European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - May 27, 1990, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 12 a a a the stars and stripes sunday May 27, 1990 faces v place Newmon has triple role husband dad speaker from w ire reports Paul Newman was t Only the commencement speaker Friday at Sarah Lawrence College in Bronxville . He was a proud husband and father who watched his wife and daughter receive Bachelor s degrees. Actress Joanne Woodward who squeezed More than a decade of study into her Busy professional life to receive her degree Drew applause from 285 graduates and More than 3,000 spectators when she kissed her Blue eyed husband before them. Newman peppered his 20-minute speech with anecdotes about his life and the creation of his salad dressing lie urged the crowd to pay attention to the spirit of Community. Quot Community happens the instant two like minded individuals build something for someone else address a grievance take a  he said. 1 he actor said last year s pro democracy demonstrations in China and the tumbling of the Berlin Wail were examples of what can come of belief in Community. After daughter Clea Olivia Newman received her degree no Wortan Rose from his chair on the stage and gave her a hug and a kiss. 1 to years ago Pussy Newman another daughter of the newmans received her degree from the Small Liberal arts College in Westchester county just North of new  Wec a gov. Gaston Caperton and Wheeling symphony conductor Rachael Worby were married Friday evening in the wailed Back Yard of the governor s mansion in Charleston . A handful of close relatives and friends attended the wedding the second trip to the altar for both Bride and Groom. Bill Drennen commissioner of culture and history who holds a $2 License from the Universal life Church performed the ceremony. Caperton and Worby wrote their own vows Drennen said. Caperton 50, wore a Blue suit. Worby 41. Wore a w Hite Linen suit. The couple planned to stay in Charleston on saturday for the Vandalia gathering an annual state festival at the Capitol t Hen head to the Greenbrier luxury resort Lor a Brief honeymoon. They very nearly missed their wedding Date arriving at the Kanawha. Minty clerks office at 4 . Friday to gel the marriage License. Quot i forgot about having to get it Quot the governor said. A judge waived the three Day waiting period required by state Law. Caperton and his wife of 23 years were divorced last year Worby and her husband of 18 months also were divorced last  pleads innocent a woman accused of invading the Home of Quot Cagney and Lacey Quot Star Sharon Gless and barricading herself inside a bathroom for seven hours pleaded innocent to a felony burglary charge in san Fernando Calif. Joni Leigh Penn 30, of Garden Grove entered her plea thursday before a municipal court judge who set trial for july 12. If convicted she could be sentenced to five years in prison. Penn armed with a .22-caliber semiautomatic Rifle and 500 rounds of ammunition allegedly broke into the actress studio City Home on March 30. The actress Wasny to Home at the time. Authorities said Penn had been obsessed with the actress for years. She had mailed hundreds of letters to Gless who obtained a restraining order barring the woman from coming near her. Penn allegedly planned to commit suicide after sexually assaulting Gless investigators said. During Pennis preliminary hearing police officer John p. Anderson testified that she said a if i can to have her nobody  wins award soviet president Mikhail s. Gorbachev was named Friday As the recipient of the Martin Luther King or. Nonviolent peace prize. The award will be presented to Gorbachev on june 1 at the soviet embassy in Washington said Coretta Scott King chief executive officer of the King Center and widow of the slain civil rights Leader for whom the prize is named. Quot no world Leader has done More than president Gorbachev to de escalate the arms race and pave the Way for greater democracy and economic Freedom around the world a mrs. King said in Atlanta. The annual award includes a medal bearing the likeness of King a citation and a $ 1,000  professor named poet Mark strand an English professor at the University of Utah was named Friday As the poet laureate consultant in poetry at the Library of Congress. Strand who also is a Short Story writer editor translator and author of children s books will Start his one year assignment in september. He will receive $35,000 to give a poetry Reading and a lecture during the year to work with students and to and Joanne Woodward is congratulated by husband Paul Newman after she received her a from Sarah Lawrence College. Vise librarian of Congress Janies h. Billington on new Library acquisitions. He will succeed poet Howard Neme Rov who served for two years. The position of consultant in poetry was created 54 years ago but Congress voted in 1985 to expand the title to designate its Holder As the equivalent of poet laureate of the United states. Since then four poets have been named As poet laureate consultant in poetry at the libary. Besides strand and Nemerov they were the late Robert Penn Warren and Richard Wilbur. Strand has published seven collections of poetry. His eighth a the continuous life a is to be released in october. A former Fulbright scholar strand taught at 14 colleges and universities including Harvard Yale and Princeton before he joined the University of Utah faculty in Salt Lake City in 1981,it was Tough telling dad Vanessa Williams who lost the 1984 miss America Crown when it was disclosed that she had posed nude for Penthouse Magazine says in a new Magazine interview that relinquishing the title a was like a death in the  people sent Flowers. The press camped out on our Lawn. People Spray painted obscenities on the driveway of the local a amp the first Black miss America said in the june Issue of gentlemen a quarterly. A but the hardest part was telling my parents about the pictures a she said. A i cried and told them i was sorry. They said there was nothing to be sorry about. Williams has since developed a musical career. She achieved a breakthrough in 1988 with the release of her rhythm and blues album a the right stuff a which featured three hit  cancels Paul Mccartney has cancelled an appearance at the Yale bowl in new Haven conn., in deference to area resale who bitterly opposed the concert. Mayor John Daniels initially banned the concert citing the residents concerns but later changed his mind after the promoters agreed to meet a Long list of conditions. Tho concert had been set for late Ivy it Mccartney a manager Rich a Ogden said Friday it had been shelved. Paul is very sensitive to Community concerns of this sort and has no desire to be the catalyst for such a deep and divisive controversy within the City a Ogden said. Dear Abby my husband and i have been married for eight years. I love him very much but at times i do not like him very much. Before we were married we knew we had different interests and were labelled opposites by everyone who knew us 1 am a very Active person 1 am an aerobics instructor and also teach dancing. 1 love to work outdoors in our Garden. My husband does no to do any kind of exercise. He comes Home eats dinner then sits to front of the to until he Falls asleep a have to Wake him up so he can sleep the rest of the night in our bed he rarely helps me with the household chores on weekends he follows the same Lazy routine. Needless to say he is not in very Good shape physically he needs to lose about 25 pounds. His doctor has also told him that his blood pressure is too High for a Man his age he a 31. He blames his High blood pressure on his Job. He a in sales every time 1 mention an exercise program we can do together he gets angry and we end up not talking to dear Abby each other. Please advise me Abby. He a really a wonderful guv and i love him dearly. 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