European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - October 9, 1994, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 20 the stars and stripes faces a no places sunday october 9,1994. Copying up Larry King left and Marion Brando prepare to kiss during a break in the airing of can s Quot Larry King live Quot on Friday in los Angeles. Brando s appearance was the first live interview he has granted in Many years. His autobiography Quot Brando songs my Mother taught me has recently been published1halloween mask could be a killer from wire reports Call it bad taste or just Plain disgusting but one of the hottest Selling halloween items in the country is a mask bearing the likeness of o j. Simpson. Ragtop Vintage a costume shop in Fullerton calif., received its first shipment earlier last week and promptly sold out store manager Victor Pahl said. He noted Friday that a fresh order is once again Selling fast. The leathery masks depicting the football legend who is accused of murdering his sex wife and her Friend go for $20 each. Shakur escapes charges tupac shakur the rapper with a rap Sheet has one less court Date to worry about. Prosecutors in Atlanta said Friday that they were dropping aggravated assault charges against shakur because of conflicting statements by witnesses the charges stemmed from an oct. 31, 1993, shooting in downtown Atlanta in which shakur exchanged gunfire with two off duty Clay ton county police officers. Shakur. 23, claimed that he fired in self defense. One of the officers Mark Whitwell was charged in the Case and has since resigned from the Clayton county police. Charges against him also were dismissed Friday. Shakur who starred in the movies poetic Justice and juice still faces sentencing in Michigan on an assault charge. He is accused in new York of holding a woman Down while his Friend sodomized her. Tonya s fan club disbands talk about thin ice. Even Tonya Harding a fan club is deserting her. The club president Elaine Stamm said the group is shutting Down after the figure skater demanded All its Money for her new venture Tonya a Golden Blades. The club will be disbanded by the end of the month. Iacocca s wife seeks divorce Lee Iacocca s third wife has filed for divorce in la its Angeles citing irreconcilable differences. Darrin Iacocca a former  restaurateur and gourmet Cook is seeking a portion of her multimillionaire husbands assets including property jewelry and Bank  dear Ann Landers. A october is National breast cancer awareness month. Please print this letter and urge All women 50 or older to do something simple to fight breast cancer a get a yearly Mammogram. / breast cancer is a leading cause of death among women in America. This year alone about 180,000 women will get breast cancer and 46,000 will die from it. Despite these chilling statistics most women whose breast cancer was found Early Are alive and Well. A Mammogram is the Best Ann Landers Way to detect breast cancer Long before any symptoms develop or lumps can be Felt. The machines being used today can find lumps the size of a Pinhead up to two years before they can be Felt. Unfortunately Only 20 percent of women 65 and older have yearly mammograms. This is particularly dangerous because the risk of breast cancer increases with age a even if there is no family history of the disease. Women 65 and older Are twice As Likely to get breast cancer than those younger than 65, in fact about 48 percent of All breast cancer cases and 55 percent of All breast cancer deaths occur in women 65 and older. Ask your Mother or grandmother if she a had a Mammogram. If not offer to make an appointment and go with her. A a a a a a a a Many women Are concerned about the Cost of a Mammogram. Medicare now covers most of the Cost of a Mammogram every other year for women 65 and older. There Are also health service agencies that provide mammograms free or it Low Cost. If readers would like More information on mammography or How to find a local facility or have questions about breast cancer they can Call the american cancer society at 1-800-acs-2345 weekdays or write the National Alliance of breast cancer organizations 9 East 37th st., 10th floor new York by 10016. Kaye Mcintyre executive director elderly health screening service Waterbury Conn. Dear Kaye Mcintyre thanks for the information. You be done a real Public service today. Dear Ann Landers i dated a a Tony for almost three years before we married. We had a big Catholic wedding. After six months of marriage my husband left me for a Man. Now in a labelled a Divorcee. Any advice or me heartbroken in Florida dear Florida please go see the priest who performed your marriage ceremony. There May be a Chance that your mar Rigac can be annulled. Letters to Ann Landers should be addressed to her at . Box 11562, Chicago. Ill. 60611-0562. A a. C creators Syndicate a. Dear Abby 1 am an attorney in Minnesota and for the past five years have had a substantial family Law practice in be had sonic interesting cases where parents have been very bitter and the divorces have been lengthy due to child custody or visitation arguments. 1 recently participated in a very difficult hearing after which judge Haas of Walker Minn., provided some of the most profound words of Wisdom in be Ever heard from the Bench in All my years As an attorney. His philosophy could provide insight to All parents especially Liliose who arc involved in difficult dissolution. I am enclosing a copy of a portion of the transcript. Paul j. Kiltinen attorney at Law Baxter Minn. Dear or. Kiltinen. T Many divorcing parents could learn from the Wise words of judge Haas and Here they Are a your children have come into this world because of the two of you. Perhaps you two made Lousy choices As to who you decided to be the other Parent. If so that is your problem and your fault. A no matter what you think of the other party a or dear Abby what your family thinks of the other party a those children arc one half of each of you. Remember that because every time you Tell your child what an idiot his father is or what a fool his Mother is or How bad the absent Parent is or what terrible things that person has done you Are telling the child that half of him is bad. A that is an unforgivable thing to do to a child. That is not love it is Possession. If you do that to your children you will destroy them As surely As if you had Cut them into pieces because that is what you Are doing to their emotions a i sincerely Hope you done to do that to your children. Think More about your children and less of yourselves and make yours a selfless kind of love not foolish or selfish or the will  dear Abby i am a wife and the Mother of three healthy Active children Ages 8, 6 and s1/. 1 am Short tempered and easily angered but get Over it quickly. I sent for your Booklet the anger m All of us and How to Deal w7rh if and i Learned a great Deal from it. This paragraph describes me perfectly a i doubt if there is a Mother alive who has not done or  to her child in anger. One need not lift a hand to Hurt a child. Words can Cut As sharply As a knife. A i hate you a a you Are stupid a a i wish you had never been born a a Abby i actually screamed those very words at my 8-year-old son. I used some of your suggestions on How to control my temper. At first i thought they were too simplistic but i put them to use when i Felt i   i put my hands Over my Mouth took a deep breath and slowly counted to 10. It calmed me Down and kept me from hitting my 6-year-old. Another time i phoned my Best Friend and told her i was angry at my kids and called her to help me Cool off. She laughed and said a keep talking Honey. I May Call you when one of my kids makes me crazy a _ Abby i just had to write to Tell you that your Angr Booklet has been a Lifesaver for me. If you print this please done to use my name. My husband is a paediatrician. ,. R. A grateful Reader dear grateful in new Jersey thank you. The positive feedback i have received trom those who have read my Booklet. I m glad i could help.  shout bed a p. By a a. C Universal press Syndicate