European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - June 3, 1990, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 12 a a a the stars and stripes sunday june 3,1990 be. Ask Carpenter sharing $42 million lottery with family from wire reports a Chicago family of carpenters Hung up their hammers for Good Friday after claiming a $42 million Illinois lotto Jackpot. Winners Edward and Dorothy Sher win formed the Sherwin family partnership to help share the wealth with the next two generations. Quot when we bought the tickets we always said wed share the winnings with the family a said Sherwin 70, a retired Carpenter from suburban Lombard. A a it a a family  Sherwin said he handled the news of his winnings calmly. He said he recalled saying a i done to believe  he then told his wife Dorothy who asked Quot did you Check the numbers a the numbers checked out and a then we finished our dinner a he said. They were joined at a news conference by their five children who brought their spouses and 16 grandchildren. The family members will split $2.1 million a minus $483,000 in state and Federal taxes a in payments each year for 20 years. Sherwin said he hoped the new riches  change his life too much. A fall i Ever asked was to be left alone a he said. Quot now All i want is for the family to stay the Way we were and not split  Only grandson Greg Sherwin a 20-year-old student at Depauw University could think of any Downside to the family a sudden wealth. Quot there goes financial Aid i guess Quot he said jokingly and promised never to Gripe again about  honoured Hayden Carruth won poetry a richest prize and he a going to use it to buy a new garage. He received the Ruth Lilly poetry prize of $25,000 in Chicago on Friday. A teacher in the graduate creative writing program at Syracuse . University Carruth 68, has published 26 books of poetry fiction and criticism. Most of his poems Are about Rural life in Vermont where he lived for 20 years before moving to Syracuse. In an interview he said the prize came out of the Blue and his garage was falling Down. A revision of his Long poem a the sleeping Beauty is to be published this year by Copper Canyon press and he is finishing a collection of prose for the w my of Al Jet a Edward and Dorothy Sherwin kiss their 10-month-old grandson Edward. University of Michigan press. The award he received established four years ago by the philanthropist Niece of Eli Lilly is Given by the modern poetry association which publishes poetry Magazine and the american Council for the  has surgery Hamish Maxwell chairman of the worlds largest tobacco company and a constant user of its product for Many years was scheduled to be released from a new York Hospital saturday eight Days after he underwent elective coronary bypass surgery. The chairman of Philip Morris cos., Maxwell 63, was not ill before his hospitalization a company spokesman said although he had a High cholesterol  goes Home there were a few fast words at the Palace in Auburn Hills mich., but not from the a bad a Detroit pistons. Blame another Hometown favorite this time Madonna. A what Are you doing trying to make me look bad to my Hometown a the Singer joked As she tussle with two women backup singers during her sold out show. A what does a girl from Detroit know to do she knows How to  during her one hour 40-minute performance thursday night Madonna put on the usual moves with spirited dancing and Ever changing revealing costumes. The concert was part of her a Blond ambition tour. The 31-year-old Singer and actress graduated from suburban Detroit a Rochester Adams High school and attended the University of Michigan before heading to new York City to pursue a career in show  lends a hand Charley Pride says he can relate to flood victims in Texas Liberty county because his boyhood Home in Mississippi was also flooded. A i remember my dad taking me on his Bike and getting us to higher ground. We had floodwater coming up to our House a the country Singer said thursday after touring the area. Pride who serves As National entertainment chairman for the red Cross surveyed the length of the flooded Trinity River and later visited a family assistance Center in Hardin. He helped red Cross volunteers fill out forms and distribute cleanup kits or provisions to flood victims. A it just hurts to see a he said. A a it a not like i Haven to experienced it myself. Its not like wondering How it feels. I come from that kind of background. You know Shotgun houses and snakes and ants and it  Pride gave autographs and in some cases signed the cardboard assistance packages handed out to victims at the  film history Here a a Brief history of Errol Morris new film the director of the acclaimed documentary a the thin Blue line