European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - August 4, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 14 a the stars and stripes sunday August 4, 1991faces no places so to open new doors in new York from wire reports a Little less than a year after becoming the chairman of the Uso of metropolitan new York Oliver m. Mendell is looking Forward to the opening of its new Home. The new Center at 151 w. 46th st., will open next month when the organization celebrates its 50th anniversary. The Uso a non profit organization financed by contributions from businesses and individuals welcomes members of the armed services providing such an entities As free food and tickets to the theater movies and sporting events. It is now located at Broadway and 41st Street. A they can sit and rest their tired tootsies a Mendell said Friday. Volunteers meet every american military ship that comes to new York giving Crews maps showing where to go and where not to. During flee it week and new Yorkus Welcome Home festivities for the troops from the persian Gulf which coincided in june the Center had nearly 7,000 s Eraser jaws Kathleen Turner used an old trick to develop her deep sexy drawl she put erasers in her Mouth to make it bigger. A a there san old exercise it sounds silly but it works to take Pencil erasers put them in your Back Teeth and you can feel How that stretches the whole Back of your Mouth a she said in a taped segment for fridays the Oprah Winfrey show. The. 37-year-old actress said she started the practice while in College. A i was very fervent then a she said. A i wanted More president to visit . Ireland a first woman president Mary Robinson will spend a Day in Boston and meet informally with Irish immigrants in october during her first official . Tour. The human rights lawyer also is to receive an honorary degree from Brown University in Providence r.i., and visit los Angeles san Francisco and Chicago during her 10-Day visit. On oct. 20, Robinson is tentatively scheduled to attend mass have lunch at the John f. Kennedy Library and visit with mayor Raymond l. Flynn at the Boston Ireland ventures annual Trade festival said Geoffrey Keating Irish vice Consul. Keating said she also will attend a reception to meet informally with members of the Irish Community. Robinson who was elected president in november studied at Harvard Law school in Cambridge mass., in the late 1960s.hoopin it up Dessi Kehaiov twirls 75 Huta hoops reportedly breaking the guinness Book of world records for women. Kehaiov a performer with Ringling Bros. And bar num amp Bailey circus performed the feat wednesday in a Century City shopping Center in los slant i the latest in pop ideology touted by Jane Fonda a former husband Tom Hayden is environmentalism with a dose of old time religion. That is the topic of a College course to be taught this fall by Hayden a democratic assemblyman and environmental activist at Santa Monica Calif College. Hayden decided to teach the course after returning from a Winter trip to an Amazon Forest. His View is that since government and environmentalists Haven succeeded in protecting the Earth people May need to Call on a higher Power. A we need to see nature As having a sacred Quality so we Revere it and Are in Awe of it a Hayden said. A that forms a Barrier to greed and exploitation and overuse and that comes from a religious perspective. A we need that argument that its gods will a Hayden said. People May change their wasteful ways More quickly if they realize that god considers pollution a sin he added the 16-week course which ranges from genesis to the spiritualism of american indians and romantics such As Walt Whitman begins next month at the schools psychology department. Ff""3 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i Hope i can put into words my personal theory on Date rape. Although i am presenting a male viewpoint i am not saying a she asked for no female in the world should be forced to have sex against her will. But when a couple is alone a in a dormitory room a Motel the Back seat of a car or wherever a and they be finished discussing Plato and progressed from hand holding to kissing to heavy petting certain things become obvious. There is no hiding a Many a arousal. Usually the female enjoys bringing it on every bit As much As the Man enjoys the experience. It is All part of human nature. The problem is that with Many men there is Only one Way to end arousal and that is ejaculation. At the height of ecstasy does the female partner think the Man is going to excuse himself go into the bathroom and take a cold Shower no Way. He wants the final act. My Point i will probably get in trouble with the ladies but its because i give them More credit than i give men that i say this. If the female partner has made up her mind that there is not going to be penetration she should put a Stop to the proceedings at the very first sign of male arousal. A