European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - March 19, 1992, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Thursday March 19, 1992 the stars and stripes a Page 15 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i would like your advice. Should i mind my own business or is my mothers health my business mom is 61 years old and extremely overweight. She has gout and High blood pressure and she smokes like a Chimney. Her doctor also is overweight and is never without a cigarette in his Mouth. A Cdr. Jones is known for writing prescriptions rather than taking the time to talk to his patients about their ailments or whatever might be bothering them. He has Mother taking water pills sleeping pills heart pills and High blood pressure pills. She has had bronchitis for several Days so or. Jones has added antibiotics and cough syrup to the list. This last week she has been coughing a lot and is too weak to get out of bed. We Are worried sick about her. My Sisters and i have tried for years to get mom to go to another doctor but she says a Why should i or. Jones is just  of course the reason she does no to want another physician is because he or she would insist on some changes. Its very hard to remain silent and watch mom go downhill. Before its too late i need reassurance from you that there is nothing i can do or encouragement to raise hell and insist that mom change doctors. What do you say Ann Lancaster a. Today s crossword dear Abby dear Abby your statement a no always Means no a is sound advice when it comes to sexual favors. However your statement a being married to a person does not entitle one to sexual favors is misleading. Persistent and unjustifiable refusal to engage in marital relations by either spouse could be considered desertion abandonment or cruel and inhuman treatment thereby establishing grounds for divorce. Since the Law varies from state to state the factual circumstances of a particular Case would be controlling. Perhaps you should have mentioned that. K. Karl Spalvins attorney at Law Knoxville Tenn. Dear attorney Spalvins the key words in your statement Are a a persistent and a unjustifiable a in which Case i would have to agree with you a and the Law. I said a both parties must be willing a or its no  if either party is too tired too angry or just a not in the mood for love occasionally its understandable and therefore forgivable. When sex is forced it is humiliating and traumatic a and the Law Calls it a spousal  dear Abby i have a Boyfriend problem. He keeps promising me that we will get married. Well we now have a 3-month dear Lancaster you cannot Force a 61-year-old woman to do something she does no to want to do but you can and should let or. Jones have it with both barrels. Tell him your Mother is in terrible shape and As her physician its up to him to lower the Boom and insist that she quit smoking and stick to a diet. You should also ask if he s aware of How much Medicine she is taking and if she really needs All that stuff. I want to use the occasion of your letter to remind my readers that entirely too Many people Are taking too much Medicine and believe it or not the reason is doctors Are failing to Tell them to Stop. If you suspect this is what a happening to you Call your doctor and ask if you should still be taking the Medicine he prescribed a while ago and if so when you can Stop. Dear Ann Landers i am a salesperson in a fashionable specially store. I cannot pay my Bills this week because of a  1 work on commission and one of our local socialites bought a $3,000 dress from me two weeks ago. She wore it to a party and then returned it. The store will take Back my $300 commission. The woman who did this is a thief. She has taken $300 out of my pocket. Down and out in Dallas dear Dallas what a cheap trick. C creators Syndicate old son and we Arentt married yet. We have been together a year and three months. I set a Date that we both agree on then he Breaks it off and delays our wedding. What should i do needs help in Ohio dear needs help face it your Boyfriend the father of your son is not ready for marriage. However whether or not he is a ready for marriage a he has a Legal obligation to contribute to the support of his son according to the Laws of your state. You Are foolish to believe a fellow who consistently Breaks his promises. It would appear that his son May grow up before he docs. Dear Abby i sure enjoyed those letters from people who told about receiving gifts that had telltale signs of having been used. My Cousin received a cookie Jar As a wedding Shower gift. When she got it Home she noticed some cookie crumbs at the Bottom. A Friend of mine told me she received a steam Iron for a wedding present. It was in a regular Carton taped shut like Brand new items come in but when she took it out of the Carton to use it it had water in it in a sure others have had similar experiences. Have you Abby me in Lansing Mich. Dear me Only once. 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