wanted to make a film based on the True Story of the theft of Albert einsteins brain and approached Steven Spielberg a production company amb Lin entertainment. Also talking to ambling was producer Gordon Freedman who acquired the right to physicist Stephen Hawkings Best Selling a a Brief history of  Spielberg liked the idea and quickly decided on the Ideal director Morris. Morris had studied history and science at Princeton University but Wasny to interested at first. He changed his mind after Reading the Book. A i thought it was an Opportunity to push documentaries a non fiction filmmaking a even further than i May have pushed in my previous films a Morris said in fridays editions of the new York times. A i was very moved by hawking As a scientist and As a Man a Morris said of the author who suffers from Lou Gehrig a disease a a he a a truly wonderful  Morris said he used More than 30 sets for the film and will begin editing in the  in the new Maria Felix one of Mexico a greatest film stars has emptied her Paris apartment of a rare collection of Napoleon Iii furnishings and Knickknacks to be auctioned this week. An avid Art collector who has lived in France for Many years Felix said she decided to clean out her apartment a to make room for something  the collection to be sold wednesday at the hotel Georges a includes furniture in the heavy ornate Napoleon Iii style bib lots in Mother of Pearl and rare chandeliers with Floral decorations in coloured Glass dating from the mid-1800s. Felix was known for her striking Beauty and Strong will. Born in 1919, she made her film debut at age 14 and went on to co Star with some of Frances great leading men Yves Montand Gerard Philippe and Jean Gabin. She retired from films in 1969. Dear Abby it happened again last night. It must be a the place to meet and talk on several otherwise excellent to shows. In a referring to the menus restroom. The most offensive show in this respect is . Law a and now the premiere of a capital news a too. I am very uncomfortable and offended while watching to with friends or Young people when men arc filmed literally going through the motions of using the urinal As they talk to one another. On . Law last week two men in two stalls dropped their pants and tossed toilet paper Between stalls a All the while the camera photographed this from the floor. Is this really an acceptable area for filming i find it very embarrassing to have to share in such a private or it should be act. Abby you have More clout than viewers boycotting advertised products. What is your opinion i done to think in a a prude i just believe this is in extremely dear Abby poor taste. A Midwest . And mom dear Midwest . I agree with you and i done to consider myself a prude either. Perhaps we re Lucky. It could have been worse. Dear Abby i need your help concerning something that happened to me Many years ago. I am now 23 years old and have a very Good memory. The trouble started when i was about 3 or 4 years old. My Grandfather would pick me up and put me on his Lap then after a while he would put his hand under my dress and rub me in a private place. With a Little girls mind and because i was so fond of him i never thought he would do anything wrong. I would tolerate it As Long As i could then id get Down. This went on until i was about 7 years old. I remember trying to stay off his Lap because it made me feel uncomfortable and ashamed. When i was 10, my Grandfather died. I kept remembering what he had done to me and i  bring myself to feel sad. Meanwhile my Mother loved her father very much and cried for a Long time every time his name was mentioned. Once she asked me if i Ever thought of grandpa and if i missed him. That really got to me Abby because i remember what a terrible thing he did to me and i was glad i did no to have to sit on his Lap. Should i Tell my Mother what happened and destroy the Good memories she has of her father or keep it to myself since he is now dead he does no to Deseive to be Well thought of after violating my body As a child but i done to want to Hurt my Mother. What should i do a a a bitter memories dear bitter memories Call the toll free National child abuse hotline 800 422-4453. In addition to information and referral services Telephone crisis counselling is provided to child abuse victims abusers and others closely involved in such situations. Your local mental health society can recommend a therapist who specializes in counselling adults who have been molested As very Young children and still Harbor the bitter memories of sexual abuse. Counselling will help you work through these painful memories so that you can finally put them to rest. No Good purpose would be served in telling your Mother. C Universal press Syndicate