female who does no to want the total sexual experience should have healthy respect for a flashing red warning Light. If she goes beyond this Point she could be in trouble. W.b., Brookline mass. Dear Brookline i will probably get in trouble with a the ladies a too but i see a great Deal of logic in what you have said. It would be a insult to women to assume that they arc so weak stupid or helpless that they cannot get across the message a i done to want to have sex with you and i mean Stop right this if a Man persists in spite of a woman a protestations and she Means what she says she should get up immediately and kick him out of her place or leave his. I am Well aware that in some cases no amount of protestation does any Good. A Man who is intent on getting what he wants May rape a woman and there is nothing she can do to Stop him. The female who agrees to hours of petting but does not want to Complete the sex act is asking for trouble and she will probably get it. The notion that a woman has the right to change her mind after two hours of passionate stimulation May be legally sound but it flies in the face of the most Basic facts of procreation and biological human drives. Readers if you disagree with my thinking i am willing to listen to yours. Dear Ann Landers your Zipper Story reminded me of one that made the rounds 50 years ago when zippers first became popular. A Mother was buying a pair of trousers for her Young son. The clerk showed her the newest style with a zippered Fly. The horrified woman exclaimed a ooh no done to show me any trousers with a Zipper a a but Madame a the clerk continued a this is the very the mom quickly replied a i know but i bought him a sweater with a Zipper a few weeks ago and you should see what it did to his in 1940, this joke was considered quite naughty. Today it could be part of a to sitcom. Print it will you Alsofrom Iowa dear also you bet. Here it is. C creators Syndicate dear Abby More than a year ago you published a letter from a Mac in he told you about his life and his Battle with cancer and said he hoped his wife would her life alone after he died. Well Mac lost his Battle May 30. He fought Long enough to show great courage but not so Long As to destroy those he loved. He was As unselfish in death As he was in life. I knew Mac for 42 years. He taught me Abo Uuie love truth and mercy and left me and others with Sweet memories and a treasure trove of lessons about what is truly important. He Wasny to Rich powerful or famous but he was my dad. Rest in peace. Mac a we love you still. Tim Mcswain Lincoln Park . Dear Tim my Heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. And now As a tribute to Mac in a reprinting your fathers letter that appeared in my column on april 24, 1990 dear Abby thank you Lor supporting the widow who started Dat dear Abby ing three months after her husband died. You were right to say a the time to show respect for ones spouse is while that spouse is Here is my Story and there must be thousands of husbands and wives who feel As i do. My wife and i had Many Good years together we raised kids lived through joyous Good times and horrendous bad times. 1 am in my 18th month of chemotherapy for various cancers. I May live three months or five years. It does no to matter How Short or Long my life will be but its reasonable to assume that i will die before my wife have had a More rewarding and fruitful life than i probably deserve for which i am grateful. But the Day i die my last thoughts will be regret that i shall leave her alone. Its sad to know that after so Many months of total concentration on my welfare a Days of putting up with my misery and never letting me see her own misery a her Reward will be to be left alone. Abby she is not the kind of person who should be alone. So i Tell her now and i want my kids and All my friends to listen a was soon As you possibly can after throwing my ashes off the boat into the Pacific wrap the memories of our life together around you a and begin a new life. If three Days or three months after i m gone you find a Man who will love and cherish you for a few years As i have for so Many a go for it you be earned no adult a a Mac in Oregon dear Mac your sincerity rings True leaving me uncharacteristically speechless. Thanks for a two Hankie letter. Dear Abby you have stated twice in your column that both of the Wright Brothers were bachelors. Wilbur Wright died at the age of 45, a Bachelor. Or or t0 77 years old and married late in l my. W was no As As he was but they had no children. You were Correct in stating that the Wright Brothers do not have any direct descendants. Helen l. Thomas dear ii Len l. Thomas not to be confused with Helen Thomas Veteran White House correspondent for United press International thank you for attempting to set the record straight. T no new encyclopedia Britannica volume 19, Page ,033, states a both the Brothers died c Universal press Syndicate
