European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - November 21, 1973, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 18 the stars and stripes wednesday november 21, 1973 Tearonn Landers dear Ann Landers since i am a transvestite i know More about the subject than you do. If you Are willing to learn please read on. It s difficult maybe impossible for a male who does t have the urge to dress in women s clothes to understand what this does in the Way of relaxation and exhilaration. I have been doing it for 35 years and i can Tell you there is no feel ing to equal it. When i first started to dress up i was about 17. I used to Bor Row my Mother s clothes until i could afford to buy my own Ward Robe. I pretended i was Billie Dove Bebe Daniel Nancy Carroll or Clara Bow depend ing on my mood. This in t the same As a person who believes he s Napoleon. I always knew who i was but it was fun pre tending. In those flights of fantasy i was Able to relax completely. A couple of hours of make believe was like a weekend in the coun try. No one can Tell by looking at me that i am a transvestite. There in t a single clue that might give me away. So Ann Tell your readers that they never know who is doing what in his spare time. The Man you least suspect probably is. This week you can Call me Liz dear Liz thank you for an illuminating glance at life As some people live it. If dressing up in women s clothes does As much for you As a weekend in the coun try it s of with me. Dear Ann Landers it s too late to do anything about it this year but i Hope you will print my letter so i will know what to do next november. My husband and i have been married seven years and we have spent every thanks giving with his folks. I feel just terrible about this because i am the Only one of five married children who has yet to be seated at our family s thanks giving table. Furthermore my parents Are in their 70s and my husband s parents Are in their 50s. Without coming out and saying it you know what i m thinking. Thanksgiving dinner at my in Laws is a social affair. There Are always several business acquaintances and Golf and Canasta friends. They cocktail it up for at least an hour before dinner. By the time we sit Down everyone is pretty Well plastered. No one says a prayer of thanksgiving. It might As Well be halloween. Every year i have gone Home depressed with a sick head ache. But i Don t seem to be Able to win this Battle. I be been tempted to Tell my husband that he can go to his folks and i la go to mine but i just can t bring my self to do it. Married people be Long together on thanksgiving. I need your help Ann. Gobbled up dear gobbled you Don t say where you go for Christmas. Sometimes couples who have this problem Compromise. Start in july of next year to condition your husband to the idea that next thanksgiving is going to be spent with your parents. If he has t agreed by nov. 15, Tell him you Are going to your parents Home and he can go to his. C Field enterprises inc. Across1. Winter vehicle5. Greek god8. Painful 12. State Ofin Sensi bility13. Hebrew priest14. Romp 15. Moham Medan noble16. The Jung frau17. Ceremony 18. A North Ern sea 20. Slowed lands22. British statesman24. Sloth 25. Foot of an ape28. Rhetoric cal33. Indian 34. Swi Scanton 35. Eggs36. Resembling metal39. Armadel lo40. Traffic sign 41. King of israel43. Cylindrical in Cross section47. Those who Ponder 51. Black52. . Ii area54. A cheese55. City problem56. Yutang57. Firn 58. Hardens59. Woeful 60. Corner Down 1. Evidence of Healing 2. Broad topped hill3. Or. Lud wig4. Flitted 5. Irenic6. Entire amount7. East India Palm 8. Muscle injury 9. Fetid 10. New Zea land tree11. Ogles Lime of solution 26 Niin. Answer to yesterday s Puzzle. 19. Word in psychoanalysis 21. Scottish explorer 23. Under shot water wheel25. Drone 26. Consumed 27. Seine29. City in virginia30. Foolish fellow31. The Yel Low bugle32. Vehicle 37. Deputies38. Certain unit39. Away 42. Symbol for gold43. Hardy heroine44. Central american tree 45. Origin 46. Lampreys48. European river49. Rant 50. Pintail Duck 53. Aunt i Madrid today s crossword 12 15 18 25 33 43 55 58 26 44 22 37 40 19 38 13 16 28 46 56 59 23 53 20 29 47 21 24 42. 14 17 39 57 60 3o 35 46 10 49 u 50 Lett i z a r d p o g o a p a r t m e n t pivin6mlng,  us #6? Rasht up pouk5 Okay 3,000 contrary to what you think biology has nothing to to with being a Parent am i Peman to know who this character is what s your relation ship to him it s time for Mindy s Pinner amp time for you to leave i la answer that and and i Are going to be married i Pon t believe it you seem to forget that she s my pau6hter/ d o o n e s b u r pm rep. ,5ur�. I just fim Shep briefing Vbk body. If and in you 66t us through customs or All 60in6 to it pow new a at the Capitol. X Hope tall works out frankly. I m a Lime but work up i Don t knot a soul the and i hav no in a who All. 60in& to stay. Abb th5rb any 600p Refuge Camps in th5 hmm. Washington Arba