Mission to do won t stay mad at you Long if you can say i blew it and i la try to make when something is troubling you Tell people you Trust instead of trying to cover it up. _ you la be surprised to learn that they have been through something similar. Idon to pass up an Opportunity to Tell people you care about them. Ann Landers you May never get another Chance. Reserve judgment until you know All the facts. Even then keep your Mouth shut if no useful Pur pose is served by adding your 2 cents Worth. Be grateful for your Good health and the health of those you love. Be aware that without Good health wealth and Suc Cess mean Little. X if you enjoy your work and your life you Nare Rich. If you Aren t Happy with either How can Money help if you re having a Rotten Day Don t take it out on others. Simply say 7v,. This is a Rotten Day. Tort Orrow is sure to be this attitude can save a lot of relationships. Don t be afraid to try something you think you can t do. There s no such thing As the perfect Man or woman. Look for the Best Overall package of ambition kind Ness consideration self esteem and intelligence. Otherwise you la spend your life alone. Spend time with your children. You can respect and learn from people even if you Don t like them. You can learn something from everyone because every person in the world knows something that you Don t. Nancy line Jacobs Omaha neb. Dear Nancy your letter is a wonderful example of How my readers learn not so much from me As from one another. And that is the real value of this column thank you. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chi Cago. Iii. 60611-0562. 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Don t people realize that we had to provide the hotel with a guaranteed number of guests two Days before the re quibble dear Abby caption and had to pay for them regardless if these people had bothered to Call and let us know their plans had changed we could have saved $400. Abby please Tell your readers to consider their plans seriously before responding to an ., and if circumstances change after accepting at least to give the concerned party the Courtesy of a Telephone Call As soon As possible. Please use my name. A _ i am so angry with these people maybe they will see this letter and know How much Hurt they have caused by their Lack of common Courtesy. Arlene e. Differding Summerville dear Arlene please be assured that you Are speaking for Many who have paid a tidy sum for no shows. Such insensitivity is inexcusable. _ letters Tor this column should be addressed to dear Abby at . Box 447. Mount Morris Iii. 61054. 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