European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - December 20, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Hayden satisfied after readers beg for More by Dana Kennedy the associated press this is a Story about sex. Or rather its the Story of a Book about sex. A Story about a publishing phenomenon. But this Story also comes with a warning if you re a Man with a fragile ego or a Strong sense of denial Here a some advice skip this. Buy the latest Issue of guns and ammo or Field and Stream instead. This Book involves gulp orgasms. Or the Lack of them. Specifically the fact that Many women apparently fake them. This Book has been a blockbuster this year. Not bad especially since it was first published in 1983. It has made the times Best seller list three different years in 1983,1984 and 1992, and has sold More than 500,000 copies. Part of its Success could be the title which is not exactly vague. Its called How to satisfy a woman every time and have her beg for More it May sound like soft Core porn but the woman who wrote it a a movie and to actress named Naura Hayden intended the Book to be a marriage manual. Hayden who lists the angry red planet As one of her acting credits does no to believe in premarital or extramarital sex. She does believe in a Good healthy sex in a marriage. Her 123-Page manual comes in a Small Glossy red hardback. Chapters include a the big bang theory a a a teasing and a what to do if your Man wont even try for women Only a the Centrepiece of the Book is reminiscent of the infamous episode of tvs . Law involving a mysterious sexual technique called the Venus Butterfly. While the Venus Butterfly was fiction the fairly simple technique Hayden outlines in the chapter titled a the main events is real. It describes How a Man can bring a woman to orgasm through sexual Intercourse. Hayden should know. As she sits in the Patio of her new York City town House financed in part by the books royalties she says she lived this Book. A i was married for eight years a says Hayden a tall Lively redhead who looks to be in her mid-50s. A and i always faked it. I thought there was something wrong with me. It led to our divorce. Sex is the deepest expression of love. You re not going to have a Happy marriage without  Hayden has written four other books mostly about health and nutrition and recently wrote and starred in a Low budget film that co starred Jackie Mason among others. She Calls herself a a doer and a  so after Hayden got divorced she took action. She decided to take a Survey of 486 women ranging in age from 18 to 92, from across the country. A every woman said she faked it at least some of the time a says Hayden. A men think they can Tell. Honey there a no Way men can Tell. There a no Way a Man could know unless she tells him. And she does no to want to Tell him because menus egos Are  Hayden said she heard poignant stories. One woman said she decided to confess to her husband that she had never had an orgasm with him and he a slammed out of the House and filed for divorce. Another woman said she had been married for 52 years and never had an orgasm with her husband. A i realized i Wasny to alone a says Hayden. A you always read that couples fight and split up because of Money. But if a woman is satisfied she a not going to scream at her Man. If she a Happy in bed they 11 work out the Money  so she devised her technique and sent copies of it to All the women in the Survey. She did t try it herself because she was single at the time and i Don t a Naura Hayden a sex is the deepest expression of  believe in  she has since tried it despite her opposition to premarital sex she is engaged to be married a a i went Back to the Kama Sutra masters and Johnson everything but i found out that nobody had studied this from the standpoint of Intercourse alone a Hayden says. Hayden says almost every woman in her Survey responded and most said they experienced their first orgasms. A a a i can to believe i said that by Kathie Lee Gifford with Jim Jerome Harvard pocket. Regis Philbin asks the obvious questions about Kathie Lee Giffords autobiography a Why is she writing this Book what the Heck is going on she a 39 years old. Whereas the drama what has she done what could she possibly know about life a he writes in the foreword. Then Philbin Giffords co Host on tvs live with Regis and Kathie Lee poses the Best question a a where a the ugly a Well Reese there a not much ugly in Kathie Leeds life. But who needs ugly when you know How to dish Kathie Lee can gab. And gab. About everything from her thighs a double trouble to breast feeding a a you re basically a cow. Her Book is a 300-Page Coffee klatch. Grab a big Mug of cafe Vienna and listen to Kathie Lee talk about her looks a you think its easy being married to a Man who a so much prettier than i am a the first time she saw her husband Frank Gifford a my new 20-20 eyes swept past an open dressing room a and locked on a Man with an incredible set of buns. That tight end was none other than Frank  the first time Frank kissed her a a tender devastating unbelievable unforgettable kiss. I was actually spinning so dramatic and intense was that one Brief kiss from Frank. A and then i barfed my brains out All night  How she counselled Marla Maples when Marla broke up with Donald Trump a a you la never be his salvation. The lord is. You can to be someone a salvation when you re sleeping with him. It Only confuses the  Kathie Lee also talks about her Happy childhood her born again Christian parents her beloved siblings. And the Small bits of a a ugly in her life a her unhappy first marriage her Sisters life threatening illness and her recent miscarriage. Of so Kathie Lee Gifford is not heavy. But she is charming. So charming that her Book is no. 5 on the new York times Best seller list. Jan Tuckwood Cox news service i St Sellers new York times list hardback fiction 1 Delores cd Slome by Stephen King Iasi week 1, weeks on list 3 2 mixed blessings by Danielle Elcel Iasi week 2. Weeks on list 5 3 Mexico by James a. 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