European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - January 05, 1995, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday january 5, 1995 the stars and stripes Page 21 wife told no children no marriage today s crossword a i a a dhar Ann Landers i am several years older than my husband. Lyle and i have been married 15 years. Unfortunately i can not have children. Lyle now has decided he wants a family. I told him Tine we can he said no. I want my behind my Back he has Bee seeing a Young woman. He is giving her Money and buying her expensive clothes on a regu Lar basis. This is not just be seen the receipts. When i asked Lyle to Stop seeing her he said he can t because the sexual attraction is too now says he wants her to carry his child. This morning retold me he is seriously consid ering divorce. He refuses to Seea marriage Counselor because they Are too Lam devastated and hate to think about life without this Man. I told him our marriage does t stand a Chance As Long As he keeps seeing this woman. Lyle say she still loves me but we have grown apart. I need your help Ann. I m sick at heart and desperate in California dear desperate i am afraid dear that your marriage is Over. . Other woman has All the Trump cards. Lyle Ann Landers says marriage Counselor arc too expensive but he misgiving he of. Money and buying her expensive clothes if he has talked to her about carrying his child you can bet they be talked about marriage. Call a lawyer and get this Skunk out or your s smelling up the neighbourhood dear Ann Landers one of the biggest mistakes a widow or a widower can make when a spouse Dies is to sell the House. It s usually the grown children who urge their Parent to sell. The kids mean Well but they arc mistaken. It sounds Good at first a Nice Little apartment in a new neighbourhood which is considered safer for on elderly person alone. People visit for a while but then they get Busy wit their own lives and mom or dad end up alone in a strange place with new neighbors. The High Point of the Day is taking out the garbage or walking to an empty Mailbox. Ann please Tell the seniors if they must sell their Homes to rent in the same area if possible. The Quality of life is much better when you know your neighbors the store clerks the pharmacist and the Guys at the hardware store. -rutminn.y. Loners to Ann Landers should by addressed to her at . Box 11562. Chi Cago Iii. 60011-0562. C creators Syndicate. Let kids be kids not siblings Sitters Ali Raddy today i saw something that brought Back some very unpleasant memories from my childhood. I was having a manicure when a woman with three boys about 6 months through age 9 came in. This woman i m assuming the boys Mother expected the oldest boy to take care of the youngest while she sat and had her nails course the baby was rest less so she told the boy walk him around in the the boy went outside for a few min utes and then returned. Anain she said i told you to walk Nim around he left again and re turned a few minutes later. Could Tell the boy did not want to do the task his Mother told him to do. Dear Abby Why do parents expect the eldest child to become a built in baby Sitter or worse yet a Parent it was t the child s decision to have another baby twas the parents. _ just because a child is mature for his or her age does t mean he or she should be responsible for a baby and miss out on his or her own childhood. I speak from experience. Like that Little boy i Tawas expected to care for Myja talc brother. We we re 10 years apart i was just a Little girl i wanted to be a child not a Mother. _. Did t that Mother understand the Little boy did no want to be outside and risk one of his friends from school seeing him push a stroller you have no idea How embarrassing it is for a child. I m 34 years old and still remember those memories like they were -. All i can say is if someday i am blessed with two children i will never treat the firstborn this Way. Firstborn in California dear firstborn what if one of the playmates did Sec the 9-year-Oldpushing a stroller or looking after the younger Sib Hng it i nothing to be ashamed of he is helping his Moth or. Not everyone can afford nannies to look after the children. Traditionally older children look after their younger siblings. They also shovel Snow in the Winter mow the Lawn inthe Lummer and Rake the leaves in the fall. Children Are supposed to help their parents it they can. Don Knock child care it s excellent training for parenthood. A to tuft Tot Tho column should be addressed to dear Abby at p 0 to 447, mount Mouhat x Bias Dom to 7m� put facts. 5� i did to a but to a Puiul it not Jol i totem t Urr it u ump it u m Sottou Decd atm cd it tout pub Attar th6 this Check needs Tov a a fled or. Fuscoe use 0ul m6et to is. Flask. " work you to want that a Oul Pam
